Shakazulu

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An old family friend wants me to be a groomsmen at her wedding. I haven't spoken to her in years, the weddings in a month, I won't know anyone there and I have my own schedule (Goals) 

- I have to give up two whole Saturdays for practice 

- and an extra saturday for the actual wedding day 

I already stated I'm not interested, am I being selfish? 

 

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Sounds like a "The more the merrier" kind of thing, it doesn't sound like it would be that big of a deal if you didn't go, especially since you have other things going on. 


"You can't handle the truth!" - Jack Nicholson --- Col. Nathan R. Jessep

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Since you have not spoken to her in years, it seems to me that you and the family member do not have a close relationship. Therefore, it would be socially acceptable imo to decline her suggestion if you have other plans. So I agree with @Truth

 

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