Women shaming men for being attracted to/dating younger women

[LordFall]

25 minutes ago, Valach said:

You have completely ignored the point.

No, I didn't ignore your point; I'm rejecting the premise behind it. It's setting up a false binary where platonic friendship is treated as the noble goal, while sexual attraction and polarity are downgraded as shallow or hedonistic.

Like I said I think it's an interesting and valuable idea to think about if you truly appreciate this the person you're dating and would hang out with them beyond sex but overall subtracting attraction to test whether a romantic dynamic is valid doesn't hold up to scrutiny. 

Edited 4 hours ago by LordFall

[Never_give_up]

If it is legal then I don't care. Let them shame me. These evil people want to control you by shaming you, I won't do them the favour.

[Ulax]

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

That reaction is a classic tell. When people get aggressively moralistic about what consenting adults choose to do behind closed doors, it’s worth asking a simple question: do you actually have an abundance of high-quality options in your own dating life, or are you just masking your personal scarcity and frustration with righteous outrage?

Shaming people for building unconventional, fulfilling dynamics is usually just a coping mechanism for a mediocre dating market experience.

fr the cope is crazyyyyy

[Jodistrict]

This is a cultural thing.  There are other cultures that don't mak a big deal out of age.  My ex-wife is 20 years younger than me. 

[Lyubov]

yall I can see why you guys scared Emerald off 😭

Edited 2 hours ago by Lyubov