Matt Artisan got KNEED during a set

[Emotionalmosquito]

It’s undoubtedly a living nightmare for a lot of guys. Picture this: You’re having a playful game of thumb war with a girl who’s had a bit to drink. You decide to cheat by using an extra finger. Instead of saying “Hey! No fair, you jerk!” Or maybe cheating back herself like any level headed woman would, she suddenly kicks a knee up and just nukes your whole frame to ashes temporarily. Maybe her and a friend giggles like it was a joke while you’re waddling away basically fighting for your life. 
 

I think Matt did a pretty good job making the best of it, but he should have pressed charges. Any man who did something equivalent to a woman in that scene would be facing some heavy consequences. 
 

How would you guys proceed in this situation? Would you return to the same girl after riding out the pain and tease her about it somehow? Maybe self deprecate? Would you do what Matt did? Would you call the cops and have them pull up the camera footage to have her arrested and tried for assault and battery? Start wearing a cup during pickup practice from then on? 
 

This post isn’t meant to be fear mongering. I know this reaction from women is probably more on the rare side unless you give them a very good reason. (At least I sure as hell hope it is) That being said, it obviously does happen sometimes. So that’s what I’m curious about. My lowkey fear of this happening has also compelled me to ask:  

Has anyone seen this happen during a night out?

Has it happened to you god forbid? Has anyone overheard a girl threatening to do it/mentioning doing it or has it been threatened to you? 

If so, what was the context? 
 

 

 

 

 

[aurum]

13 minutes ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

This post isn’t meant to be fear mongering. I know this reaction from women is probably more on the rare side unless you give them a very good reason. (At least I sure as hell hope it is) That being said, it obviously does happen sometimes. So that’s what I’m curious about. My lowkey fear of this happening has also compelled me to ask:  

Has anyone seen this happen during a night out?

Has it happened to you god forbid? Has anyone overheard a girl threatening to do it/mentioning doing it or has it been threatened to you? 

If so, what was the context? 

This is a freak situation.

I did get kicked in the nuts one time by a girl in grade school, but that's it.

It's not even worth worrying about.

[integral]

14 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

she suddenly kicks a knee up and just nukes your whole frame to ashes temporarily. Maybe her and a friend giggles like it was a joke while you’re waddling away basically fighting for your life. 

A lot of women didn't grow up as kids with brothers and they never did play fighting. They never played in the mud, played in the sand pit, never did wrestling. A lot of these physical activity, they never did it. single children

So they don't understand physical contact. lol They're also conditioned by culture to romanticize slapping a man. Every movie has a woman slapping a man and It's this justified heroic thing.

Edited 7 hours ago by integral

[Leo Gura]

I got punched by a girl in the mouth. It happens. Don't make a big deal of it.

[Olaf]

@Emotionalmosquito I have approached many woman and this never happend to me the worst that I got was "I am gonna smack you too" because she was in a discussion/fight with someone, but then of course I am not gonna continue the conversation like an idiot. So I think you probably got to be an absolute idiot to get kicked in the balls by a girl or you have no intuition to feel when a girl is not someone you should to talk to. This is also why you got to follow your intuition with these things. But after all this will happen almost never so why even care about it, like why even think about a solution for a problem that doesn't exist. It is like trying to stop Tornado's in France, there are no tornado's in France  so what is there to fix. Girls don't randomly kick a guy, it always has to do with something, a fight she had before, she had bad energy or you are being an idiot or you are drunk, its always bullshit happening to people who are drunk and low vibrational, in a way they deserve it, because if you need alcohol to get the balls to approach you are weak. 

[Emotionalmosquito]

21 hours ago, aurum said:

This is a freak situation.

I did get kicked in the nuts one time by a girl in grade school, but that's it.

It's not even worth worrying about.

What about the other thing? Would you just let her get away with it if that happened now?

[Leo Gura]

@Emotionalmosquito It is important to learn de-escalation. Like police do. Don't feed into aggression. Learn how to speak to people respectfully even if they are hostile.

Edited 36 minutes ago by Leo Gura

[Emotionalmosquito]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

I got punched by a girl in the mouth. It happens. Don't make a big deal of it.

I remember you saying that several years back. I asked if you pursued charges and you said you’ve got bigger fish to fry. That’s fair enough if you’re someone who’s completely unbothered by it. In my paradigm it’s very necessary to have her face legal justice lest she continues lashing out physically and does so on the wrong guy eventually. 

[Olaf]

@Emotionalmosquito but why care honestly? This just sounds like an excuse to not approach or something, because a girl might hit you hahaha

2 minutes ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

I remember you saying that several years back. I asked if you pursued charges and you said you’ve got bigger fish to fry. That’s fair enough if you’re someone who’s completely unbothered by it. In my paradigm it’s very necessary to have her face legal justice lest she continues lashing out physically and does so on the wrong guy eventually. 

 

[Emotionalmosquito]

7 hours ago, integral said:

So they don't understand physical contact. lol They're also conditioned by culture to romanticize slapping a man. 

True. Luckily I’m sure getting slapped is way more likely to happen than what I’m worried about. It would be like comparing an airsoft hit to a rubber bullet or beanbag gun. 

 

 

[Leo Gura]

15 minutes ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

I remember you saying that several years back. I asked if you pursued charges and you said you’ve got bigger fish to fry. That’s fair enough if you’re someone who’s completely unbothered by it. In my paradigm it’s very necessary to have her face legal justice lest she continues lashing out physically and does so on the wrong guy eventually. 

That is not a good attitude. Don't get hung up on petty battles. Focus on winning at life.

I still have a scar on my neck from when a drunk girl clawed me.

Don't worry about getting hurt a little. You will be stronger for it.

Edited 18 minutes ago by Leo Gura

[Emotionalmosquito]

7 hours ago, integral said:

Every movie has a woman slapping a man and It's this justified heroic thing.

This is another huge part of it. I remember getting triggered from a young age when I saw a movie just casually throw in a scene like that, especially when it was a low blow. 
 

There’s a website called the bbdatabase.c0m. Its goal is to document every single groin strike there is in movies and tv.

It’s currently sitting at 3243 knees, 3241 kicks, 498 punches, 319 squeezes, 975 verbals. 

Of course many of these are portrayed as legit self defense reactions. But there are still thousands that aren’t. 

[Emotionalmosquito]

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

That is not a good attitude. Don't get hung up on petty battles. Focus on winning at life.

I still have a scar on my neck from when a drunk girl clawed me.

Don't worry about getting hurt a little. You will be stronger for it.

Which I am making some solid progress at. For example, when I made that thread you shut down a year or two ago about the TikTok nonsense where the girls are racking the guys just for fun. I’m nowhere near as infuriated by the whole thing now as I was then, it’s still annoying as hell though. 

The de-escalation thing is always good. But remember, in situations like what Matt shared, there was zero sign that was coming. 

The biggest thing that gets me is the double standard. How many guys do you think are getting away with slapping, scratching, or worse during nights out? 
 

And how will we ever expect it to stop if we keep letting it go unpunished? Assault and battery laws absolutely apply to both genders.