Do not approach women

[Majed]

People who tell you to not approach women are dumb. 
Women are attracted to confidence same way men are attracted to beauty. 
If you tell men to not approach, then women shouldn't wear sexy clothes and make up. 
That's called Afghanistan. Go live there, if you want. 

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[Majed]

Btw i was thinking if approaching women worked, why do you need thousands of approaches for it to start working ? 

And honestly these days women are disrespectful. Like you approach her and she barely pays attention to you. Like just why? It's like they have never been taught proper manners and etiquette. It's really strange. If you go buy some coffee you try to be nice to the barista. Why when a guy has the courage to approach you and put his ego on the line, you just blow him out. Like why ? Doesn't make sense. 

[yetineti]

Your rhetoric is aggressive and your urges are clear. Tame yourself and you will find the results you desire. Otherwise you’re just one wild animal hunting another.

[Majed]

@yetineti Yeah yeah sure. I've studied what worked and what doesn't. The more of an animal you are with women, the more they like you. Otherwise sadhguru would get laid more than Andrew Tate. 

[yetineti]

Then you’d be getting laid right now, instead of arguing with a nerd.

[Majed]

@yetineti My problem is lack of money for proper logistics and geographical freedom not that i don't attract girls. 

[yetineti]

So you either have a problem or you don’t. Which is it?

[Majed]

@yetineti My problem is money. That's why i am not having sex. If i start making some money, lack of sex would be solved. 

I am working on fixing my money problems to my best, so i have a momentary problem, not a permanent one. 

[yetineti]

Are you trying to fuck prostitutes? You said you attracted women.

 

[Majed]

@yetineti Dude my logistics are terrible, i live with my parents, and am pretty much unemployed. Get it now ? 

It's not like a girl that likes you will go up and beyond to have sex with you. It has to be smooth. That's why money is important for proper logistics. 

Plus where i live pick up can be done, but it's more limited than in other bigger cities, i live in beirut. 

Now my absolute priority is making money. 

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[something_else]

23 minutes ago, Majed said:

Btw i was thinking if approaching women worked, why do you need thousands of approaches for it to start working ?

You don’t really. The vast majority of men will never approach 100 women in their life, let alone 1000. Yet the majority of men will still find a partner.

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And honestly these days women are disrespectful. Like you approach her and she barely pays attention to you. Like just why?

Because most women don’t have any reason to trust a random man trying to talk to her on the street, but many reasons to fear him. You need to put yourself in women’s shoes to understand why they act the way they do instead of taking this bitter attitude and claiming they’re all wrong or rude or disrespectful.

The exact inverse of your point here would be a woman saying something like….. “And honestly these days men are just so disrespectful. Like you’re just going about your day and they pester you and won’t leave you alone. Like just why?”

Now notice the emotional reaction you have to that, and imagine a woman reading your comment. She is probably having almost exactly the same emotional reaction.

[Majed]

@something_else Just because a guy approaches you randomly because he found you attractive, doesn't make him a criminal. Like cmon criminality is rare compared to the rate men approach women. If every man who approaches a woman is a criminal, then we would have all the male population locked up. Lmao. 

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[Majed]

4 minutes ago, something_else said:

You don’t really. The vast majority of men will never approach 100 women in their life, let alone 1000. Yet the majority of men will still find a partner.

@something_else Having a partner doesn't equal abundance. It equals mediocrity in some real sense. I am after sexual and romantic abundance. That's what i'm interested in developing and acquiring. 

[yetineti]

9 minutes ago, Majed said:

@yetineti Dude my logistics are terrible, i live with my parents, and am pretty much unemployed. Get it now ?

Yeah, you’re insecure, but you’re the only one judging and limiting yourself. Most people lose their virginity before they move out.

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It's not like a girl that likes you will go up and beyond to have sex with you. It has to be smooth. That's why money is important for proper logistics.

A girl that likes you will. I have never spent a dime on a girl, before sex.

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Plus where i live pick up can be done, but it's more limited than in other bigger cities, i live in beirut.

Beirut is 32x bigger than my city.

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Now my absolute priority is making money. 

Money… to attract pussy. Just be honest about yourself, that’s all.

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[Olaf]

even tho I get that you want to approach, and I approach allot. That doesn't mean it can come off weird at times. I have met a wingmen yesterday that I banned out of the group, because he was very uncalibrated both with woman and wingmen, he would approach allot and not sense when woman are comfy and when they are not, it is important to be calibrated and when woman give any sign of inconvenience to back the fuck off. 

[Majed]

2 minutes ago, yetineti said:

Yeah, you’re insecure, but you’re the only one judging and limiting yourself. 

A girl that likes you will. I have never spent a dime on a girl, before sex.

Beirut is 32x bigger than my city.

Money… to attract pussy. Just be honest about yourself, that’s all.

@yetineti Dude it's obvious to me you haven't done pick up. 

[Majed]

2 minutes ago, Olaf said:

even tho I get that you want to approach, and I approach allot. That doesn't mean it can come off weird at times. I have met a wingmen yesterday that I banned out of the group, because he was very uncalibrated both with woman and wingmen, he would approach allot and not sense when woman are comfy and when they are not, it is important to be calibrated and when woman give any sign of inconvenience to back the fuck off. 

@Olaf I guess the answer is that most girls just like most guys are animals and act instinctively. They just don't care about your feelings. You either attract them or you don't. 

[something_else]

17 minutes ago, Majed said:

@something_else Just because a guy approaches you randomly because he found you attractive, doesn't make him a criminal. Like cmon criminality is rare compared to the rate men approach women. If every man who approaches a woman is a criminal, then we would have all the male population locked up. Lmao. 

You lack empathy for women.

Imagine that throughout your life a total of 20 gay guys had come up to you randomly and started touching you. Or aggressively hitting on you, not taking no for an answer. Making you very uncomfortable, telling you they want to pound your ass after talking to you for 5 seconds. Are you going to trust the 21st gay guy? Probably not, you’d probably be understandably cautious.

This is roughly what women experience. Women are bombarded with unwanted and unexpected sexual advances from men their entire lives, so the risk to reward ratio calculation her brain is doing when a random dude starts talking to her is not in your favour.

To balance that out, you need to build trust and show that your reward is worth her risk.

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[Majed]

2 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Olaf I guess the answer is that most girls just like most guys are animals and act instinctively. They just don't care about your feelings. You either attract them or you don't. 

Fucking gold i just wrote. You guys need to stop the gaslighting. Girls are dumb creatures, just like guys. This isn't an essentialist argument. Few girls are more intelligent and wise than most guys. And some guys are more intelligent and wise than most girls. 

However since 99% of women are as dumb as animals, the way to attract them isn't by being a conscious healthy intellectually developed human being. But by just learning some techniques to approach properly and stimulate their emotions like the animals they are and then they would want to sleep with you. 

Ta daaaaa. 

Btw this isn't against women, most guys are as dumb as most women. But just stop the gaslighting rationalizing women's unconscious behaviors when it comes to guys approaching them. 

[Olaf]

@Majed and they insitintively feel scared of a guy that can't read social ques and has no calibration. It is sexy when you can back off when she feels unocomfortable, because it shows you can read her and have respect for her boundaries. The problem is that many guys can't do that and then they get creepy, pushy and become unattractive.