Lots of girls at work tell me I need to be more "expressive"? what do they mean?

[blankisomeone]

Like I'm just sitting quietly doing my work and these girls tell me I need to be more "expressive". I'm tired. What do they want me to say?! There's nothing to say at a work setting!

It's almost like they angrily want something out of me and I angrily just wanna stay quiet.

In general, what do girls want when they want someone to be more expressive? Like, talk about my day? Tf

Edited 6 hours ago by blankisomeone

[Sincerity]

Express your anger to them for trying to change you, lol. They want expression, they get it. "Fuck off!"

Just kidding. For real though: explain your setting at work & also, are you exceptionally hot? 😄 It's quite weird that "lots" of girls approach you in such a manner there. Perhaps they're into you?

[Joshe]

It's a good thing! They want to know you better because they like you. Not necessarily romantically, but just as a person, which is great. 

You don't have to talk about anything in particular. Instead of keeping all your thoughts to yourself, let them fly out of your mouth. It's an opportunity to practice being playful and bonding with others. They want to bond with you. 

Edited 5 hours ago by Joshe

[Leo Gura]

Be more chatty and social.

Use this opportunity to develop your social and small-talk skills.

Be more passionate and charismatic.

You should do it for you, not for them.

Edited 4 hours ago by Leo Gura

[blankisomeone]

4 hours ago, Sincerity said:

Just kidding. For real though: explain your setting at work & also, are you exceptionally hot? 😄 It's quite weird that "lots" of girls approach you in such a manner there. Perhaps they're into you?

Just a normal guy. I would personally put myself like 4 to 5 maybe 6 or 7 points below average out of 10 below average lol. But I'm not sure.

By lots of girls I mean 5. "You gotta be more expressive!"

I guess they're just really annoyed, or legit worried about me that I'm too quiet Lol. Like, I'm ridiculously quiet. I'm the definition of keeping to oneself, to a worrying degree. But actually not really compared to this other guy at work hah. But they don't nag him and he's probably a solid average.

I'm working as a cashier at a grocery store. The fact I'm working face to face with customers is already a big feat.

Edited 1 hour ago by blankisomeone

[Olaf]

@blankisomeone as an fellow introvert, fuck em. Unless you want to date them, then you have to do a bit more your best and actually hold a conversation of course. I don't want to be social all day either as an introvert. I do allot of socialising, but when I want to and on my time, if I want to be quiet I am quiet, I used to give shits about it, now I know I just need space for myself at times and I respect that.