The solution to rape.

[Majed]

Rape exist because a lot of men are sexless. 
The solution is to change our cultural definition of sex to make it about love and connection. 
There's artistic sex as well as spiritual sex. 
When you're connecting with a piece of art (music, film, literature...) on a deep level that's sex, it's love, connection and passion. 
When you're meditating or contemplating God, and having breakthroughs and existential insights, that's sex on a deeper level too. 
Go have sex with life, art and God. That's the best sex possible. Sex with other people is fine too. 
Even just on a physical level masturbation, pornography are forms of sex. Whatever is based on love, connection and can lead to orgasm is sex, be it physical, artistic, mystical...

[something_else]

A lot of instances of rape are committed by men who don’t struggle to get laid. Rape is about exerting power more so than lack of sex in many (if not most) cases.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Do you think men have a genetic predisposition that makes them rape when they cannot obtain sex?

[Majed]

17 minutes ago, something_else said:

A lot of instances of rape are committed by men who don’t struggle to get laid. Rape is about exerting power more so than lack of sex in many (if not most) cases.

@something_else exerting power isn't as fundamental as sex drive. 

[Olaf]

@Natasha Tori Maru no men don't want to rape woman, only fucked up men want to rape woman. It is like killing, I would never kill a men or woman, but maybe my morals are very high compared to average people. Because these things don't even come up in my mind as a possibility. 

Edited 1 hour ago by Olaf

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 minute ago, Olaf said:

@Natasha Tori Maru no men don't want to rape woman, only fucked up men want to rape woman. It is like killing, I would never kill a men or woman, but maybe my morals are very high compared to average people. Because these things don't even come up in my mind as a possibility. 

 You are a real one 

[Majed]

7 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Do you think men have a genetic predisposition that makes them rape when they cannot obtain sex?

@Natasha Tori Maru Well it's like if you aren't getting laid for years and decades, rape might start to become an appealing option, obviously. The dating market is kind of brutal. You have many models: 

The traditional model: telling you you should just have sex with your wife for the rest of your life. 

The redpill model: telling you you should have a Bugatti in order to get laid. 

The pick up model: you need thousands of hours of practice to pull girls consistently. 

At some point some men are lost and it's understandable.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Just now, Majed said:

At some point some men are lost and it's understandable.

Rape is understandable, as in, it is logical?

Is this a correct understanding?

[Majed]

@Natasha Tori Maru Well rape which is sexual violence is a form of violence. Sometimes violence is understandable if you're in a difficult situation. 

It's like if you're starving should you steal? 

Well, it's easy to say stealing is bad, if you aren't in a situation where you're starving. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

3 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Natasha Tori Maru Well rape which is sexual violence is a form of violence. Sometimes violence is understandable if you're in a difficult situation. 

It's like if you're starving should you steal? 

Well, it's easy to say stealing is bad, if you aren't in a situation where you're starving. 

Does it follow that rape is justified? 

I reject the starving child analogy, because I consider it false. Will you die if you do not rape or have sex?

Edited 1 hour ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Majed]

@Natasha Tori Maru I am trying to lay out the mechanics of how this works, that's all. I am interested in pure understanding, not moralizing. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Just now, Majed said:

@Natasha Tori Maru I am trying to lay out the mechanics of how this works, that's all. I am interested in pure understanding, not moralizing. 

I am illustrating your assumptions behind the main argument.

[Majed]

5 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Does it follow that rape is justified? 

I reject the starving child analogy, because I consider it false. Will you die if you do not rape or have sex?

@Natasha Tori Maru You girls have no idea how many men commit suicide because they aren't getting sex. 

Edited 1 hour ago by Majed

[Olaf]

@Majed this by no means makes it understandable to rape someone wtf, how does this even come up in your mind? It is like saying, I was hungry so it is legit for me to kill a human being. That is literally how it sounds to me what you are saying.

[Ulax]

Just now, Majed said:

@Natasha Tori Maru You girls have no idea how many men commot suicide because they aren't getting sex. 

True

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Just now, Majed said:

@Natasha Tori Maru You girls have no idea how many men commot suicide because they aren't getting sex. 

That doesn't follow from anything I asked or stated.

[Majed]

1 minute ago, Olaf said:

@Majed this by no means makes it understandable to rape someone wtf, how does this even come up in your mind? It is like saying, I was hungry so it is legit for me to kill a human being. That is literally how it sounds to me what you are saying.

@Olaf Then oh wise guru, explain why rapists exist, and their perspective. Go ahead i am waiting. 

[Majed]

2 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

That doesn't follow from anything I asked or stated.

@Natasha Tori Maru I feel like you're choosing to be blind. Rape is a serious issue. And your childish moralizing won't change the seriousness of it. 

[Ulax]

@Majed The use of the word "understandable" was a bit suss dude

[Olaf]

@Majed you have a hand? You can do it yourself? I have had years where I had no sex, just my hand, makes no difference, maybe emotionally feeling less connected to a person and falling in love, but by no means is this any reason to rape. Lets not normalise rape and honestly this post is getting toxic.