Dating app and social media are fucking dating up

[BlessedLion]

On 10/28/2026 at 7:30 PM, LordFall said:

See you just did it again in another way. If women don't like you, it's because they're ruined by dating apps and social media. If other men are succeeding, it's because they're toxic and addicted.

Agreed, OP seems quite bitter about the whole thing, veering towards black pill rhetoric. Just because a guy is good with women and gets laid doesn't mean he is miserable , what a ridiculous correlation lol 

[BlessedLion]

On 10/28/2026 at 9:31 PM, something_else said:

You want the dating world to conform to your model, rather than building your model around the realities of the dating world.

BAM, right there, that is some mic drop shit! 

[BlessedLion]

On 10/29/2026 at 2:44 AM, LordFall said:

This is actually what Stage Green looks like

I was going say this whole post and OP in general is super Stage Green. Stage Green demonizes masculinity and ambition, wants everything to be equal/fair, and is all in their emotions. Textbook Stage Green. 

[LordFall]

13 hours ago, BlessedLion said:

I was going say this whole post and OP in general is super Stage Green. Stage Green demonizes masculinity and ambition, wants everything to be equal/fair, and is all in their emotions. Textbook Stage Green. 

Agreed! I think green is one of the most important stages but the most ineffective and frustrating to be in. It invalidates such key concepts of our reality that the people in it are bound to be left angry and feeling like a victim. Only by going beyond that and doing deep research on the systems of the world that do create inequality(and plenty of free value that we don't have to work for as well) do you start to see the limits of complaining and how you can have a deep impact on your life and on society at large by understanding leverage. 

@Alexop You would not have made this post if you knew 30 really hot and cool women in your city. I would focus on becoming a man of value and abundance and that will take care of a lot of your dating life. Yes you can also do this by being a selective intellectual that engages in deep conversations; as a matter of fact it'll work even better that way.

People at the top of social hierarchies are usually quite refined and fascinating to talk to, from the bottom they look shallow but that's because they operate with complicated systems that are hard to understand and appreciate at first glance.