Staying Clean or Going Fuck Mode As a Man? :)

[Riccurdo]

From my experience, I wanted to have fun first, until now I'm in relationships many years later and fully committed. If I had gone into a relationship first, I would have regretted not having a "single" lifestyle. This can, of course, differ from person to person, but as men, meeting girls is natural. Something to keep remembering is that if you fuck a lot, the pickier you might become when choosing a partner, and it can get hard to commit to one.

[Salvijus]

Love > lust

 

[LastThursday]

9 hours ago, Atb210201 said:

I will say it will only push me further in an inescapable hole of never finding the suitable life partner.

It creates a void that cannot be filled with anyone anymore.

And nothing new comes out of it, it is only a repetition of cuming and satisfying your body with no meaning or depth to it.

You didn't answer my question but that's fine you have your point of view. Satisfying your body is quite normal and healthy, but that's my point of view; when you're hungry you eat.

[SimpleGuy]

Thank you, folks. After reading your answers it seems that it'd better to stay 'pure', perhaps. And yeah, I'm not religious at all. 

[Heaven]

9 minutes ago, SimpleGuy said:

Thank you, folks. After reading your answers it seems that it'd better to stay 'pure', perhaps. And yeah, I'm not religious at all. 

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Do whatever you think it’s best for you.

[SimpleGuy]

7 hours ago, Heaven said:

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Do whatever you think it’s best for you.

But the problem is that I do not know what is best for me. And just 'trying it out' would cost quite a lot of time and effort.

[something_else]

I've met several couples in their mid 20s to early 30s who have been together since they were like 18-19 and haven't really experienced single life at all. Even though they were all healthy relationships, almost universally they said they felt like they'd missed out on that aspect of life, male or female.

If you've only ever been with one person you're most likely going to experience that FOMO at some point.

Better to get that out of your system, get some experience with several types of people to really figure out who you're compatible with, and then settle down when you find the right person. This applies to male or female btw. I recommend you stop judging women for sleeping around a bit or thinking that it makes them "low quality"

[Heaven]

5 hours ago, something_else said:

I've met several couples in their mid 20s to early 30s who have been together since they were like 18-19 and haven't really experienced single life at all. Even though they were all healthy relationships, almost universally they said they felt like they'd missed out on that aspect of life, male or female.

If you've only ever been with one person you're most likely going to experience that FOMO at some point.

Better to get that out of your system, get some experience with several types of people to really figure out who you're compatible with, and then settle down when you find the right person. This applies to male or female btw. I recommend you stop judging women for sleeping around a bit or thinking that it makes them "low quality"

I second this.

I think when you’re young don’t think about effort too much. You have plenty of time. This is just self deception to stay lazy.

It’s not easy to go out of your comfort zone but it is necessary. Developing social skills is one of the best things you can do.