I want to have sex with a girl this week

[Olaf]

21 hours ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 I first went with a new wing men, he was smooth and cool, had been doing it for a few years, even with being a bit nervous he stayed very calm and grounded, not letting the nerves get to him. So that is what I learned, we were in a convo with two hot turkish girls for 30 mins, then the wingmen left and I was like why you leave? He said they didn't give IOI's which was true, but maybe if we stayed longer something could have happened, them listening to us for 30 mins is an IOI in itself if you ask me. Then we approached some girls, this girl was touching her hair allot, but after 10 mins they said they were 17, what the hell are 17 year olds doing in a bar. So obviously we went away and then last one was a 2 girls, when I talked with that one girl the other girl went to get her bike, then the friend came back and cockblocked me by dragging her friend away, always same shit. Then I went home and later at night went out, I approached a girl who was drunk, took 5 to 10 seconds for her to respond, she started touching me, but I didn't want to be a dick and make use of her drunkenness, because she was far far gone. I then approached two more girls that night, but nothing much and in the club were only 4 people lol. God was telling me to go home hahaha. 

 

@Zenterus This was from wednesday, yesterday I didn't went out, tonight will go out

[Olaf]

What's everyone´s plan for the night?

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Olaf said:

What's everyone´s plan for the night?

Haircut and then let me out into the wild?.what's yours? I am scruffy right now i need a haircut if I am going out.

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 that sounds like a solid plan. I am thinking of going to a night club, one with more then 4 people 

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 that sounds like a solid plan. I am thinking of going to a night club, one with more then 4 people 

It seems like it is a lot more available to you than where I live.  I'm kinda out in the boonies.  We have bars but the clubs I think i would have to travel far..to the city if Chicago. I live in the Chicago suburbs.  But. I did make a date with a nice lady for next weekend. She lives in the city so I'll take the train in and she'll pick me up from there.

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 ah yes in America everything is very far away, we  have many clubs, but I need a club with not too loud music so I can talk to her or many quiet places

[Olaf]

I have bought tickets for 2 clubs so if one is dead I can atleast go to another one 

[Inliytened1]

8 minutes ago, Olaf said:

I have bought tickets for 2 clubs so if one is dead I can atleast go to another one 

Yeah. Where you live there should be no excuses.  The women are at your fingertips.  Hell. They are throwing themselves at you wasted.   

Edited 10 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 If not today then when? It can't be that hard

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 If not today then when? It can't be that hard

It's not.  My biggest obstacle was always over thinking.  I would think about everything.  Well what do I do when I have her naked in bed. Will I be able to perform? All that stuff.  But that was that weird thing I told you I went through. Prior to that nothing would cross my mind.  And that's when I did my best. So finally I got back to that when I didn't get lost in my own head.

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 stuck in your head? Yeah that makes sense. So what is your advice for the night?

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 stuck in your head? Yeah that makes sense. So what is your advice for the night?

Don't get stuck in your own head. Just let go. 

[Ulax]

58 minutes ago, Olaf said:

What's everyone´s plan for the night?

I like it when you ask this

[Ulax]

I'll go into town and do an approach

[Inliytened1]

@Leo Gura you liking this?

 

[Olaf]

@Ulax lets get it, do 10

Edited 9 hours ago by Olaf

[Ulax]

1 hour ago, Olaf said:

@Ulax lets get it, do 10

Ok I did 10 minus 9

[Olaf]

@Ulax its a start, my only goal is to get laid tonight so if that is 10 or 1, ultimately I only need 1

[Olaf]

going out now! LETTSSS GOOOOOO!!!

[Olaf]

Update: I did 11 approaches went to two clubs, approached some girls in the gender free toilet not an ideal place to approach lol kinda weird place too hahahahaha. Then I gave a girl a compliment and walked away, she went into a trance looking at me walking away, like I was fucking James Bond or something, I could have asked her to come to me, but I didn't, don't ask why. I then went to walk around approached 2 girls sitting down, short interaction nothing special, then I approached. Then went to the first club, approached a girl, she said she was waiting for her boyfriend, I didn't really looked for taking her home anyways, so I just kept chatting she was from bali and had a great vibe. I danced for 2 hours or so, the music downstairs was awful, but upstairs the music were old hits from the 2000 so perfect dance music if you ask me. I then high fived a girl while I was dancing, and turned my back towards her and kept dancing. Then she tapped on my shoulder wanting to high five me again, but I didn't gave her a high five hahaha I thought playing hard to get, but I was just being a dick for no reason, so mistake on my part. Then I went to the second club, outside there was an accident so an easy way to approach a 2 set of girls, talking about the accident. Went inside, approached one girl and she pretended that I didn't exist, that kinda brought me down, plus the club was literally horrible. I was standing there for 5 mins thinking what was wrong with this club, I realised what was wrong, there were tables on a stage, all the single girls were being pulled towards the tables. The only girls that were not on the table side were the big groups of girls of 6 girls. You can't even come to the tables as it is on the stage. So I decided fuck this club, let me go somewhere else where there is not such loud music. I went to a karaoke bar and there was a girl alone vibing. I was like, PERFECT, that is what I need. So I approached her, she said it was her favorite song. She then rejected me so politely and kind that I couldn't even be mad, she did it with class I have been rejected so many times, but never this good. She made me leave feeling good even tho I got rejected, life makes no sense. Then I approached 2 girls don't remember exactly, and I wanted to go back to the first club. It was already 4.20 or something and I wasn't allowed back in, then next to me on the left there was a girl looking at me twice. So I was like fuck it, I had to build up the courage to approach her, but it went good, she was very receptive and started asking me questions, she was super soft and sweet and feminine, very beautiful in a natural way, with like a bit of messy hair and messy clothes kinda hippy, literally my type, for others maybe an 8 for me she was a 10 as she was exactly my type. She started being interested in me and asking me questions, she told me she never went out and there were just so many green flags. She was interested in me, I was interested in her, she was relationship material and then her friends came, which isn't a huge problem, but I rejected myself, I REJECTED MYSELF! FUCK!@!@ I am so done with rejecting myself. I had a good 7 to 10 minute conversation with her, teasing her a little bit with stupid arguments, disagreeing with what she says and making assumptions that were push pull, good eye contact everything went well effortlessly, except for closing. I DIDN'T FUCKING CLOSE. I could atleast have gotten her number and I rarely meet girls that are relationship worthy, she is from a small city close to Amsterdam. I went home feeling so sick to my stomach that I let myself down, that I got out of my house, on my bike and cycled back as fast as I could, I thought NOT TODAY! Yet of course she was already gone. Lesson learned: NEVER NEVER REJECT YOURSELF! Fuck self rejection, I hate it so much. Sometimes you need to go through pain before you learn these lessons. 

Edited 1 hour ago by Olaf