some tips for beginners in game

[Olaf]

1.Chatgpt is your greatest friend. Try to use chatgpt to give you shit tests, then ask how well you pass that shit test, to rate it.

2.Get a wingmen, don't try to do this alone in the beginning. Doing it alone is quite advanced, unless you are naturally very extroverted and talkative, but again then you aren't really a beginner.

3.this one is not only for beginners, but if you have done a session of approaches, start sending cold dm's on instagram to people in your city, you will have the best openers and the response rate is crazy (yesterday I sended 4 cold dm's and got 2 girls responding)

4.put less pressure on yourself, go out and see how far you can go, you might be suprised, but don't have the pressure of needing to approach 100 woman

5.Get into flow state, forget about techniques in the beginning, forget about opening lines, forget about doing anything else then just having the balls and confidence to approach, even when she is on the phone, calling, headphones, with her mom or friends, don't care go! perfection and perfect lines is all anxiety! You just need reps in the beginning to get over your approach anxiety, you don't need more reasons not to approach, you need more reasons to approach! and let go of the excuses and perfectionism! Or in other words fuck your fears and excuses, go!

6.Your first approach is the worst so just get over with it fast! first 2 mins approach a girl and know you will fuck it up, from there of on it gets easier

7.go out regularly, when you go out regularly you build flow state over days which will make it allot easier then being completly cold and jumping in once a week, first day of the week is almost only warm up

8.ask your wingmen what he needs and ask yourself what you need to get to approach more, because that is the number one problem in the beginning, approach anxiety, some people need to talk to some guys, others need to talk to older woman, others need to be pushed into convo's with bigger sets of 2 or 3 women etc.

9. practice outside game, but during the game try to forget it, because it fucks up your flow state, practice shit tests, the first 2 mins of a conversation and avoiding bad habits like asking tons of nice guys questions or being too serious and stuck in your head (not playful) and making conversations more interesting and emotional instead of flat and boring, woman hate to be bored, don't be that guy.

10.expect the first few to go bad, that doesn't mean you are bad, you are just not in flow yet, thats all. Anyone can pull a number in flow, the problem is how you are gonna get into flow? For me, socialising in general brings in flow, even say hi or good day to strangers, I sometimes go say hi to 20 strangers in a row if I notice I am getting out of flow, its funny because no one says hi back in a city, makes it also a small rejection therapy session lol.

[D2sage]

Overthinking stuff will kill your inherent flirting skills.

See yourself as a movie star, and the ladies will start approaching you.

True game is when ladies approach you.

 

Avoid chatgpt unless you want an AI girlfriend.

[Zenterus]

@D2sage how often do girls approach you and under what circumstances? 

Edited 1 hour ago by Zenterus

[Ulax]

I use this forum to practice my shit test responses lol

[Olaf]

@Ulax that is valid

[Olaf]

@Zenterus I was thinking the same thing, because it only happend to me 4 times