Polygamy- does it work

[Valach]

@LordFall

Sex is neither good or bad (like almost everything). It is about the underlying reasons you have it for that matters. And of course you have to have a lot of self awareness to even answer yourself honestly why you have it or not. And yes, in my experience people "abuse" the shit out of sex to unconsciously escape themselves and their emotional issues.. That does not make them bad or evil or less than. But I am not gonna be running around glorifying sex either - just like I am not glorifying anything else (well except maybe for actual healing haha). And I have seen this among spiritual people, "normies" and people who were sexually more open or liberal. Me saying that is not coming from some sexual repression or shadow. Though obviously just as with anything I can't really prove this either as it is just derived from my experiences and observations - but it also aligns with the opinion of people I respect. 

Even using "sex" as a shorterm coping strategy is not really bad - as long as it stops you from using worse coping agents. But obviously it is not suitable long term strategy either.

Edited 8 hours ago by Valach

[AerisVahnEphelia]

On 30/08/2026 at 0:40 PM, Mellowmarsh said:

And that in my estimation is the only real and true authentic way to live. And as the end draws near, as you lay all shagged out and weary upon your deathbed, before you take your final breath, before you finally close this amazing chapter of your life, you will at least know you’ve gone out with a bang, 💥 knowing full well to the best of your ability that you certainly did live the most satisfying beautiful story ever written by yours truly, and that is was indeed the greatest story of your life. 

Good for you. 👍 And may you be filled with everlasting peace, love and light, forever eternal. Amen. 😉😇🥳

 

Moral of the story.. if you’re gonna bang, bang good. Make it the Biggest Bang ever. 🙌💯💥And go out smiling. 😊 

 

 

 

nice story, but you might be immortal and will never die (physically, litteraly)
you never experienced death, the fact you're conscious is because you've always been starting to exist as god/universe now.
You cannot die.
You might aswell respawn infinite like in a video games.

but in this life, you believe it's important to make the most out of it for some reasons.

[Mellowmarsh]

And what we are actually dealing with here are simply our addictions or distractions from the indifferent brutality of actual reality. So these distractions can often feel like an escape.  We often are slaves to our addictions without realising we are. And these distractions and addictions can be anything, including the addiction to being in certain spiritual or non spiritual states. These states are all false flags obviously. We’re even addicted to the delusional false flags. It is only when we are openly willing to see through the delusions and see them for what they actually are, and not just be blinded by lofty ideals of what we wishfully want to believe as and through our whimsical superimposed suppositions. Devotional proper self introspection that is throughly explored on the human level involves some very inky deep dive depths into the true actual nature of spiritual truth and reality, that is when we are able to move beyond delusional belief to actual clarity.

[Mellowmarsh]

7 minutes ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

nice story, but you might be immortal and will never die (physically, litteraly)
you never experienced death, the fact you're conscious is because you've always been starting to exist as god/universe now.
You cannot die.
You might aswell respawn infinite like in a video games.

but in this life, you believe it's important to make the most out of it for some reasons.

Yes, I agree with what you are saying. The when Harry met Sally post was just for fun and entertainment purposes only. Like you mentioned in video games. And yes, it’s fun to play the character within your own created dream of dreaming yourself alive.