Polygamy- does it work

[BlessedLion]

1 hour ago, PsychedelicEagle said:

Hahahha great find — fascinating. Didn't know about this guy.

Damn, homie is living with 8 Brazilian baddies, not bad, but im sure there is some sort of catch and it isn't what it seems. And if it is, it is extremely fucking rare.

I will say though , for whatever reason, Brazilian women seem more fluid and able to do this. I have a friend here in Bali who has a Brazilian gf who is bisexual and they have 3 sums and 4 sums all the time with other women and she actually genuinely seems okay with it. But i think it still messes with her a bit

Edited 1 hour ago by BlessedLion

[AION]

20 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Yeah that's going to go far. Lying to her.

Lying? I didn’t talk about lying 

[BlessedLion]

13 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

That's how a juvenile mind thinks.

It's not random. They are desperate people getting paid for sex.

I recently had a similar realization, i think porn brainwashes men into thinking that something like that is even possible. Most women would hate that kinda situation as it goes against their core desire in relationship, exclusive comittment. You have to realize that exclusive commitment to women is like sex to men. This is why women are much more picky about who they fuck

[Mellowmarsh]

6 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

I don't understand how men don't think about it like this. It's like becoming a millionaire, if it's possible then why not go for it? 

I don’t see old people doing this though, they’re all pretty much all shagged out by the heady days of their youth.

They say youth is wasted on the young. Isn’t it time to stop chasing money at some point, you’ve already won the million pound lottery just by being born. Isn’t that enough. 

[Inliytened1]

6 minutes ago, AION said:

Lying? I didn’t talk about lying 

You clearly said not telling her certain things right? Well. Be careful..women are like the lie police.  They will know when you're lying, and then it is shit on you.  Just be honest with her whatever you do.  And then you can't go wrong. I learned fhe hard way.

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[Xonas Pitfall]

8 minutes ago, BlessedLion said:

I recently had a similar realization, i think porn brainwashes men into thinking that something like that is even possible. Most women would hate that kinda situation as it goes against their core desire in relationship, exclusive comittment. You have to realize that exclusive commitment to women is like sex to men. This is why women are much more picky about who they fuck

Exclusive commitment to men is also like exclusive commitment to women. You don’t see many men happily having their girl fuck and fall in love with other men either. In fact, they might be even stingier about it, with their obsession over “virginity” and “cucking.”

There really is no difference here, but a lot of men want there to be so they can justify their lust: “Oh, she’s a girl, she’s different from me. She likes it. Girls can be made to enjoy this. I can make her love it. They kind of do already.” Then they come up with a bunch of “biological” and other cope arguments as to why.

Edited 1 hour ago by Xonas Pitfall

[LordFall]

22 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

That's how a juvenile mind thinks.

It's not random. They are desperate people getting paid for sex.

My mind is not juvenile, I think perhaps yours is closed off and you're falling for the trap of pushing limiting beliefs onto others.

First of all why do you default to pornstars are desperate people getting paid for sex? What a lazy bias, plenty of porn actors love their job and have more money than you and I combined many times over.

Second of all, deconstructing scenarios and recreating them into your own life is not juvenile. It's systems thinking. It's based on understanding the situations and factors that make a scenario possible and what resources and lifestyle you would need to recreate it in your own life. 

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[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

My mind is not juvenile, I think perhaps yours is closed off and pushing limiting beliefs unto others.

First of all why do you to pornstars are desperate people getting paid for sex? What a lazy bias, plenty of porn actors love their job and have more money than you and I combined many times over.

Second of all, deconstructing scenarios that recreating them into your own life is not juvenile. It's systems thinking. It's based on understanding the situation that make a scenario possible and what resources and lifestyle you would need to recreate it in yours sustainably. 

No. Yours is a bit immature.  And you admitted so..because you said your views could change in a few years.  You are taking on a lot. With everything you're pushing.   And it's good stuff.  So heck, you can end up ahead of both Leo and I.  But right now we have the experience game on you.

Edited 1 hour ago by Inliytened1

[LordFall]

8 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

No. Yours is a bit immature.  And you admitted so..because you said your views could change in a few years.  You are taking on a lot. With everything you're pushing.   And it's good stuff.  So heck, you can end up ahead of both Leo and I.  But right now we have the experience game on you.

I'm clearly more mature than you in terms of my approach to understanding dating and creating a high-quality dating and relationship life. You admitted that your approach is trying to fuck everything that moves and being sad that it didn't lead to long-term mutually beneficial arrangements.

Put the ego aside and look into the resources that I've laid out for you. Before I pivoted away from that business model I taught men dating as a job and helped a few get into relationships and some lose their virginity. 

 

Edited 53 minutes ago by LordFall

[Mellowmarsh]

10 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

You clearly said not telling her certain things right? Well. Be careful..women are like the lie police.  They will know when you're lying, and then it is shit on you.  Just be honest with her whatever you do.  And then you can't go wrong. I learned fhe hard way.

I literally would have walked on hot coals barefoot for a man like you. You have no idea how much you are loved by this girl here.

Honestly, you are a good decent man, as a woman, I can tell. Really I can. The timing just wasn’t right for you and me. That’s all. 

[Leo Gura]

32 minutes ago, BlessedLion said:

Can you expand on that? 

Women are great, but they are pretty demanding. They will nag you to death if you don't do as they expect. A woman expects you to work for her. Now multiply that x5.

Edited 50 minutes ago by Leo Gura

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Mellowmarsh said:

I literally would have walked on hot coals barefoot for a man like you. You have no idea how much you are loved by this girl here.

Honestly, you are a good decent man, as a woman, I can tell. Really I can. The timing just wasn’t right for you and me. That’s all. 

No. I've just been through the ringer with women. 

[LordFall]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Women are great, but they are pretty demanding. They will nag you to death if you don't do as they expect. A woman expects you to work for her. Now multiply that x5.

With a powerful muse, a man can create masterworks of art. Women have inspired men throughout history to create greatness.

With 5 powerful muses, a man can create an empire. 

[Mellowmarsh]

3 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

No. I've just been through the wringer with women. 

They didn’t deserve you. 🥲

[Schizophonia]

9 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I'm clearly more mature than you in terms of my approach to understanding dating and creating a high-quality dating and relationship life. You admitted that your approach is trying to fuck everything that moves and being sad that it didn't lead to long-term mutually beneficial arrangements.

Put the ego aside and look into the resources that I've laid out for you. Before I pivoted away from that business model I taught men dating as a job and helped a few get into relationships and some lose their virginity. 

 

It's no longer necessary but if it were and you didn't live thousands of kilometers away I would have used your services. 😸

[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

It's no longer necessary but if it were and you didn't live thousands of kilometers away I would have used your services. 😸

You ended up getting a girlfriend? That's sick tell us about that. 

I put that business on pause for the moment to recenter myself and recreate my life purpose from scratch but I do still believe in it.

There are good photographers in every city. Every single person should try hiring one a few times. Your online image and presentation is the difference being between a random irrelevant dude and being known by thousands of women and being able to go on dates like a conveyor belt. 

It's the equivalent to us being on actualized.org a global platform instead of hanging out with our local meditation hippie group. Each person that has ambition should become a global institution.

Last time I went to Europe I was 13 years old and obsessed with playing Pokemon Black on the 3DS. Next time I go I will similarly be having a lot of fun but it will be a co-op game played in a hot tub this time. 

Edited 38 minutes ago by LordFall

[AION]

34 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

You clearly said not telling her certain things right? Well. Be careful..women are like the lie police.  They will know when you're lying, and then it is shit on you.  Just be honest with her whatever you do.  And then you can't go wrong. I learned fhe hard way.

If I’m not doing anything serious with her she doesn’t have to know all the bodies in the closet 

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, AION said:

If I’m not doing anything serious with her she doesn’t have to know all the bodies in the closet 

Yeah no keep that shit buttoned up. But if she asks be honest. Because she will know when you are lying.  They know.  I don't know how but they do.

Edited 30 minutes ago by Inliytened1

[Leo Gura]

38 minutes ago, LordFall said:

My mind is not juvenile

A juvenile mind does not think it is juvenile.

[LordFall]

2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

A juvenile mind does not think it is juvenile.

Feel free to lay out your argument if you believe it has merit. I've already debunked it thoroughly, or so I thought.

If polyamory is not for you then that's fine but some of the claims you made around it are demonstrably false. 

Edited 27 minutes ago by LordFall