Conscious dating

[Jirh]

50 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Now i have to figure out if I want to start dating again or get back with my ex - she still wants me back.  Not sure what to do.

If it's the same ex you took 9 years to get over, don't get back.

[LordFall]

14 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

My cashflow situation got fixed immediately when I became single again  But the funny thing is now she got a job that we aren't together LOL

She wasn't pleasant and easy to work with even though you were footing the bills? Some people just don't have any appreciation for when they have it good. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[Inliytened1]

12 minutes ago, Jirh said:

If it's the same ex you took 9 years to get over, don't get back.

Becky LOL.  Naw not her.  But yeah I think I'm gonna ride solo for a while.  

[Inliytened1]

11 minutes ago, LordFall said:

She wasn't pleasant and easy to work with even though you were footing the bills? Some people just don't have any appreciation for when they have it good. 

She is a mental crisis.  I am not perfect or all there but man do i know how to pick the crazy ones

[Joseph Maynor]

You guys are too focused on the past.  

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

You guys are too focused on the past.  

Yeah well at my age most of it is in the rear window.  Starting over now is gonna suck but I gotta do it

[Joseph Maynor]

4 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Yeah well at my age most of it is in the rear window.  Starting over now is gonna suck but I gotta do it

I hope not bro.  

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Just work on your energy.  Be abundant and entertaining.  Dating is tricky.  The energy thing is real through IMO.  

That's the plan.  Hopefully the dating site Lordfall was speaking of is good.  Having the Bugatti would help a little too but with the last one I am still digging myself out.  We'll see how it goes.  Heck, i just need someone to keep me warm on a Friday night.  

 

Edited 1 hour ago by Inliytened1

[LordFall]

If you sit on your hand for a while it feels like a stranger is helping you out when you crank one out. If you do it with both hands now you got 2 girlfriends already before you even get the dating app going. Play chess not checkers. 

[Joseph Maynor]

I've been working on this area for a while now and I have some ideas.  I think most people are full of shit regarding dating.  It is all concept, which bores everyone.  

[Inliytened1]

9 minutes ago, LordFall said:

If you sit on your hand for a while it feels like a stranger is helping you out when you crank one out. If you do it with both hands now you got 2 girlfriends already before you even get the dating app going. Play chess not checkers. 

Now if we can find one that can play Chess that's even better!

[Inliytened1]

7 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

I've been working on this area for a while now and I have some ideas.  I think most people are full of shit regarding dating.  It is all concept, which bores everyone.  

Yeah so get to the grocery store hahah

[Joseph Maynor]

7 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Yeah so get to the grocery store hahah

When you find someone who really resonates with you energetically, you will know.  

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Joseph Maynor said:

When you find someone who really resonates with you energetically, you will know.  

Wel that's not going to happen unless you talk to them.

[Joseph Maynor]

Just now, Inliytened1 said:

Wel that's not going to happen unless you talk to them.

Yes.  You have to talk to everyone.  Not with any agenda.  Just to practice.  

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

Yes.  You have to talk to everyone.  Not with any agenda.  Just to practice.  

You can't catch any fish if you don't throw the rod.  What the fuck am i talking about I don't even know how to fish LOL 

[Joseph Maynor]

5 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

You can't catch any fish if you don't throw the rod.  What the fuck am i talking about I don't even know how to fish LOL 

This is true.  You have to put yourself out there which requires energy and time.  It is an area of creation lol.  

[Inliytened1]

12 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

This is true.  You have to put yourself out there which requires energy and time.  It is an area of creation lol.  

Yeah so how are you about the whole multiple giirls thing?  I was juggling some different women before this past relationship.  I didn't plan it like that, but it kept it exciting for sure.

Edited 1 hour ago by Inliytened1

[Mellowmarsh]

It really feels like Love is the most powerful drug known to consciousness. If we all agree by being conscious of this truth, then aren’t we all just love addicts ? Can we ever escape the power of love and its aching longing to hold us so close that separation has nowhere to ground itself.

This love is already holding you, just feel it, can’t you feel it? It’s just a different kind of drug, it’s not a physical substance that you can imbibe, it’s already what you are. We’re all this LOVER . There is only the Beloved, just hold that infinite space, it won’t ever leave you, you were born of it and you will die for it, it’s already holding you in its infinite embrace. You can consciously date it anytime you desire, as you already are the infinite placeholder in time and space, that you created in your aching longing and desire for it.

Disclaimer: the above ode, is only my personal opinion.. may you always be filled with light.

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

It really feels like Love is the most powerful drug known to consciousness. If we all agree by being conscious of this truth, then aren’t we all just love addicts ? Can we ever escape the power of love and its aching longing to hold us so close that separation has nowhere to ground itself.

This love is already holding you, just feel it, can’t you feel it? It’s just a different kind of drug, it’s not a physical substance that you can imbibe, it’s already what you are. We’re all this LOVER . There is only the Beloved, just hold that infinite space, it won’t ever leave you, you were born of it and you will die for it, it’s already holding you in its infinite embrace. You can consciously date it anytime you desire, as you already are the infinite placeholder in time and space, that you created in your aching longing and desire for it.

Disclaimer: the above ode, is only my personal opinion.. may you always be filled with light.

I think a lot of us have forgotten what it is.  It is refreshing to hear you speak of love like this.