How do you lock a woman in to where she isn't thinking about anyone else but you?

[Inliytened1]

7 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Same to you my man, I hope you research some of the concepts I've talked about.

I'm definitely a sucker for love, that's why I want it with multiple people! I think to build really high-quality relationships you have to stop winging it and really get serious about what you want and find people compatible with your vision and life purpose. 

 

@LordFall  and you have to take a hard look at whether this is what you want.  Because whenever there are multiple people involved there is going to be the existence of love so you have to take that into consideration.  It is going to be there whether we want to wish it away or not. I wish it wasn't.  But remember that is what messed one of my biggest relationships up.  The one where she set up the threesome.  The porn industry is completely empty.  Completely empty. 

Edited 3 hours ago by Inliytened1

[LordFall]

Yeah, I agree. I've thought about it a lot. It's something I have to experiment with over the next few years for sure. Whether 15 years from now I'll be raising kids with 3 women or it was just a temporary phase, I couldn't tell you. I will give it a shot though, I see it as a natural evolution to my game journey.

As you've seen here my problem-solving process is methodical. I think I will be better than the average man at solving polyamorous relationship problems because I'm good at getting to the root of the issue and not getting swayed by waves of feelings. I'm good at reconciliation as well so if 2 of my women are having issues with each other I think it'll be easy for me to assess where the problem is coming from, getting them to hug it out and if I was the one causing the issue by giving preferential treatment to one over the other to then solve the issue. 

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[Inliytened1]

8 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Yeah, I agree. I've thought about it a lot. It's something I have to experiment with over the next few years for sure. Whether 15 years from now I'll be raising kids with 3 women or it was just a temporary phase, I couldn't tell you. I will give it a shot though, I see it as a natural evolution to my game journey.

As you've seen here my problem-solving process is methodical. I think I will be better than the average man at solving polyamorous relationship problems because I'm good at getting to the root of the issue and not getting swayed by waves of feelings. I'm good at reconciliation as well so if 2 of my women are having issues with each other I think it'll be easy for me to assess where the problem is coming from, getting them to hug it out and if I was the one causing the issue by giving preferential treatment to one over the other to then solve the issue. 

Yes you are excellent at being non-biased and open minded.  This is a super power so use it wisely.  I think we both agree that monogamy fails. But I think this is due to the man's carnal instinct not the woman.  A woman can be good with one partner.  Now you say you are bisexual so I do not know where this fits in but I would think a gay man would even be more sensitive.  So tread carefully. 

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[LordFall]

Thinking with your dick is only bad if you don't think with your head first. Many guys use casual sex to forget about their problems so of course it's gonna have a destructive effect on their lives. If you do it with strategy and thought I think you can have your cake and eat it too and fuck multiple women at the same time while still building stable and long-term arrangements. 

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[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

I think thinking with your dick is only bad if you don't think with your head first. Many guys use casual sex to forget about their problems so of course it's gonna have a destructive effect on their lives. If you do it with strategy and thought I think you can get your cake and eat it too and fuck multiple women at the same time while still building stable and long term arrangements. 

Only if they are on board.  And that is going to be difficult.  They might start out like that but it is going to get tricky as emotions get involved. 

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[LordFall]

If untangling webs of emotions is not a skill of yours and you're not interested in working on your emotional intelligence then yeah I think polyamory is perhaps not the right framework for you. It's not really a simple relationship framework but I think if done right is the most powerful and fulfilling for everyone involved. 

[Inliytened1]

6 minutes ago, LordFall said:

If untangling webs of emotions is not a skill of yours and you're not interested in working on your emotional intelligence then yeah I think polyamory is perhaps not the right framework for you. It's not really a simple relationship framework but I think if done right is the most powerful and fulfilling for everyone involved. 

No I meant the women.  They have to be on board with what you are proposing.  And then not jump ship later.  You say you can captain the ship adequately but I fear there could be mutiny rather quickly. Just saying as we start to dive deeper into the intricate nature of this.  You have little direct experience.  I have a lot more than you here. 

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[LordFall]

Right but you are quick to make assumptions and don't have any polyamory experience. So I would say go learn more about it if it interests you or download Feeld like I told you about and come back after you've met some polyamorous ladies and let us know how it went! 

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[Inliytened1]

11 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Right but you are quick to make assumptions and don't have any polyamory experience. So I would say go learn more about it if it interests you or download Feeld like I told you about and come back after you've met some polyamorous ladies and let us know how it went! 

I shall report back for sure