Doing Day Game in Small City is Demoralizing

[Ulax]

2 hours ago, PenguinPablo said:

@LordFall Dude the reason I always struggled with IG is because I have a small circle and even the people in that circle are fairly reserved so they may not even leave a like. 

I know that not everyone is like that so its just a matter of meeting more people but in that in-between period where you are building up is it fine to do the fake it till you make it approach or just own that you are in a sense a relatively unpopular individual?

Believe it or not I've done years of sales but I mean it's not difficult to chat up strangers you don't know. There is not really a concern of social reputation in cold outreach similar to cold approach.

Weren't you the one criticising game as shallow. How does that makes sense when you're a freaking salesmen lol

And ofc its gonna be way easier to chat people up if your career resembles the exact thing you're trying to do.

[PsychedelicEagle]

1 hour ago, Raze said:

That is bad, you shouldn’t be getting recognized approaching people, you are doing it too much in too small an area 

How can you not get recognized by the same person if you have approached her? 🤣

Plus, who cares if other people see me approaching someone. It's a natural part of the human experience. See a girl/guy, find them attractive, go talk to them.

[jacknine119]

@Rasheed in Marjanishvili or Vake-Saburtalo girls are pretty attractive

[PenguinPablo]

12 hours ago, Ulax said:

Weren't you the one criticising game as shallow. How does that makes sense when you're a freaking salesmen lol

And ofc its gonna be way easier to chat people up if your career resembles the exact thing you're trying to do.

I was a salesman. Did door to door and call center. 

Yes and it went against my nature and I did abysmally doing d2d sales. It was eating me alive. You do have to be a cold blooded sob to be a high level salesman. I loved to interact, joke around, and have fun, be playful with strangers, but when it came to actually making sales for products it felt very transactional and fake.

So yes doing cold approach and cold sales helped get over those fears and is an invaluable skill.

Edited 3 hours ago by PenguinPablo

[Ulax]

1 hour ago, PenguinPablo said:

I was a salesman. Did door to door and call center. 

Yes and it went against my nature and I did abysmally doing d2d sales. It was eating me alive. You do have to be a cold blooded sob to be a high level salesman. I loved to interact, joke around, and have fun, be playful with strangers, but when it came to actually making sales for products it felt very transactional and fake.

So yes doing cold approach and cold sales helped get over those fears and is an invaluable skill.

Ok that makes sense if you stopped now

[Ulax]

12 hours ago, PsychedelicEagle said:

How can you not get recognized by the same person if you have approached her? 🤣

Plus, who cares if other people see me approaching someone. It's a natural part of the human experience. See a girl/guy, find them attractive, go talk to them.

Fr who cares if it it just happens on the odd occasion 

 

[Rasheed]

I wanted to ask you guys, those of you who live in great day-game cities—like Prague, Vegas, London, Madrid, and so on—and are good at day game, how many approaches can you make—based on how many attractive, approachable women you see—in 1 hour in your city? So, in short, if you invest one hour in day game, how many approaches will you be able to do? 

[PenguinPablo]

@Rasheed If you are of college age a decent size university is pretty high leverage. Can easily get 5 on a regular school day within 30 min to 1 hr. 

In night game I’ve done as many as 50 in a night and I started off slow but then got the ball rolling. 

I’d imagine in city like NYC you can easily get 10-15 day game approaches within 2 hours. Vegas I suppose is similarish.

Edited 31 minutes ago by PenguinPablo