Doing Day Game in Small City is Demoralizing

[Ulax]

2 hours ago, PenguinPablo said:

@LordFall Dude the reason I always struggled with IG is because I have a small circle and even the people in that circle are fairly reserved so they may not even leave a like. 

I know that not everyone is like that so its just a matter of meeting more people but in that in-between period where you are building up is it fine to do the fake it till you make it approach or just own that you are in a sense a relatively unpopular individual?

Believe it or not I've done years of sales but I mean it's not difficult to chat up strangers you don't know. There is not really a concern of social reputation in cold outreach similar to cold approach.

Weren't you the one criticising game as shallow. How does that makes sense when you're a freaking salesmen lol

And ofc its gonna be way easier to chat people up if your career resembles the exact thing you're trying to do.

[PsychedelicEagle]

1 hour ago, Raze said:

That is bad, you shouldn’t be getting recognized approaching people, you are doing it too much in too small an area 

How can you not get recognized by the same person if you have approached her? 🤣

Plus, who cares if other people see me approaching someone. It's a natural part of the human experience. See a girl/guy, find them attractive, go talk to them.

[jacknine119]

@Rasheed in Marjanishvili or Vake-Saburtalo girls are pretty attractive

[PenguinPablo]

12 hours ago, Ulax said:

Weren't you the one criticising game as shallow. How does that makes sense when you're a freaking salesmen lol

And ofc its gonna be way easier to chat people up if your career resembles the exact thing you're trying to do.

I was a salesman. Did door to door and call center. 

Yes and it went against my nature and I did abysmally doing d2d sales. It was eating me alive. You do have to be a cold blooded sob to be a high level salesman. I loved to interact, joke around, and have fun, be playful with strangers, but when it came to actually making sales for products it felt very transactional and fake.

So yes doing cold approach and cold sales helped get over those fears and is an invaluable skill.

Edited 16 minutes ago by PenguinPablo