Do women feel genuine attraction only for 10% of men or it's a myth?

[Natasha Tori Maru]

43 minutes ago, JoshB said:

Id say the thing that matters the most is how approachable and comfortable the man appears towards the woman. 

Safety 🎯

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 minutes ago, Jirh said:

You're hinting at the tension between truth and survival, between reality and illusion.

There is no easy answer. It's a tug of war.
Women are torn between what looks right and what feels tempting in the moment.

Similar to the domain of sex for men. That drive has the potential to override rationality.

Strong drives override higher order reasoning. For both sexes. 

[gettoefl]

17 hours ago, Tenebroso said:

It's true. It doesn't mean only the top 10% get relationships but it means only the top 10% or even arguably 1% get to experience true female desire and lust. Women and self appointed "good men" will never admit because any scrutiny of female choice is a sin in modern society.

Every woman regardless of age, size, personality, background, health, height, personality etc is attractive to a man somewhere but the same is not true for men. Many men are not attractive to any women regardless of how kind, safe, emotionally intelligent etc they are but we have to hide this to protect the myth  that women are less shallow.

Women need to be attractive since men are required to ejaculate-to-perpetuate. Women by contrast are thinking ahead to the future.

That's why Victoria has a secret but Victor has always been an open book - if you catch my drift.

[gettoefl]

The 3 cardinal sins are: don't be shorter than her, don't earn less than her, don't appear less smart than her.

Then it's green lights all the way to paradise as the song goes.

[Lucasxp64]

Then I'm the top 10% if that were true. Does that make me an ALPHA MAALLEE?!? 🐒

Edited 1 hour ago by Lucasxp64

[Lucasxp64]

6 hours ago, gettoefl said:

The 3 cardinal sins are: don't be shorter than her, don't earn less than her, don't appear less smart than her.

Then it's green lights all the way to paradise as the song goes.

Context: I'm average looking, I have more of a boyish look than hot vibes, and my voice sounds smooth. I'm skinny and not muscular, but I have stamina.

My major bottleneck is my own logistics of meeting them, and also not looking like a hobo (I don't look like a hobo, but also I wear mostly the same clothing, I'll fix that once some cash comes in).

We MUST have money to make the logistics happen, woman are infinitely less likely to help us out on it. But even that might be optional, I had some chicks telling me they will travel to see me, but I don't trust that, once another thought about paying for my travel, but didn't go through. We at least need to take care of ourselves. But I've seen long-term relationships where the husband gets sick and the wife takes care of him, etc.

I always check the mark of appearing smarter or equal to them, that makes them think I have some massive earning potential.

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The ER Room, cougar and mentally sound lady 😉:

One chick that has a crush for me is much older than me and I think she is probably a little taller than me or has the same height. She doesn't know yet that I'm completely broke and all the money I have is for emergencies and I can't met her. I might get away with asking her for bus money but I doubt that. I met her literally in the ER waiting room, one of the most crazy cold approaches I did, she literally told me multiple times that she loved my energy in that approach.

I do very little actual approaches, but I've been practicing in my head the emotional energy management when I'm close to woman in person, and a few times I had enough energy to actually speak to them.

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The Christian fundamentalist bipolar chick living on the other side of the planet:

There was another one online many years ago that she even used to donate/give me some money when I was in need, but she used to do that with everyone close to her, it wasn't just me. She would self gaslight herself into thinking that I was gonna become really rich, she had some massive personal status anxiety, but in fact, if I had that wealth/energy for dating I wouldn't have touched her not even with a 5 feet pole because she was annoying beyond belief (christian fundamentalist, bipolar, had terrible discipline that was killing her), that was during covid-19, I was feeling super low at that time, the major reason was just her lowering my energy.

Despite of her being good spirited, and we were just trauma boding with each other. This kind of person will drain your life energy, they are vampires.  She somehow was the only woman that was obsessed about telling me that I was skinny and wanted me to be muscular, but somehow she still was crazy for me lmao.

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The only random chick that mentioned my height as a possible issue: Only once one chick that was slightly below my height didn't like that if she were to wear high heels she would appear taller than me, but it wasn't a deal breaker to her probably. I never met her, but we did sexting.

The 8/10 polygamist chick: The hottest woman that I liked, and that also was the most sexually crazy for me couldn't care less about how much I made, didn't complain that I was skinny. I made her come multiple times just on phone callls, in person it would have been wild af. in fact no woman has ever asked me how much I make or I would make... They just deduce that through your status aura lol. They see you in a bad pic, they assume you're low status and broke. They see you in a nic pic that looks high status, they think you're high status. But also some woman, you increase your status aura through talking to them. Some of them are very oriented to language, so just the talking gets them turned on with the shared fantasies. 

Most woman I talked to they sort of just assume your status based on photos and the way you talk and your poise, at least early on, I never went to the phase of living together and sharing expenses, I'd guess that would be a big deal. After that I didn't see them caring about how much I earn, they just assume that I might be rich, or will become rich because I can be eloquent.

A lot of times the money aspect isn't even about the money, it's just woman's visceral anxiety status feelings. They live out of status, and men mostly seek status because they know subconsciously or consciously that woman are hooked into it like nothing else.

Even my charisma and intelligence is felt as a form of status to them. It's wild.

I'd go as far as saying even being emotionally avaliable and behaving boyfriend/fuckboy material to them feels like a status play to them, they tell me: "A guy like you could find a girlfriend any time you want." lol little do they know the effort I had to make for them. 

Edited 37 minutes ago by Lucasxp64