Decentering Man.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

15 hours ago, Basman said:

If your grandstanding your probably not truly genuine. It's more like a narcissistic kind of emotional expression and yelling at clouds while patting yourself on the back for being such a decent human being. 

I think this post and this topic in general, shouldn't have been made, after all it's made by some dude, we should all work our best on decentering ourselves so that we maximize comfort and safety of women. This response to you is also reduntant and so it should be deleted, but I'm going to use my unearned privilage for the last time to make an appeal to the OP; please bro, delete this topic

Edited 7 hours ago by NewKidOnTheBlock

[enchanted]

On 12/05/2026 at 0:15 PM, Lila9 said:

I unfortunately no longer expect an intelligent, respectful, and grounded conversation here, especially on matters that are not directly related to men’s romantic issues.

Not only are people here very reactive and have a short attention span, but many of them also see the world through their unfulfilled desires and a resentful view of women, which distorts any grounded thinking and truth.

I bet no one has read the article and no one is going to read it.

You are free to leave anytime. It's not like your comments are that great either. If all you find on this forum is argument than perhaps you are the common denominator and your communication style needs work. 

Pro tip: calling everyone the forum unintelligent, reactive, ungrounded, and distorted is an example of what not to do if you are looking for productive and thought provoking conversation. 

The irony is that you exhibit many of the criticisms you mentioned above as you seem to also have a "resentful view of men, which distorts any grounded thinking and truth." 

Edited 2 hours ago by enchanted

[No1Here2c]

The blindspots of our own are the hardest to spot.