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Shermaningeorgia

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I do a post-grad course at a uni. A new entrant came in the past semester. this really hot foreign lady from South America. I haven't spoken to her. mainly since I genuinely dislike hot ladies. I have no specific reasons to welcome them or like them, and society that we should have grace to racists and sexists as they are only "human". So why not? Does it hurt people's brains to apply a rule consistently? I told someone I know in a different class about this, and they said I was "out of place", and that I didn't know, so I cannot judge her that much. I said, actually, not knowing somebody gives somebody more leeway to judge, and nobody is exempt from that. 

I feel that if there is the KKK and others, then I can hate hot ladies. And somebody of actual integrity and decency should condemn me and others alike. Since there is no fundamental difference between them. 

Seems rthe only reason to like hot ladies is sex. I feel getting sex and the "baddies" is childish, and grown men should get out of that. Most people in life are average-looking anyhow and get by well enough in dates and relationships. In my mind, looks correlate with a bad character. I don't see any group of people as inherently better. I believe others should stop projecting their double standards onto others. 

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😂🤣 bro genuinely started bringing this topic up in real conversations, jesus christ on a motorbike this shit is unhinged. Add that to the fact that you've now apparently decided to be anti-therapy as well and will only do therapy via A.I. chatbots. Holy moly dude, you gotta have some outlet dude cause this shit is mad cringe


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I feel that you are just upset because you desire them so much but don’t get them, so you cope by hating them and reducing them to nothing basically devaluing her in order to cope. A very common trap men fall into.

The problem is not with beautiful women, but with you. Can you acknowledge it?

This poor woman that you project all sorts of things onto has nothing to do with it. She may be the kindest and sweetest lady, but in your corrupted and selfish mind, as long as she doesn’t unconditionally admire you and doesn’t throw herself at you to sleep with you, she is the devil.

You don’t have to treat all beautiful people better than others (I too don’t understand why people treat beautiful people better than others, and I find it silly ape behavior) just have basic respect and neutrality toward everyone regardless of their looks, and don’t be an asshole for no reason.

If you desire a good-looking woman, acknowledge it rather than suppressing it, because you will keep suffering from rage, hatred, and a sense of victimhood until this is addressed.


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