The dilemma alot of women have

[enchanted]

"Is it because I'm a woman?" This Karen thinks everyone hates her because she's a woman. This is the dilemma I find some women fall into. They think every conflict is due to the "patriarchy", misogyny, or historical maltreatment, etc and never because of their own actions or just regular conflict. 

The book "Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents"  by Isabel Wilkerson mentions the same thing:  one of the most frustrating parts of being black in the US, is that black people are never sure if conflict is due to racism, or just being wrong or the other person just being rude in general. I would suggest women or any other suppressed group of people have the same issue. 

Hope this post helps men understand women more. 

Edited 7 hours ago by enchanted

[LordFall]

Yeah in some circles they call this female solipsism. Whereas generally men already know that they should stfu and fix their issues and that complaining will not solve them. Women are more community based so their issues tend to benefit from collective bargaining.