The most attractive qualities besides looks

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[LordFall]

Sorry I don't watch videos without context but the most attractive quality to have as a man is abundance, mostly financial. Abundance of money so you can free yourself and your partners of financial slavery. This will then lead to an abundance of good feelings. Then you add to that strong communication and emotional mastery skills and you're off to the races. 

Looks are okay but not really that important. I work in the fashion and modelling industry and great looking guys that don't get laid is super common. Being charming, relatable and being able to tease a woman and find your way into her heart doesn't have much to do with looks. 

[Valach]

Healthy self esteem would be number one for me.

[Hojo]

I thought it was a massive wiener.

[bazera]

Humor, confidence, wittiness maybe. 

Ability to being vulnerable.

[theleelajoker]

I have another one that has not been named yet. And as said above, I also don't watch videos without context.

The one quality that has not been named yet is caring. Caring about the world and other people. Genuinely doing your best to make the world a better place. 

It's an emotional energy I have experienced in three different women this weekend, and each time it was sexy as hell. And I don't talk about pity as in "oh I have to take care of XYZ this poor thing" but rather a determined "this sucks what can we do about it to make it better"?

And re the other way, I have experienced that women seem to be more attracted to me when I genuinely care about the state of the world and ideally take action. Has to be honest and authentic, of course.

Edited yesterday at 12:31 AM by theleelajoker

[oOo]

I solely filter for empathy.

It's the lock-in trait or at least the oil for literally every other quality as a mother, and for what I'm looking for in a relationship.

Everything else is Play-Doh around that. I don't even have to watch the video.

I have thought about this topic for literally thousands of hours, and I have spent thousands of hours raising my nephews and nieces as well. So when I say empathy, you know a guy like me has more refined narratives on what that actually means than standard memetic soup. Absorb as much life as possible, fine-tune the release. Aaaand... Exhale. 

It's been my dream to become a father and a husband since I was a teenager, everything since then has been adaptation, attunements and deeper life experiences. Until then, I enjoy the Play-Dome. 

[Valach]

@oOoMind to share what a real empathy looks like to you then?

[Ramasta9]

Energy comes first, then looks. Learn to "see" not merely "look".