Pickup, Sexual Abundance & Emptiness

[CARDOZZO]

30 minutes ago, Jowblob said:

This is exactly what i was talking about in my abundance thread, and this is why i'm not aligned sharing more details about higher states or how to get there. This forum doesn't vibrate at the knowledge that is out there, all i can do is give you some pointers. I understand ofcourse where your anger comes from and that is fine, god decides where you're supossed to be right now and i'm just sharing you higher knowledge from higher vibrations so you can experience your reality and look forward to higher vibration and things, but because you do not understand this and feel left out you get angry. Nobody is in fact left out, you're just experiencing your reality of lack temporary and i'm just sharing some information from a reality of fullness and abundance, No need to get angry, it's just an experience.

God.

Ok, Ramana Maharshi. Sorry for being a naughty little boy.

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Jowblob aren't you able to sense your words are not received so well? 

[CARDOZZO]

35 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Jowblob aren't you able to sense your words are not received so well? 

Mr. High Vibration will try to gaslight yourself into his consciousness word salad affirming you are doing projection. Oh God. They act cool until Amazon delay their packages. 

[Jowblob]

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Jowblob aren't you able to sense your words are not received so well? 

Yes ofcourse i know this, and that my words create seperation and attack peoples ego sometimes. I can also make my posts in ramana maharshi style, and then the reality will be different. It doesn't matter. I'm fully aware of ego mechanisms. I was recently thinking about you in my mind, and found you to be intelligent and beautiful conscious being because you asked me what my intention was previously, which is a very intelligent way to combine both reality frameworks and create unity.

Edited January 31 by Jowblob

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 hour ago, Jowblob said:

Yes ofcourse i know this, and that my words create seperation and attack peoples ego sometimes. I can also make my posts in ramana maharshi style, and then the reality will be different. It doesn't matter. I'm fully aware of ego mechanisms. I was recently thinking about you in my mind, and found you to be intelligent and beautiful conscious being because you asked me what my intention was previously, which is a very intelligent way to combine both reality frameworks and create unity.

I really appreciate that 🙏

It is difficult to communicate some things - impossible actually. Which is why we are left pointing, implying or simply confused.

I try to understand where users are attempting to bridge the gap in there experience with another. It is a fine line to convey discernment and wisdom without it being received as judgement & ego. 

Many times I have much more knowledge, or things I can communicate that may help (many times less, also!). But more often than not, I recognise the process is more important for the user to move through than anything I have to say.

Edited January 31 by Natasha Tori Maru

[Jowblob]

29 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I really appreciate that 🙏

It is difficult to communicate some things - impossible actually. Which is why we are left pointing, implying or simply confused.

 

Yup, each individual shares a different framework. If i would put a single word that would carry a different energy, they would respond differently (and i'm aware of that beforehand). At some point you will understand that everyone is an actor, and nobody is actually being attacked. Sometimes you pretend, sometimes you express how you feel, sometimes you respond to make yourself look better, sometimes you respond to troll, sometimes you respond to make a joke. As you an see it's all an act. From my state where i'm currently at, the words of others don't attack me  at all it is the ego that feels attacked, it's a roleplaying game and all attacks will eventually not be personal. And i also don't blame Cardozzo for responding to me like that, because beforehand i was fully aware that he would respond like this because of the words that i used. And i don't blame him, when i was fully in my ego i was like that too mostly, and i just see my old self in them. You're not living to pleasure everyone, just express yourself how you feel yourself in the moment this prevents blockages in your consciousness, be a conscious actor.

[CARDOZZO]

50 minutes ago, Jowblob said:

Yup, each individual shares a different framework. If i would put a single word that would carry a different energy, they would respond differently (and i'm aware of that beforehand). At some point you will understand that everyone is an actor, and nobody is actually being attacked. Sometimes you pretend, sometimes you express how you feel, sometimes you respond to make yourself look better, sometimes you respond to troll, sometimes you respond to make a joke. As you an see it's all an act. From my state where i'm currently at, the words of others don't attack me  at all it is the ego that feels attacked, it's a roleplaying game and all attacks will eventually not be personal. And i also don't blame Cardozzo for responding to me like that, because beforehand i was fully aware that he would respond like this because of the words that i used. And i don't blame him, when i was fully in my ego i was like that too mostly, and i just see my old self in them. You're not living to pleasure everyone, just express yourself how you feel yourself in the moment this prevents blockages in your consciousness, be a conscious actor.

There is no problem about being a advanced spiritual being. The thing is that you are on a forum talking to other humans. It seems you do not want to engage or communicate at all. You want to live on a solipsistic echo chamber. Why are you here exactly?

As you said, we are not on your level of consciousness to comprehend your high vibrational knowledge. Let us peasants be peasants. 

Deep down you feel a NEED to relate and communicate. It will bite your ass as soon as possible. 

I wish you the best. If my words hurt you anyway, sorry, this was not my intention.

Just remember one distinction: if you are on a human forum where they exist independently from each other, where each one have a worldview, engage as if it was real. 

Real solipsists do not need to play this superiority game. Why playing? There is no one, right? 

Just saying.

 

[Yimpa]

1 minute ago, CARDOZZO said:

It will bite your ass as soon as possible. 

[CARDOZZO]

36 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

[Jowblob]

18 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

22 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

There is no problem about being a advanced spiritual being. The thing is that you are on a forum talking to other humans. It seems you do not want to engage or communicate at all. You want to live on a solipsistic echo chamber. Why are you here exactly?

As you said, we are not on your level of consciousness to comprehend your high vibrational knowledge. Let us peasants be peasants. 

Deep down you feel a NEED to relate and communicate. It will bite your ass as soon as possible. 

I wish you the best. If my words hurt you anyway, sorry, this was not my intention.

Just remember one distinction: if you are on a human forum where they exist independently from each other, where each one have a worldview, engage as if it was real. 

Real solipsists do not need to play this superiority game. Why playing? There is no one, right? 

Just saying.

 

 

If there are no others, to whom are you speaking?
And to whom does this sense of superiority arise?

[CARDOZZO]

3 minutes ago, Jowblob said:

If there are no others, to whom are you speaking?
And to whom does this sense of superiority arise?

Nice try 😎

[Jowblob]

6 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Nice try 😎

Yes who smiled?

Edited January 31 by Jowblob

[Meeksauce]

On 1/28/2026 at 11:35 PM, CARDOZZO said:

I did it. Yes - I did it.

I achieved what pickup puts as an ideal for men. I got it. 

There are 35 woman on my whatsapp + 70 matches on Tinder.

They like me. They want to fuck. They tell me how funny I am. They want me. 

I had enormous success past 4 years with pickup. 

As a teenager with little dating success, I've worked hard to suppress how I wanted to be seen and loved by women. 

Until one day, I've seen a video about pickup. Who? Owen Cook. Yeah! This motherfucker saved my dating life (and even tell me to start meditation + being sober) - Owen, if you are reading this, thanks man.

But now guess what? I feel empty as a infinite void. (Why? Are you not complete? You're a liar. Read Ralston again, bitch.)

I just did it. And now?

I don't care. They love me. I have sex whenever I want. I'm brutally honest, bold and sincere with woman to the point of expressing to them that I'm texting her + 20 girls with no remorse.

I don't know what to expect anymore about dating. Time to move on. 

Family? Relationship? Being Married? Fucking +50 girls? Becoming a Monk? 

I will find a way. 

Just sharing some thoughts. 

Any tips or advice you can share? I'm obsessed with getting female validation and love like you, but I seem to only get rejections and I try with a lot of people. I'm decent to good looking and I feel like I have a deep personality, I just don't know what I'm doing wrong and I have a heartache 24/7 from never having my feelings reciprocated. I'm probably just not good looking enough

[CARDOZZO]

55 minutes ago, Meeksauce said:

Any tips or advice you can share? I'm obsessed with getting female validation and love like you, but I seem to only get rejections and I try with a lot of people. I'm decent to good looking and I feel like I have a deep personality, I just don't know what I'm doing wrong and I have a heartache 24/7 from never having my feelings reciprocated. I'm probably just not good looking enough

You need to start somewhere. Burn your karma!  

Search for a thread called "Tinder Secrets". I've shared some tips on how to make a good Tinder profile. I would say to lower your standards. Be honest, bold and direct. Sooner or later you will get a lot of sex or a GF. 

Read 2 books:

1. Models - Mark Manson
2. Mode One - Alan Roger Currie

You will be fine.

[Lila9]

Dude, where is your self-respect? Why are you so insecure?

Why are you self-trashing and proud of it? Making dead, non-erotic love with strangers, masturbating into their bodies just for the sake of your ego? To fulfill the bottomless hole in your soul?

No wonder you feel empty.

And this attention and validation you receive means nothing. You are just another guy to them, as they are just another girls to you.

Let’s see you build a real connection with a woman, with a deep spiritual connection, mastering tantric sex, live with her for at least a decade, and raise non-mentally-screwed-up children. Then I would understand the pride.

[CARDOZZO]

3 hours ago, Lila9 said:

Dude, where is your self-respect? Why are you so insecure?

Yeah. I'm working on it. I'm not perfect  

3 hours ago, Lila9 said:

Why are you self-trashing and proud of it? Making dead, non-erotic love with strangers, masturbating into their bodies just for the sake of your ego? To fulfill the bottomless hole in your soul?

This is how you get experience. These days I can't marry the first woman I see. The hole in my soul is big enough, I got it.

 

3 hours ago, Lila9 said:

And this attention and validation you receive means nothing. You are just another guy to them, as they are just another girls to you.

Sure. This is what casual sex means. I never lied to them. I tell what I want and they also want it too. 

3 hours ago, Lila9 said:

Let’s see you build a real connection with a woman, with a deep spiritual connection, mastering tantric sex, live with her for at least a decade, and raise non-mentally-screwed-up children. Then I would understand the pride.

This is a deep point to strive. I hope you are on that level with your partner because if you are not, you're just hating on me for nothing.