Pickup, Sexual Abundance & Emptiness

[CARDOZZO]

33 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Yes.  What I meant is although I have no experience in this area and never needed to have, it's still impressive to watch from a distance people who are doing this.  I'm kind of the opposite mentality, I feel really nervous with too many relationships (of any kind including friends and acquaintances) and the emotional dependencies that result.  I like one solid romantic relationship.

Sure, you can see the level of damage one needs to have to do it naturally. Pickup is for the crazy ones for sure. 

I wil develop myself to keep satisfied with 1 woman. Maynor's game is my new game.

[Rishabh R]

1 minute ago, CARDOZZO said:

Sure, you can see the level of damage one needs to have to do it naturally. Pickup is for the crazy ones for sure. 

I wil develop myself to keep satisfied with 1 woman. Maynor's game is my new game.

Great, you are moving in the direction of more fulfilling life.

[CARDOZZO]

I want you to keep in mind that I have a strong sexual drive. This is something that keeps disturbing other areas of my life.

I feel my dick is in flames. Literally that. A strong sexual drive, a burning desire. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

3 hours ago, CARDOZZO said:

I want you to keep in mind that I have a strong sexual drive. This is something that keeps disturbing other areas of my life.

I feel my dick is in flames. Literally that. A strong sexual drive, a burning desire. 

I know many men of similar drive. One of my ex's was insatiable. I couldnt keep up. And I had to explain to him, with references, how women can't just keep rooting all day and not run into issues with their sparrow 🤣

You probably know of Frank Yang - his sex drive was his biggest biological conditioning. He turned to spirituality to help with it. 

And obviously he found... A lot more! Lol 

[Miguel1]

8 hours ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

After you become conscious of everything, and all your questions are answered, why wouldn’t you go back to the monkey games? What else is there to do?

1. Seems like there is infinite ways to explore consciousbess more

2. Even if you go back, like I said, the quality will be completely different. You wont get lost in chasing money, sex, and status, and mastering survival — but in doing meaningful work that is not optimized for Survival.

[Miguel1]

5 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

You probably know of Frank Yang - his sex drive was his biggest biological conditioning. He turned to spirituality to help with it. 

Wait a second, have I seen you in one of his videos

[Miguel1]

7 hours ago, CARDOZZO said:

The emptiness comes from the process itself. When I'm doing sex, I am present and I do like the girls.

Interesting. We have it backwards.

The process of seudcing the girls is somewhat exciting and fun for me nowadays, if I don’t do it too much. Rushing to sex with the closer mindset I used to have, completely ruins the sex for me.

Taking my sweet time in the seduction process, leads to a much more fulfilling sexual experience as well.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

6 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Taking my sweet time in the seduction process, leads to a much more fulfilling sexual experience as well.

This also has the benefit of making her go nuclear with anticipation.

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

Wait a second, have I seen you in one of his videos

Maybe a doppleganger 😉

[Miguel1]

23 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

This also has the benefit of making her go nuclear with anticipation.

Oh I love that.

As I’ve said before, nowadays I don’t really even like to close numbers and especially sex, if she isn’t deeply desiring it.

[Jowblob]

8 hours ago, CARDOZZO said:

Empty your cup.

Why do you assume that I have a "material consciousness"? Am I shallow because I do like sex?

How do you know that I am not "feeling much"?

The emptiness comes from the process itself. When I'm doing sex, I am present and I do like the girls.

I told you the truth why this is not abundance and why sex for you lacks in sensation and feeling and why you might feel empty sensations or not feeling much during the act . Has nothing to do with you liking the girls. You do not understand what i'm saying because you do not know what unity is yet and what feeling or sensations come from it. That's why i'm telling and explaining you personally why you feel this way. When personal consciousness is in lack or ego based you will only feel a fraction of the sensations during the act and won't be connected to the girl or her body or her movements, this seperation creates lack of feeling and sensations and pleasure and creates void or emptiness. So the sex becomes essentially useless.

Edited 1 hour ago by Jowblob

[Miguel1]

29 minutes ago, Jowblob said:

When personal consciousness is in lack or ego based you will only feel a fraction of the sensations during the act and won't be connected to the girl or her body or her movements, this seperation creates lack of feeling and sensations and pleasure and creates void or emptiness. So the sex becomes essentially useless.

I resonate with this.

My peak pickup year was when I was 24-25. This was also when my ego was most out of control.

I was forced to face it when covid and quarantines hit.

At this state of consciousness, I was in so much lack that I wasnt enjoying the girls really at all. I was enjoying the escapism where I was able to satisfy my ego for a small moment at a time, and it shut down for that brief moment.

After the first wave of quarantine, I came out a completely different man, and the quality of my relationship and sex shifted completely. It became truly fulfilling for the first time during that whole phase.