Hack to get female attention: White Sweatpants

[AION]

Nah. You two are not getting simple words that anybody with an IQ of 100 would understand. I’m done with you two. 

Edited 8 hours ago by AION

[Valach]

38 minutes ago, something_else said:

Most people who go into pickup are ridiculously needy, as a field it exists largely to teach those guys how to mask neediness in order to get laid. It can be a valuable stage in a man's development to be fair, but often many men never truly heal the deep neediness and the mask starts to fall away again as they age.

You mostly become truly non-needy through unconditional (or close to it) love, which more often than not comes from family and especially deep friendships instead of relationships. Having a close-knit circle of friends will make your neediness vanish. If you go for a night out and your primary priority is "I want to have a good time with my friends" you will come across as much less needy than the pickup artist who's out specifically to get laid, and you'll probably get laid more as a result of that.

I feel like friendships are great and essential but they are usually a consequence of a healthy self esteem rather than cause of it.

As you said, deep sense of self love and self acceptance does get rid of neediness and craving for validation (which in my experience does get rid of the need for casual sex for the most part as well). However for that one often has to resolve his traumas and especially attachment issues.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

1 hour ago, something_else said:

If you go for a night out and your primary priority is "I want to have a good time with my friends" you will come across as much less needy than the pickup artist who's out specifically to get laid, and you'll probably get laid more as a result of that.

You will come across as less needy, but it won't increase your chances of getting laid. That's just some made up normie bullshit

[AION]

42 minutes ago, Valach said:

I feel like friendships are great and essential but they are usually a consequence of a healthy self esteem rather than cause of it.

As you said, deep sense of self love and self acceptance does get rid of neediness and craving for validation (which in my experience does get rid of the need for casual sex for the most part as well). However for that one often has to resolve his traumas and especially attachment issues.

Self love comes from abundance actually. It is letting go of lack, finity and low paradigm. Everybody knows that self love is the solution to many illnesses but most people don't understand what it is and how it is linked to abundance. ♾️

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[something_else]

56 minutes ago, Valach said:

I feel like friendships are great and essential but they are usually a consequence of a healthy self esteem rather than cause of it.

As you said, deep sense of self love and self acceptance does get rid of neediness and craving for validation (which in my experience does get rid of the need for casual sex for the most part as well). However for that one often has to resolve his traumas and especially attachment issues.

People with low self-esteem often still have close friends. If don't have many or any friends then fixing that should be your top priority, not getting laid. My point was that putting all of your effort into getting laid when you can't even make a friend is very much putting the cart before the horse.

29 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

You will come across as less needy, but it won't increase your chances of getting laid.

Having friends won't necessarily get you laid, but not having friends will make it 100x harder. 

If you have friends to do stuff with then you meet more people, and the chance of finding a woman who likes you goes up significantly. Good friends will also improve your confidence and self-esteem because they provide much more unconditional love than what you will usually get from a relationship.

 

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[AION]

23 minutes ago, something_else said:

People with low self-esteem often still have close friends. If don't have many or any friends then fixing that should be your top priority, not getting laid. My point was that putting all of your effort into getting laid when you can't even make a friend is very much putting the cart before the horse.

Having friends won't necessarily get you laid, but not having friends will make it 100x harder. 

If you have friends to do stuff with then you meet more people, and the chance of finding a woman who likes you goes up significantly. Good friends will also improve your confidence and self-esteem because they provide much more unconditional love than what you will usually get from a relationship.

 

Exactly. His Logic is so binary and simple. Reality doesn’t work like that. Same for that other fool. Reality and human relationships are much more advanced that binary logic and if then then that. It is because reality is too difficult for them to understand. Human relationships are not mechanical like that. 

Edited 6 hours ago by AION

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

8 minutes ago, something_else said:

Having friends won't necessarily get you laid, but not having friends will make it 100x harder. 

I don't think it would make it harder, the difficulty remains the same and constant. Unless you have some sort of perceived social status within the friend group or you're good looking then it's easier

20 minutes ago, something_else said:

If you have friends to do stuff with then you meet more people, and the chance of finding a woman who likes you goes up significantly. Good friends will also improve your confidence and self-esteem because they provide much more unconditional love than what you will usually get from a relationship.

I can't relate to that. Most people will just fuck your over with their selfishness and human BS in general. Most people are not good friends as well (especially male friends are dogshit), and certainly not me either. LOL And it's not like friends just fall out of sky. IDK telling someone to make friends really is like telling a homeless person to get a job or something like that

[Valach]

18 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

I don't think it would make it harder, the difficulty remains the same and constant. Unless you have some sort of perceived social status within the friend group or you're good looking then it's easier

It is not neccessarily about them being with you. When you have great friends, you feel great. When you feel great it is much better to make a good impact on woman and thus get laid easier.

[Kid A]

23 hours ago, AION said:

 Usually you have to do the opposite of women say and you are generally fine. It is about creating polarity your energy. 

 

41 minutes ago, AION said:

Exactly. His Logic is so binary and simple. Reality doesn’t work like that. Same for that other fool. Reality and human relationships are much more advanced that binary logic and if then then that. It is because reality is too difficult for them to understand. Human relationships are not mechanical like that. 

 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

30 minutes ago, Valach said:

It is not neccessarily about them being with you. When you have great friends, you feel great. When you feel great it is much better to make a good impact on woman and thus get laid easier.

Depends on the "friends"

And idk, I'm not obsessed with this getting laid stuff, I'm also speaking in general that this whole concept of friends aint shit. I'd like to have some but shit is hard if you are a non conformist and don't enjoy doing most "fun" activities. Or even enjoy doing most things, and don't have much common ground with people

Edited 6 hours ago by NewKidOnTheBlock

[AION]

12 minutes ago, Kid A said:

 

 

That is not binary logic. Read it again.

[Kid A]

«It’s not binary logic if I’m the one using it and I have a really good reason for it.»

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[NewKidOnTheBlock]

5 minutes ago, Kid A said:

«It’s not binary logic if I’m the one doing it and I have a really good reason for it.»

He just loves sucking his own wiener so much; it's like a symptome straight out of the Generalized Guru Disorder (utterly made up ofc), once you have aproximately 2000+ posts on this forum you'll start to think any thought from you could be weighted in gold and platinum; this syndrome gets exacerbated once you gain those mod privileges ofc

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 hours ago, Kid A said:

 

 

Shh don't mog the fella too hard 🥹🤣

1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

once you have aproximately 2000+ posts on this forum you'll start to think any thought from you could be weighted in gold and platinum; this syndrome gets exacerbated once you gain those mod privileges ofc

But I love you (⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠❤

Jokes, I'm a peice of shit. Just like the rest of the humans 🤣

Better self delete as you approach the 2k post singularity 🥹

Edited 3 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Kid A]

1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

He just loves sucking his own wiener so much; it's like a symptome straight out of the Generalized Guru Disorder (utterly made up ofc), once you have aproximately 2000+ posts on this forum you'll start to think any thought from you could be weighted in gold and platinum; this syndrome gets exacerbated once you gain those mod privileges ofc

Hah! I can definitely think of several cases of this.

[AION]

I also know one person like this. It starts with a N and ends with an A.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

20 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

But I love you (⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠❤

Jokes, I'm a peice of shit. Just like the rest of the humans 🤣

Better self delete as you approach the 2k post singularity 🥹

You're definitely one of the exceptions😁

[Oppositionless]

I already knew I had an above average sized cock that showed through my gym shorts , but I didn't think women gave a shit. This post puts my experience of intense positive attention at ecstatic dance and yoga into perspective, although I suspect the kriya pranayama and 5 meo awakenings had a deeper impact.

[AION]

To be honest, I have a lot of insights I don't share. I'm not going to share my pearls with pigs.

[something_else]

4 hours ago, AION said:

Exactly. His Logic is so binary and simple. Reality doesn’t work like that. Same for that other fool. Reality and human relationships are much more advanced that binary logic and if then then that. It is because reality is too difficult for them to understand. Human relationships are not mechanical like that. 

Even though you’re agreeing with me, the tone here feels unnecessarily hostile and ad hominem. Calling people “fools” and framing disagreement as stupidity doesn’t help move the discussion forward. It doesn’t encourage people to change their minds or reconsider their position. If anything, it just makes people more inclined to dig their heels in more