Enemies

[Natasha Tori Maru]

8 hours ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

is this some scoping to try and "dunk" on me? if so, i won't buy it. i stand by my original points. if that offends people, so be it. i don't subscribe to darfk attitudes.

What? 

[UnbornTao]

@Shermaningeorgia Are you a past user trying to stir up drama?

[Joshe]

My dad was always creating enemies. Always thinking someone was plotting against him. He built these stories in his head and turned people into enemies. He was constructing the entire thing. 

He thought people were sitting around thinking about him and how to get him. I always had to tell him, "dad, these people are not sitting around thinking about you. Do you really think they're sitting around in their favorite chair, spending their time thinking about how to fuck you over?"

Over the years, he came to realize the absurdity of his enemy creation and is much more peaceful now that he doesn't do it anymore. 

You create enemies because you're getting something from it. It's about self-worth and emotional pain.

There are certain insights or facts that you can use to show you the entire enemy creation thing you're doing doesn't make logical sense. You can deconstruct the entire thing relatively easily if you want to. Just ask.