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Why I'm quitting NoFap.

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@Princess Arabia I have a girlfriend. 

 

 


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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2 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@Princess Arabia I have a girlfriend. 

 

 

Me too. Threesome, shall we,.,hmmm...lol


What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. 

 

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7 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Me too

You too have a girlfriend?  🤔 so you are a ⚢ lesbian for real ?

Told ya it ain't gonna work .

 


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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Just now, Someone here said:

You too have a girlfriend?  🤔 so you are a ⚢ lesbian for real ?

Told ya it ain't gonna work .

 

I was just feeding into your jokes. I have a catfriend which happens to be female. I'm straight but can go either way as i'm an enlightened being that doesn't discriminate 🤣


What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. 

 

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@Princess Arabia i have a boyfriend.♂️♂️


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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Just now, Someone here said:

@Princess Arabia i have a boyfriend.♂️♂️

So you're covered either way. Win win.


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@Someone hereDon't worry, we'll be fighting again next week, so a long-distance relationship is best.


What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. 

 

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3 hours ago, Someone here said:

Because it feels "Guuuuuuud". I mean like...REALLY FUCKING GUUUUD. 

technically when you are having an orgasm you're literally  kissing the entire existence "fuck off " And getting a temporary peak of nirvana. 

Come on Carl you are smarter than that. Such a lame question 😂. 

So why is real sex not harmful and not supposedly leading to brain damage?


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5 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

@Someone hereDon't worry, we'll be fighting again next week, so a long-distance relationship is best.

more like next day:P

2 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

So why is real sex not harmful and not supposedly leading to brain damage?

Who said so ? Anything if taken to extreme levels Is going to be dysfunctional. 

 For example..If I married that girl in the video up there that I've linked to Princess Arabia I might die in the bedroom because I will keep having sex with her until I literally starve to death or something lol.


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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Posted (edited)

1 hour ago, Someone here said:

more like next day:P

Who said so ? Anything if taken to extreme levels Is going to be dysfunctional. 

 For example..If I married that girl in the video up there that I've linked to Princess Arabia I might die in the bedroom because I will keep having sex with her until I literally starve to death or something lol.

So porn is not harmful then, only when taken to the extreme?

Edited by Carl-Richard

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24 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

So porn is not harmful then, only when taken to the extreme?

You think you are being a smart arse?... Overdosing on water can kill you . And Overdosing on poison can kill you.  But a sip of water won't kill you. A sip of poison will kill you . Got it ?


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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Posted (edited)

You should not masturbate compulsively, only when there are natural urges; Otherwise the daily motivation, especially to find a girlfriend, will decrease; Energy in general. 

Edited by Schizophonia

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Posted (edited)

6 hours ago, Carl-Richard said:

So porn is not harmful then, only when taken to the extreme?

Depends on how you consume it.

Watching ONLY 1 video a month without clicking through and holdiing in ejauclations by switching videos to crank up dopamine release is not as harmful if say:

You sit 2 hours preventing ejaculations by mindlessly switching and looking at hundreds of naked women. 

Its harmful if the ratio to real sex vs pornography is higher.

Do an experiment for the name of consciousness. Dont watch any porn for 1-2 years (depends on how early in life you were introduced to this) and then try to watch a porn video after these years. You might not even get a boner from a porn video anymore and honestly, when you watch that monitor of another man pleasuring himself with a women, the risk is high that you will just close the browser and realize that this is not the answer.

I have not watched since 2018, if i try now i dont even get a boner regardless if the woman is insanely attractive.

 

You will have better relationship with women aswell. I see guys without partners who consume porn when I am out dancing and stuff. These guys have a hungry look in their eyes when they are out and trying to get laid. Almost as if they are looking at a women like the Lion from the savana is looking at his pray, the meat from the deer.

Honestly, if there were bright lights in the clubs, I am sure you can even see the drool dripping down from these guys.

Do these get laid? no because they only think of sex when they go out, thats their main goal, to get laid, but the goal aint working with those thirsty eyes, boy.

 

You will see for what it is, pixels on a screen that  your GPU renders and if you decide to fap, you might stop after 3 seconds because it will feel ridiculously.

But if you single and have no sexual partner then the fapping might begin again. People should focus on finding a partner instead of relying for pleassure by pixels.

 

I mean, nearly 80% reported erectile dysfunction due to porn, so it might not be all gold and green forrests as people want porn to be.

Edited by D2sage

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1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

You should not masturbate compulsively, only when there are natural urges; Otherwise the daily motivation, especially to find a girlfriend, will decrease; Energy in general. 

You shouldn't should anything. You listen to how you feel . You are NEVER without an internal self-guiding compass.if your voice is getting too manly and raspy and your balls are full of jizz and your cock is itchy then just fucking fap off like there is no tomorrow..no one is watching.  And if you do that and allow yourself to enjoy the experience fully you will soon get bored of it ..your hormones will stabilise ..and you will just move on to the next thing in your life .music ..video games ..work ..art ..creativity..picking up girls etc .


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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@D2sage you sound like you are a moderator on the nofap forum 😂. 


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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Posted (edited)

1 hour ago, Someone here said:

@D2sage you sound like you are a moderator on the nofap forum 😂. 

You can  leave out porn from your life entirely WITHOUT being a moderator. That's my wholehearted promise to you.

Edited by D2sage

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Posted (edited)

40 minutes ago, Applegarden8 said:

He's pro no-fap, just like me :)

You're good to go man I wish you  the best most awesome life possible on nofap .you got this . I did read a statement online today that made me  shit myself "life is too short to not cum everyday ":D

Edited by Someone here

 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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35 minutes ago, D2sage said:

You can  leave out porn from your life entirely WITHOUT being a moderator. That's my wholehearted promise to you.

And now I'm sure you are indeed a nofap mod 😂. 

Much love man  😅🙏


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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Posted (edited)

@D2sage I don't find the evidence very convincing. Do these studies account for the types/categories of porn being watched? There's a difference between pictures, text, videos, solo videos of a chick masturbating, lesbian porn, classic porn where a dude is piping down a chick, etc.

I don't even know if you're against porn or masturbation in general. Good luck with that. Replacing masturbation entirely with real sex would require going out heavilly every single day. Who's got time, money, freedom and will to do that. Or gf allowing u to fuck her every day. Could happen but again; good luck with that also. And ejaculating just once or even couple times a week is not optimal. Should be at least 21 times a month.

This is all bullshit imho LEL

Edited by NewKidOnTheBlock

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Posted (edited)

@NewKidOnTheBlock 

If you allow your brain to recover from porn you wont need mastrubation every single day. Unless you are 12 years old who just got cum instead of air comming out the dick.

Porn has made you into a horny goat who thinks that the sex drive is on top of the game. 

 

1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

I don't find the evidence very convincing.

that's a cope mechanism for you to jusitfy your porn usage.

1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

ejaculating just once or even couple times a week is not optimal. Should be at least 21 times a month.

Why not 20? or 18? I dont find the evidence very convincing. This is pure horsecrap that shows up from Googles broken health alogrithm search.

Your brain is against porn and your future erection (if you dont want to rely on Viagra) is aswell.

 

There are hundreds of convincing evidence but you are afraid to let go of porn. This is where the shoe pinches. 

Your brain wants that free dopamine. Your mind is playing tricks on you and you dont even realize it.:P

 

All you are doing is watching another man thrusting a woman, and you get hard of that. But down the road you wont get hard or you will have trouble to stay hard during real sex, unless you want to play a porn video in the background and mastrubate from time to time to get the blood up and running.

And you dont need to fuck a girlfriend every day.  See how porn has screwed up your view here?

Like if all you want to do with her is to have sex then she will dump you, seen it happen even to tall and handsome men broken by porn.

Edited by D2sage

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