Want to get into pickup but scared of STD's/women lying about not having them

[Magnanimous]

I'll always practice safe sex with a stranger, but I fear if we get into dating and hooking up at least semi regularly she could lie about not having an STD. How to spot girls like this?

And I fear with the amount of girls I could bang I'll get one anyways. Any tips to prevent catching STD'S?

[NoSelfSelf]

Before all of that worry,you already lost by your opponent.. is that you are in it to get laid,so she can use sex to do whatever she wants you to do and you will put up with that bs.Like a hamster in a wheel,shes thinking what kind of obstacle will i give him today that will he hop as a good boy.He must be worthy of my pu@@y cmon.

First obstacle:

Buy me a drink first 😂

Edited December 24, 2024 by NoSelfSelf

[Whitney Edwards]

Get into a relationship with a monogamous person. 

Tell them to get checked. Don't sleep if they don't wanna get checked. 

I understand your concern. It's legit. 

 

I used to be afraid of dating because of this. I always thought I might end up with someone who might lie about having std and that was a huge fear although I never wanted to sleep with many men. 

Now I found a monogamous partner and I'm carefree that I don't have to worry about such thing anymore. 

Even many men lie about having stds and  I know a few women who acquired stds by sleeping with their boyfriends. It's the worst experience I must say. 

But the only real solution is to find monogamous partners and people who are ready to be checked. I mean those are responsible people. 

 

[Leo Gura]

Realistically, if you are selecting quality girls who aren't trashy looking and take care of their appearance, and you wear a condom, your risk is very low.

If you are sleeping with broke ass homless girls and drug addicts then watch out.

Many STDs are also curable so it's not a death sentence.

Edited December 24, 2024 by Leo Gura

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

6 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Before all of that worry,you already lost by your opponent..

How can you have a successfull dating life by viewing women as opponents?

6 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

is that you are in it to get laid

We are all in it to get laid. It's absolutely natural and there's nothing wrong with it, what's the point of all of these mental acrobatics?

6 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

so she can use sex to do whatever she wants you to do and you will put up with that bs.

The degree to which a woman would want to "use you" for something, depends on your looks.

[NoSelfSelf]

4 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

How can you have a successfull dating life by viewing women as opponents?

We are all in it to get laid. It's absolutely natural and there's nothing wrong with it, what's the point of all of these mental acrobatics?

The degree to which a woman would want to "use you" for something, depends on your looks.

No point in talking to you,you already know everything.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Yall need to get blackpilled on this forum a bit for real. There's too much truth in it to pretend like it's not the case. Just don't let it make you hopeless or whatever

Edited December 24, 2024 by NewKidOnTheBlock

[gettoefl]

The reason we view the world as lying is because we are lying to the world.

I would deal with this before thinking of dating.

[something_else]

2 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Yall need to get blackpilled on this forum a bit for real. There's too much truth in it to pretend like it's not the case. Just don't let it make you hopeless or whatever

Lmao that's not even relevant to this thread. If you have to shoehorn your opinions into a random convo it suggests you are arguing from a place of bias/insecurity rather than reality/experience.

14 hours ago, Magnanimous said:

I'll always practice safe sex with a stranger, but I fear if we get into dating and hooking up at least semi regularly she could lie about not having an STD. How to spot girls like this?

And I fear with the amount of girls I could bang I'll get one anyways. Any tips to prevent catching STD'S?

You should be worrying about getting someone pregnant unintentionally farrrrr more. That'll fuck your life up more than an STD.

I've dated/hooked up a fair bit and I've never gotten an STD. If you always wear a condom, your risk is pretty low. And even if you get an STD, most of the time it isn't a huge deal.

[AION]

@something_else it depends on your location. If you live in UK or something where girls are being ran through you have to be more careful than other places where people are mindful. 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

24 minutes ago, something_else said:

Lmao that's not even relevant to this thread. If you have to shoehorn your opinions into a random convo it suggests you are arguing from a place of bias/insecurity rather than reality/experience.

It's true that my points aren't relevant to thread because frankly, the topic doesn't interest me much. Just being observant/cognizant of the chick you're dealing with and having protection is enough to avoid most risks

[Whitney Edwards]

Using condoms seems to be the go to solution. But what about oral sex then? 

[something_else]

5 hours ago, AION said:

@something_else it depends on your location. If you live in UK or something where girls are being ran through you have to be more careful than other places where people are mindful. 

I live in the UK lmao. Unnecessarily crude language aside, idk where you're getting this idea from anyway. It's no different from any other Western country in terms of average body counts. In fact I think the UK is on the low side compared to a lot of other Western countries.

I also backpacked SE Asia for the last year where STDs are supposedly rampant and never caught anything. I'm not saying there are no risks, just that if you are diligent about wearing a condom and have at least some standards, you're probably going to be fine. Pregnancy scares me a lot more.