Hello everybody, first post here.
I'll give a bit of my background for context in this post. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 years and we have always been very open with each other and have good communication. She came from a religious background and a fairly stage blue family from a small town. I've always considered myself a bit of a hippie and from a stage orange family. I was introduced to psychedelics when I was 17 and began spiritual practices when I was 23 (I'm 29 now). It wasn't until I saw Leos videos a few years ago that I seriously combined my psychedelic experiences with spiritual practices as well. Any who, I was able to introduce her to psychedelics and spirituality and I feel she's made significant progress towards green.
Our main challenge with our relationship ( I think) is our inability to have long, deep, passionate, satisfying sex. We've talked about it and because of her upbringing she still feels shame about her body and sexuality which makes it hard for her to open up, let go and relax during sex. She's never had an orgasm before, not with me or her previous boyfriends or during solo masturbation. And that breaks my heart. I've worked on foreplay quite a bit, which we do anywhere from 5 to 20 minutes, but when it comes to penetration I can only last from 3 to 5 minutes on average . Our sex is still fun and weekly but we both know it could be way better.
With all that being said, I've let this issue go on for way too long and I want to do something about it. I want to make it my mission to be the first person to give her an orgasm. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Any quality reference to material for men to be able to give better foreplay and longer endurance in bed would also be great. She is currently taking an online course from Kim Anami (the well fucked woman) to increase her sexual confidence, openness and ability to orgasm. Kim Anami also has a course called Sexual Mastery for Men which I'm contemplating. Has anyone taken this course and noticed good results?
Thanks in advance,