NoSelfSelf

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  1. @Etherial CatOh now i get it yeah its true guy with options will leave girls hanging and not even wanting relationship while some great guy but no so attractive want the relationship but girl will go for that attractive guy lol
  2. Yes but they are usually so unconcious that they wouldnt even consider enlightement as a possibility..
  3. Thats your insecurities coming up(investigate them)point is that everyone has options and then the solid relationship is made because of it... thats only way to have a real connection and love many people "love" their partners out of fear they dont have other options so they live a lie,thats why i would love to be good at pick up because when i have options i can truly love that one person not thinking i have no options and its run by fear...thats "true"love ...
  4. No you are not a pussy its a society conditioning...you are not concious yet that you create your reality there is no enviroment creating your reality you are doing it... in logical way i can tell you that only way you can experience enviroment is through you.. through your filter of thoughts/ego your feelings etc..(yet again its not enviroment doing it its your body/mind doing it)and thats all that is creating in you by you, you saying that enviroment is blocking you is you creating that experience in yourself and then its part of your reality when you create that nothing is stopping you( if you dont create it yourself )there would be no experince of you reacting and getting victimized by enviroment...and its easy to fall asleep and not realize this even if you are concious of it...this reality of rules society goverment feels real because alot of people experience similar realities so it becomes a collective reality...
  5. Killing yourself means in mainstream hurting and finishing your body...but you are not the body you are a thought so willing to die is to surrender your identity/ thought constract...
  6. @RawJudah that wasnt the reason i commented i commented because you say girls hate pick up...and she would hate you for being involved in pick up ..
  7. @RawJudah that makes no sense how did he pick her up then?
  8. @Leo Gura romantic relationships are all lies then...i need to figured out how to make it healthy its like its rigged to become devils activity like almost everything ?
  9. @Leo Gura i feel a need to manipulate to grow out of my weaknesses and to do better at things...but i do it in moderation, so much less than before...whats the alternative then ?
  10. @Leo Gura i thought pick up is full of manipulation until i got one of the rsd courses and there was not so many manipulation they teach giving,colaboration not competitive mind frame,being yourself...ofcourse its still manipulation but how can you get resaults in anything if you dont manipulate in some degree...me being introvert i had to force myself being social and thats also manipulation and if i dont manipulate myself to be more social i wont grow...
  11. Are spiritual powers a distraction or a great way to help yourself and others around you?
  12. You misunderstood pick up phase and relationship phase between man and women...
  13. For example ego is superior in things where you need to do things in strategic logical order...while its inferior in apreciate and see the beauty in music for example where you need to be present... How can you merge those together ?
  14. @Nahm well ill trust and give more attention to intuition its like a feeling that guides you to a certen decision so ill let intuition guide me to the answer rather "me" trying to figure out things etc.
  15. @Zigzag Idiot yeah i think i got what i was looking for,i have to use my intuition more than logic in things that needs quick decisions strategy etc..
  16. @Leo Gura yeah then that ends everything about being sucessful in outside world like "i want it to be"
  17. So basically what i got from the answer is to be as much as a devil as you are a loving being?
  18. I get what you guys saying but i cant think without bringing ego in it,i mean i can but its easier with ego out of habit,perhaps training is needed...
  19. @Serotoninluv yeah thats good point but how you use logic without bringing in the ego by using logic you have to imagine someone constructing logic ...
  20. @DoubleYou no they are not the one there is presence and there is mind...i call ego all the thoughts....
  21. @Synchronicity Its frustrating for no ego mind to be logical
  22. @Commodent Yeah thats a good way to put it... Good examples its not that simple to define...
  23. I asumme that when you talked about all the achivements he view you as arrongant and full of yourself etc.and thats the parts he repressed in himself so he hates to see it in others ,now hes shy etc and it hurts his ego to see that arrogant,higher achiver is doing better and he thinks he needs to be like that in order to get that...