Psyche_92
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Getting things done - David Allen.
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47 minutes ago, Shin said:Just relapsed for a very stupid reason.
Didn't watch porn or even fantasize about anything, just masturbation.
At least now I know the reason was really stupid, won't happen again.
Don't feel much different, maybe because I don't blame myself at all, and the streak was quite long, the balls aren't dry because of that.
Nooo dude why. I wanna know the reason lol. How long was ur streak btw.
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29 minutes ago, DoubleYou said:This shit is difficult. After a couple of weeks I keep forgetting why I started this in the first place, or some thought convinces me its not that important and there I go.
What are the main reasons for doing this for you guys? I need some legit motivation. Personally I just want mastery over my body. But then again, After a while I forget why I would even want that. Haha, the mind is tricky. I need some new defenses.
And would this help with overcoming premature ejaculation? That would be worth it if so.
My motivation to do this is almost 100% for the extra motivation i get, to get shit done and be productive. Nopmo literally gives you the extra mile that others won't run with you. But, i'm also doing this because without it, i literally feel like a small boy that isn't able to defend himself/ stand up for himself, and let others walk over myself. Nofap destroys all of this, and it's magnificent.
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14 hours ago, Shin said:This is when it gets interesting, cause you either get out there and get a girl, or you do more and more productive things, because you have too much drive to just sit and do nothing anymore.
Haha yeah, the funny part is that i don't really feel the need to chase girls right now. The desperation part is long gone, and it feels good. My motivation to do this is almost 100% for the extra motivation i get, to get shit done and be productive. I have some stuff i got to take care of in ma life.
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40 minutes ago, LiakosN said:I've started my noporn campaign on 1/1/2017 ?.. I still struggle with no MO though...
Yep me too. MO is definitely the hardest.
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South-Korea, China, Japan, Canada, Tanzania.
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7 minutes ago, Viking said:"if you could control your state of mind, wouldnt you be always blissful"
I think you've misunderstood this. He's probably pointing towards the reality that you can't control your state of mind, which refers to detaching from it, not trying to manipulate it into any kind of "blissful" state.
10 minutes ago, Viking said:how do i control my state of mind so i will be blissful all the time?
Impossible. No one can ever be 100% blissful all the time. Detachment from clinging to any state is what you want.
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42 minutes ago, LiakosN said:@Psyche_92 Good job man kerp it up.. I am 14 months without porn.. ? I am on day 4 or 5 on MO
Thanks! you too man. Not bad, not bad at all. Are u still counting the days though?
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This book is definitely worth it, if you do all the exercises. I did them for some time, and it made me go from shy/withdrawn to a more outgoing healthy person. It can transform your self-image long-term.
Leo has a video where he talks about this book:
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Perfectionism and procrastination.
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23 minutes ago, Shin said:Sorry for you man
Keep up the good work, that sexual energy must be put to good use,
SAVE MANKIND WITH US MAN !!!!!!!
There is no sexual energy atm, haha .
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4 hours ago, Samra said:rice, couscous, quinoa
Do you know any good recipes for these?
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On 2-2-2018 at 11:14 AM, John Iverson said:My problem is i'm scared that my reply is always the same that and I'm gonna be boring for that... is there a book tht can i read ? Or can someone advice me for this problem.. help
The key is to stop trying so hard, and get out of your head. A problem like this only occurs when you are too much inside of your head while having a conversation with someone. Being inside of your head interrupts the natural flow of the conversation, especially when you are trying to come up with things to say when the conversation is becoming quiet. Also, there is no problem with not always "knowing" what to say, you can let the other person speak to be a listener. "How to win friends and influence people" is a good book to read on this topic.
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Which meditation technique are you using? It sounds like you might benefit from learning the "do nothing" technique.
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6 minutes ago, Shin said:Guys, I think I just pee semen.
Didn't have an erection.
Wtf is that ?
Relapse. Lul.
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Almost 80 days without porn. Wish i could say without PMO :D. Day 2 no MO LUL.
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Since i left videogaming behind me, i'm getting much more bored throughout the day. This brought me back to it, but at the same time i didn't feel like i was enjoying it as much as i was before. Yesterday i've made the decision to also leave Twitch behind and move on. I've deleted my account, but today i'm already craving the mindless activity of watching people on Twitch, and i'm insanely bored at the moment. I can't believe how addicted i'm to this. I've upgraded my meditation habit to 2 hours a day instead of 1, but i'm still craving it. I don't know what to do anymore.
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Is it really that healthy as a lot of people point out?
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10 hours ago, John Lula said:1 hour a day of letting everything be as it is - do nothing. (been slacking of to 30 minutes lately thoug..) 1 hour is the ideal for me.
@Psyche_92How does 2 hours differ from 1 on a daily basis for you?
I can't really speak about that, since 2 hours a day is something i'm doing recently.
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