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@Beginner Mind I'd advise you not to chat with women that live too far from you. Make an acceptable range and stick to it, this way once you make a connection you can make a irl date so that you aren't just some pixels to her.
My sister had this rule and also would only chat for a week or two before saying she wanted to meet in real life.
The other reason for this is that you might think your building something "real" with them when they may just think of you as someone online they can chat with when bored or lonely, because they like your personality, but really they never had any intentions of making it "real life" with you.
Yeah, ppl are assholes! (Men and women)
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Always remember us this way
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I hope you dance...
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7 minutes ago, FuriousGeorge said:I looked at a woman and we made eye contact and she broke into tears, before I knew it, people all around me were leaking out of their face ?
Aww?, yes, a song about not appreciating what we have until its gone. I think everyone can relate on some level, maybe why so many got emotional.?
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Goodbye to you
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6 minutes ago, JustThinkingAloud said:Thank you! I kind of figured it out, maybe I'm not that old yet! haha
Hehe, your welcome, I'm not a teeny bopper either. Some of my songs date me... (Titanic, Whitney, Roxette...)
Nice song!
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Once you come here, tap the comment box (this) and 'copy' the link. It should appear before you hit submit reply.
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10 minutes ago, Devi Shanti said:Honestly I would not take this type of compliments in a good way... I find it intrusive. I would find it more interesting if he gave me a gift and complimented me, like giving me a lipstick and saying he imagined it would highlight my beautiful lips that he loves so much or something like this.
Everyone's different, I wouldn't have a problem with it, you would.... Thats why men find us women exhausting.
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13 minutes ago, FuriousGeorge said:This would be a good start, and good advice. I wouldn’t ever ask her to be more feminine, I can imagine how I would react if she asked me to be more masculine! I’m talking more about nurturing it and helping her find more of it within herself.
Ok, well, you could say something like, "sweets, your lips are beautiful, bet you'd look perfect wearing pink lipstick (or red)". Its a compliment AND a suggestion she can think about. Or, "you have sexy legs and they'd look great in heels". The suggestion is something feminine.
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@FuriousGeorge So, what would make you happy? If you want her to wear lace nightie, then buy her one?
Otherwise, what are you referring to specifically? But, if you are asking for her to change who she is, then I don't think that's fair.
You wanting her to be more feminine might be like someone asking me to be more tomboy like. I'd be like, um, whattt? Uh, no.
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You are hearing within your mind OM (AUM) the primordial vibration of the universe! It can actually get annoying, lol. (You don't need to do Kundalini yoga tho to hear it)
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It depends, is it still continuing?
Have you tried talking to a therapist?
Writing letters to him/her/them, then burning them? Or maybe they need sent?
Talking on a forum specific to childhood abuse?
Going no-contact with them, if necessary?
If alcohol is/was involved there are Al-Anon meetings.

in Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family
Posted · Edited by Anna1
If its an afternoon date then something casual, like bowling or putt-putt.
If its evening something where they can dress up a bit, like going out to dinner, then activity after (movie, comedy club, dancing, etc)