Ananta

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  1. @Beginner Mind I'd advise you not to chat with women that live too far from you. Make an acceptable range and stick to it, this way once you make a connection you can make a irl date so that you aren't just some pixels to her.

    My sister had this rule and also would only chat for a week or two before saying she wanted to meet in real life. 

    The other reason for this is that you might think your building something "real" with them when they may just think of you as someone online they can chat with when bored or lonely, because they like your personality, but really they never had any intentions of making it "real life" with you.

    Yeah, ppl are assholes! (Men and women)


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  3. 10 minutes ago, Devi Shanti said:

    Honestly I would not take this type of compliments in a good way... I find it intrusive. I would find it more interesting if he gave me a gift and complimented me, like giving me a lipstick and saying he imagined it would highlight my beautiful  lips that he loves so much or something like this.

    Everyone's different, I wouldn't have a problem with it, you would....  Thats why men find us women exhausting.


  4. 13 minutes ago, FuriousGeorge said:

     This would be a good start, and good advice. I wouldn’t ever ask her to be more feminine, I can imagine how I would react if she asked me to be more masculine! I’m talking more about nurturing it and helping her find more of it within herself. 

    Ok, well, you could say something like, "sweets, your lips are beautiful, bet you'd look perfect wearing pink lipstick (or red)". Its a compliment AND a suggestion she can think about. Or, "you have sexy legs and they'd look great in heels". The suggestion is something feminine.