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  2. Posted

    19 hours ago, Sunchild said:

    But in practical 3D terms it becomes very hard to find someone else.  Someone else on your own wavelength, who has fully owned her own path, and who can thus handle the powerful energies which are typically engendered.  I've only had one woman who made it to that point, and said energies as she told me herself started to threaten to upend her entire world and tear her psyche apart.  Most sense the danger and end up bailing on me long before then.  But that's ok, I now make love to the entire universe, in a sense.

    So could you accept someone as your partner who is far from enlightenment? Is it so that your precense will force them to wake eventually?

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    13 hours ago, Moreira said:

    I think Nofap is a bad idea if you have zero skills and practise of how te escalate to have a sexual intercourse with a girl. Unless you know sexual transmutation and want to channel it to your main purpose.

    The point is to nofap enough to gain interest in life, things and other girls. But if you dont know how to seduce a girl to go to bed, the impotence when you cannot finish and release the sexual energy leads into frustration even depression.

    In my case y relapse on purpose in day 7 when theres a testosterone peak, otherwise I experienced insomnia and anxiety.

    Well i think nofap is good guide to teach you how to get women. If you fap, you lack the desire for women. You may have your perversions for getting pussy but not the desire for loving a woman. Those are two completely different motivators.

    Here's a really good video to realize the difference:

     

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    I give less fucks about how people think of me so i could say that i'm less of a people pleaser now. That doesn't mean i'm rude to people, actually i like other people way more now than before i started my journey. For money, before it used to be my number 1 priority. Now i don't care about it anymore aslong as i keep my financial stability. I think less about money, i earn less, yet still i have more money than before i started meditating etc. This is mainly because i don't waste money on stuff that empowers my ego anymore. Like sportcars etc.

    Those things are just minor upsides compared to the greater realizations and waking up to see my weaknesses. It's definetly not been all sunshine and lollipops. Meditation has forced me to face all the shit i've been hiding from myself before. It's all easily worth it though. 

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    5 hours ago, Serotoninluv said:

     

    In general, I've found women in romantic relationships like to express emotions, yet don't like to engage in self reflection. For example, if I told a gf that I experienced a sense of rejection after one of her actions - most gals I've dated would either: 1) get defensive and suggest I shouldn't feel that way, 2) get defensive and suggest it's my fault, 3) self-judge and go into "I'm not good enough" mode and suggest maybe I should date someone else. I bet guys act the same way. Perhaps it's human nature. I've found very few women that are open and comfortable discussing emotions and then learning and growing.

    Wow. That sounds familiar. And my previous ex-gf was otherwise very emotionally mature and wise. But often when it came to self-reflection she only did it when she was victimizing herself. Usually i was to blame for everything, and eventually it made me feel guilty for her unhappiness.

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    2 hours ago, Kubia said:

    Some times i interrupt my nofap chain just because I wanted to remember what fapping is (ah-ha), so without real urges, but when I did it ONE times my genitals would be triggered to do that again, like i awakened my willy from lethargy and will send a message to my brain to do that again.

    This is true, that's why it's easier to stay completely away from masturbation than masturbating once a week. Just get laid once a week and all is well.

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    1 hour ago, Elisabeth said:

    I'm not disagreeing. I don't know that much about nofap but quitting porn addiction and get a more moderated approach can't be wrong. 

    I just wonder where his motivation could come from to do this. You're motivated by higher consciosness spiritual values to do nofap. 

    But what does a person who hasn't yet developed these values do?

    Suffering, that's where most of us get the motivation from.

    @Shin

    Just out of an interest, why do you think tinder is bad?

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    6 minutes ago, molosku said:

    Be aware of this: your ego tells you that you are now unmotivated and everything is dull and stupid, then your super ego comes in and says "No! You were supposes to be bigger than these petty emotions, you were supposed to be spiritual and happy!" Try to see trough this battlefield before the fight gets too intense and lay down your sword and shield. Lay on the grass instead. 

     

    For me it works when i get fearful thoughts, instead of trying to fight them i give them like inner "yes". Then i feel the ego goes confused it's like "wtf you are not supposed to accept these?" And i just sit there with calmness, smile often comes on my face.

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    You know those muscles you tense when you are in a rush to a toilet and holding it off not to pee in your pants? :D Practice to control those muscles. If you tense them correctly your dick should move slightly. Do 100 reps per day and after that try to hold the muscle tense for as long as you can for five times. Then when you are penetrating her and feel like you are about to cum, use those muscles to prevent the cum. You may still cum slightly but you will stay rock hard and are able to continue and cum again later if you so choose.

  22. Posted

    4 hours ago, aurum said:

    @Shakazulu

    In general, masculinity is defined by traits like purpose, decisiveness, grounded, freedom, etc. Femininity is more whimsical, soft and roaming. Ask yourself where you fall on that spectrum.

    Do you have any good book suggestions how to increase masculinity? I happen to have a very strong feminine side myself and i don't really know how to change it authentically?

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    I don't watch Leo's videos anymore, but when i was completely unconscious and just starting my self-development his straightforward way of saying things really made me stop and see that i'm fucked up. Atm. i'm learning to love myself fully and Leo's style of teaching is not really helpful for that.

     

    I'd like some new Leo's vids about fingering girls though.