Nahm

@Pavement Try out simple truth, honesty. Actual presence.

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Nobody awakens.

Awareness is aware of all apparent conceptualizations of, awareness. All self conceptualizations are illusory. ‘Known’ clearly, via feeling. Love is the absence of all veiling activity of thought, including of course all beliefs, like solipsism.

@Someone here Whatever you want. ?? ‘Should’ does not apply.

@Wisebaxter ? ??

@Someone here Yes! Any details that arise. and… will be! (Vs should be). Don’t expect - receive.

Yes, as listening to content goes, Abraham Hicks is the best imo. But I don’t suggest any content as supplemental to writing what you want on your board, and allowing it. Imo, all of the rewriting neural pathways etc is conceptual overlay, and is unnecessary activity of thought. Not as veiling as the activity of thought ‘mind games’, but equally unnecessary.

@IAmReallyImportant You one sneaky love. ?? —— roast this too…

Not Knowing = Unconditional Love. … and now… roast ‘me’. ?? Ignore-ance of emotional guidance is not fun. ? Letting down the ‘armor’, understanding and receiving emotional guidance & consciously creating, is the greatest thrill ride possible. But definitely don’t take my word for it.

Solipsism is an ism, a belief, the activity of thought. Nonduality points to, ‘not two’, allowing the self discovery of actuality, ? vs adherence to a conceptual belief. (Just advice) Never suppress discord. Explore it, understand. https://www.actualityofbeing.com/the-emotional-scale If it’s aligned, if it resonates in feeling… ‘my perceptual bubble’ is already believing in conceptual. Let that go all together. Ime, make a dreamboard. Allow the revealing of truth directly via conscious creating… the life you desire to experience. Truth is ‘known’ as feeling… and not ideas shared.

With a dreamboard full of what’s wanted, life is full of passion & interests, doubt & self referential thoughts are recognized and released, and as thoughts attract thoughts naturally… you attract people in kind & thus ‘click’ on that wavelength / vibration. ? Your expression comes first, the board as a means… you’re manifesting the interactions, but the difference is, consciously. Awareness ‘I’m creating this’ is thrilling. What to talk about becomes such a ‘issue’ of the past, you’ll forget you ever thought that way. You’ll be like, oh, duh, she has a dream within her too, just, like, me. And she’ll be thinkin the same, of you. More specifically… the simplest tool for this… https://www.actualityofbeing.com/improv-writing

(Opinion from direct experience…) Nothing is comparable to the emotional depth & physical intimacy of selfless sex in a genuinely expressive (honest) relationship, in which two are ‘fully’ in communion. Transactional objectification very much veils and limits, and is experientially opposite to authenticity as expressions of our being. This… is what’s avoided and kept at bay, and that is veiled with “addiction” to porn. Avoidance of opening up, intimacy. Vulnerability. Authenticity. Simple ‘regular’ maturity. ?? Selflessness always paradoxically comes ‘right back around’… when genuine. Why not simple quit porn (when ‘addicted’)… because of how… I think… I will feel. ?

@ZZZZ Give Grounding a try. 5 minutes, maybe 3 - 5 times a day. It’s a very simple exercise but can make a profound difference. The intermittent practice does become the default / the connectivity is felt through the day. Also, ‘catch’ thoughts like ‘in my own mind’. It’s a ‘bridge’ thought in a way, contributing to the repeating / attaching. I understand what’s meant, but also notice you can’t really be in a thought… (my own mind). And for the worry… consider worrying as an emotion, vs, thoughts as worries. This opens up a different interpretation, recognizing worrying as an emotion as guidance regarding, the thoughts. Or, how some thoughts feel. Though it might sound odd at first, express doubt on purpose. It’ll feel better than worrying. Certainty can’t be found in experience, only change. That is exciting imo. But certainty can be found within, where there is never change, and that is most comforting imo.

No. But I don’t think I should elaborate on this one, because I don’t want to contribute to keeping the thread going when the user has already been threatened with being banned. And because I like participating on this forum, and am choosing to abide by the guidelines. A (my) different way of thinking, and my offering of different perspectives, can be interpreted as disruptive, which is honestly not a far cry from already having been interpreted as ‘encouraging him to be a sucker’. Not at all what Nahm’s thinkin. *And just in case this is misconstrued, I mean this sincerely, respectfully, and not mockingly. Freedom of speech rights do not extend to privately owned websites, such as this one. You must follow the community guidelines. Disruptive behavior is not tolerated. @StarStruck You’re free to pm me if you’re interested.

@StarStruck I’m a bit pigeonholed at this point. Was most definitely not trying to say or imply ‘be a sucker’. I do wish you the best.

@Leo Gura I didn’t / aren’t.

Why so frugal then? Why not, “sweet, what’s you’re favorite coat shop, let’s go, it’ll be fun.” Also, are you a mind reader or not?

Did you / do you like her, as in, wanted to / want to spend more time together?

All of the thoughts about the mind, are only the thoughts. All thoughts about self image, are only the thoughts. How it works and how to change it, are two more thoughts. ’Two more thoughts’, is another thought. https://www.actualityofbeing.com/awareness-of-thoughts https://www.actualityofbeing.com/dreamboard-1 https://www.actualityofbeing.com/the-emotional-scale

Watching anything is pretty dual, as right now you’re either watching or not watching it. The added narrative of a you, a past, a future, addicted / addiction is optional. In this sense at least, focus is also dual, in that there is whatever else focus could be upon. Trade focusing on the self referential narrative, for whatever else you prefer to focus on.

@WokeBloke Awesome! ??

@StarStruck How easily affordable is the coat for you?

Uncertainty is a gift. It’s literally the present. Think it through; certainly would spoil fun and excitement. Notice those who know, and the dullness, the striving to appreciate, the struggle to except the gift. Thus there are no negative outcomes. There is what you don’t prefer and what you do prefer, and you are the creator, and the discord of judgment is felt therein. When what is wanted is manifest, judgment is then a projection of doubt, and the resolve is the recognition that when one doubts, one inevitably feels disappointment in thinking it so. If a career is defined as high stress, said career is inherently defined as unwanted. But “career”, is not perception. It is the very interpretation, “high stress“, which is felt. The justification, the cover-up of that is a discordant interpretation; “is anxiety“. And just like that, that one is the creator, that one has manifested what one desired… and the thrill and excitement of unending conscious creation, the experience of it “in the flesh“, and that which one wants more, a yet more profound inspiration to manifest, to simply be written on the dreamboard and looked forward to; is veiled. “There’s a big hard sun, beatin down on the big people, in a big hard world.” EmfV “You can get it wrong and still you think that it’s all right.” ? ? ? ”but tell me… How does it feel?!… How does it feel to be on your own? With no direction home?! Like a complete unknown!! How does it feel?!!“ BD

“Love is the absence of people”. RS Get’s “me” every damn time. ?