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@Angelique First, stop referring to this as "being emotionally attached to other people". That is a perspective rooted in victimization. You're talking about this as if it were something happening to you. It's not. It's something you are doing and have been in control of the whole time. Start referring to it as "I am focusing on how I feel about other people and how they feel about me". Second. Stop focusing that way. Start focusing on how you feel. Notice how thoughts make you feel good or bad. Apply resolve in letting go of the bad feeling thoughts and focusing on continuing to choose thoughts that feel good. Meditate for at least 20 minutes every morning. Stop bullshitting yourself about meditation. Keep returning your focus to your breath. After just a few days, you will stop the momentum of this way of thinking and thus allow yourself to choose to repeat positive thoughts about yourself and your future. It is as if you have been on a train, meditation stops the direction of the train so you can pick a new direction. This can not be understood until you experience it, so have some reasoning and faith and get started.

@blacksapp It will take time but you must focus on what you think. No more spending any time on what others think. Practice focusing on your own perspective. Focus on how you want to feel. Listen to positive videos. Days become weeks, small raises in your being become lasting permanent raises. Relax and trust the process.

@Russell That passion really was never yours in that way. It is the expansion of the universe happening through you. Your role is the chooser. Sounds like you have chosen to stop taking drugs and focus on your health. Your inspiration will come back. It can be no other way. Be patient with yourself. You will become what you focus on. Keep the focus.

No one can make a choice for you, unless you choose not to make a choice, then someone else is making all your choices for you.

It's not that time is linear or nonlinear, it's a concept in our heads - that's why time is relative to each of us. Reality is not between us, but within us.

@mariustuhut That is a reaction that was learned. Think of meditation as a way to let go of being reactive. When someone says something like that to me, I honestly have no personal reaction. I see that they are expressing the way they choose to see things. It has nothing to do with me.

@Arkandeus right on. I often wonder why people use their will power to express that they have no will power. I guess it's one of those things that is revealed to each of us in our own time. I hear so many people complaining about what they don't have, can't do, don't want, etc. Weird world. Happy for you Ark!

@Visitor human values are subjective though.

@Visitor I can certainly understand your perspective and need for concern. There is a state of being found through meditation that allows you to be without concern because the concern is a perspective rooted in thinking.

@Vinsanity @Mert With breathing meditation eventually you realize you're experiencing that you were never breathing but always being breathed.

@Progress Makes total sense. Thanks.

@Progress @K VIL @Cjaryo @Progress @Veggies make me FART Isn't the concept / vibe / idea / feeling / of discipline counter productive to begin with? Help me understand this guys. Thanks.

@Key Elements We're all like, it's not love, it's this. Ya, it's all love.

@Parki There's no rush on getting back man. It would be like looking at a photo and as soon as you see it you start saying "why can I only see this photo" and then you remove your focus from the photo and lay it back on the general world. We're all going back but fuck sakes Parki, you're the one who focused through Parki. Soak it up man. No rush. Would you rather see all 8 billion photos from a distance at once, or experience each of them individually? Me too.

@SFRL Intend to get a good night sleep. It is optional, choose it. If you repeatedly invoke a good feeling when you choose a good nights sleep I don't think you would need any of the below suggestions.... Divorce floride & aluminum deoderents all together. They can clog the pineal and mess up your melatonin. Alcohol can have this effect too. Notice the itch you get on your body while laying down to go to sleep. Don't scratch it. It's a signal from your brain checking to see if your body is awake. The brain can't tell the difference between external and internal 'reality'. Don't scratch the itch and you'll be asleep within 10 minutes. If you aren't sleeping through the entire night. Meditate every day for at least 20 minutes. Still not sleeping, try taking melatonin. Consider cutting out caffeine after around 1pm. If still not sleeping, address a strong & deeper belief. Consider that the need for sleep is a collective belief. You really only need rest. Know that, be content with the rest. Sex or a rub out changes brain chemistry in a very sleep favorable way also and after a few nights may get you back in a pattern of good sleep. Good luck! Hope something helps.

@Edvard From any observer's perspective there certainly is right and wrong, but from the deeper perspective everything is one thing so it wouldn't perceive right or wrong because there is no other thing for it to be relative to or have a perspective on.

@Dizzy The brain can't tell the difference between internal 'real' & external 'real'. IMO, this is a good thing you have going on. It seems to me that you're witnessing yourself becoming influential energetically speaking but don't know what to do with it. Did you have an experience or consistent feeling recently of being very connected? Or maybe someone who led you to feeling seperated in your past recently moved, left, or passed on? Maybe you moved? Just curious. Anyways, meditate until the momentum of your thinking has calmed, maybe 20 minutes of focusing back to your breathing. Notice your breathing goes to almost none. Now notice the thoughts that arise from your desires. Things you want to do basically. Focus on those thoughts (one of them) as long and as much as you can or like. Do this in the morning and again around 5 or 6 pm everyday. Soon, you won't be seeing oddball stuff like you described. You'll be seeing awesome unexplainable coincidences except that as soon as they've transpired they will be explainable in normal practical ways. I think you're very intuitive at a deeper level and when you get a couple weeks in of practicing putting your thinking aside you are in for wild ride.

@Azrael Great sharing, thank you! Chopping wood, carrying water huh?

Ask your parents what you can do to help out around the house to make a few bucks.

@SOUL That's cool that that is working for you! I wish you well.

@SOUL THANKS! How does the uncertainty principle and the superposition apply to you, right now, directly? Are they relative to you?

@Dan Arnautu Just took a look. Looks really sharp man. I could only read the one page because I am not bilingual. I have taught many people how to play guitar but I have never made money or a business or website from it. I think visitor's advice is solid. Probably not what you want to hear, but If you're seeking local clients, teach some people guitar for free. Create a meetup.com of free guitar lessons, people will show up. It would be good use of your time to teach to multiple people vs 10 one on one lessons. If you're looking for national clients, just have your buddies write testimonials, spend your time linking to every website you possibly can. If it's affordable, set up adwords on google and pay per click. Do you have a YouTube channel? That's a good way to get people to your website. What about local music stores? Maybe they give lessons, maybe not. You could be their guy. What about schools? Walk into a school, (unless you already know a teacher) and propose to spend an hour explaining guitar, encouraging kids to play, explaining all the benefits; self confidence, brain functionality, emotional intelligence, uh fucking joy, etc. At the end, when the kids applauded and say thank you, ask if they will go to your website and post a testimonial. Again, good use of your time. If your schools are anything like America's, there should be around 300 kids in each classroom. Another note, have you listed your business on google? If not, do that! Then update something simple within your google account each week. Google things like "guitar lessons" and look at the top 3 listings. Then look at pages 1-5 on google and see how many bullshit webpages those top three are listen on. Then list your business on twice as many pages. Takes a couple minutes per page. Then, when that's done, ask people to put testimonials on your google page as reviews. This will (in a few months) lead to you coming up first on google. You can always copy the reviews from your google page and paste them into your website. Good luck with it!!!

@Gagan I do not find meditation to be a tool for concentration. I find it to be useful for letting go of thoughts, and all the mental and bodily momentum of thoughts. I agree with you that it will improve overall cognition and unify orchestration of the mind. It gets me back to no momentum. In that state of mind, I then do what I want to do. That statement is oversimplified. If you want focus and concentration, learn an instrument. Classical music, specifically, works very well. If that makes you think "but I am not talented" or "I can't play an instrument", then try to realize it is only because you don't have focus and concentration, and that would be a great way to get there. Almost no one is talented, but a lot of people practice a lot and years of practice are what is commonly referred to as talent. I prefer to increase my concentration playing guitar and singing versus doing nothing. It's more enjoyable, it's a handy social hobby, and I usually lose myself from doing multiple things at one time (singing, playing, diaphamic breathing, resonating the vibration in my head and chest, etc. ) Losing myself is my favorite thing to do so far, I hope if you dig this, that it brings you joy as well.

@Jordan wang The goal is to only ever do what you want to do. The work is to change yourself to make that true. Clarity...Ideas...create with your imagination....then focus....then inspiration...then action. Watch out for the oh so slippery slope of seeking validation through hard work. Lots of people waste their whole life in this mindset. Act from inspiration