Spiral

@egoeimai @Annetta I assumed it was a joke, guess not.

wow dude

I also find "guy topics" boring. Because of this i hang out with girls more, not sure if this is the best solution, but that is how I do it. Although I recognize this not being your problem. I do know some people who have your problem and in my experience it is because they never go past the small talk. Conversations look like this: You both greet each other and then you ask and answer questions intill one of you get bored of the conversation. Solution: If someone ask you were you are from, don't just say "New York", talk about the neighborhood, what you think about the city, if you were born somewhere else etc. Try express yourself emotionally as well, although try not to make very answer too long, I would not talk for more then 20 seconds. By doing this you'll introduce more topics and open up a little bit, making conversations more interesting. Best of luck

It's counterproductive to try to learn game from a male(your own) prospective The average guy might think this way: If a girl hot said "Hi, sleep with me " he would probably sleep with her, therefore he should say that. That would obviously not work, with the majority of girls. That being said, I would not primarily try to learn game from girls. While they know what they want, they are less likely to know why they want it(because they most likely don't seduce women for a living) and obviously haven't spent much time developing these traits. You also are likely to misunderstand what the attractive aspect is. Example: A girl tell might you that she wants a guy who can make her laugh and you might assume she means a guy who is good at making funny jokes. While being able to make funny jokes is definitely a positive, that not really what wants when she says that(even if she thinks so herself). I don't want to spoil it, but it's a more complicated than that Haha, want kind of thinking is that?

@Nahm Would you not call it selfish to get into a relationship, seeing no long term potential and only doing so for personal growth?

Easy, next time you meet her: Say hi, can i talk with you for a minute? Don't wait for a reply just bring her with you, when you are alone with her.... ask her out for ice cream/coffee or something She says no or you did not like her after the first date? find somebody else

Do not consider learning a waste of time, especially human physiology.

Imagine the confidence you would have if you truly embodied it

I do very often rely on my intuition, but if you are exposed to much of, let's say players. You'll at some point get burned and think everyone is a player. I have on multiple occasions been wrongly assumed to be a player/fuckboy by female friends of mine and i'm not even promiscuous, although they did not seemed to mind either way

For how long are we talking?

Good, this is how dates are suppose to be, hopefully you will be able to be like this always and forever

1. If she really rejects you, don't try again. 2. If you want a girlfriend, don't go around kissing girls randomly, make them earn it. 3. If you don't want a girlfriend and just want to be promiscuous, don't care about what girls think of you, but make sure they know what you are after, aka don't be fuckboy. (I would recommend trying to find a long term relationship, but you are young so i will not expect it of you) 4. Girls like decisive guys make a plan and stick to it, but if it makes sense to be spontaneous do that. Good luck and have fun

That's pathetic, don't you have any sympathy for other people at all? You are not special at all, you just happen to get really lucky.

Nicely put

Haha, why do these threads so often escalate into insults or even get sexual?

If it from a stranger or someone inappropriate, creepy... regardless he probably likes you.

We do have certain biologically decided character traits that can differ from person to person, but otherwise not really, it's mostly based on our past.

Emotionally not all, but I am secretive about my past. I have been burned before, so I'm very picky regarding whom I tell certain things.

I don't follow a specific pattern. Wake up at 09.00ish Works out and meditates, basic morning stuff) and waste time 12.00 cooks/eats lunch 13.00-16.00 studies uni stuff. 16.00-23.00 spends time with friends/girlfriend (dinner at 18.00ish)or have a look on the forums/youtube. 23.00- ??.?? Have "swedish fika" with one/two of my foreign female friends or study or have movienight or girlfriend. Repeat.

I don't care much for enlightenment either, i meditate, learn and i try to grow. Would i happen to get enlighten because of it, well i would not complain. That's awful

“Happiness is not about what the world gives you - happiness is what you think about what the world gives you." -Google Executive

A method i like to use is, being selfless without anyone knowing, this way you avoid people whom try to use you.

Have you tried it? Currently in a relationship so i would feel bad if i registered.

Have sex out of love and skip the porn. Even being promiscuous is better than porn, but i would recommend doing neither.

It's a REALLY important part, but only regarding the mentally aspect, in other word it really seductive from a primordial aspect (I.e. sexy) If you got it and take care of yourself (physically),than yes it's probably enough for most women/girls. Even i find detachment really appealing for both friend and partners, but i don't know if i like men are sexuality/romantically attracted to it. I can imaging some responses might say that "but looks also matters", yes of course they do but confidence and detachment can overpower looks to a big degree making it a really powerful addition to any men's arsenal of traits. But being desperate and insecure is really unattractive regardless what you look like.