Spiral

Guys let's all go live in caves and eat berries like the good all days.

wow man we don't need truth, we just need to think we got it. Does it really matter if a or b is right if believing in either equally makes you happy etc?

Don't watch porn, that helps. Also just because you are horny does not mean you should masturbate or get laid, Body wants pleasure -> get's horny -> body connects pleasure with being horny -> body is always horny. Go outside that also works, either way you can't masturbate there. (Or shouldn't)

Back story A few years ago I had extraordinary interest in other people, literally everyone. Now this I admit was due to me being friendless and incredibly lonely at the time. Now i'm I suppose a bit spoiled in term of social circles, but I've lost something very profound, I don't listen so intensely anymore. I do listen and IMO very well but I don't care as much as I did before, nor do I enjoy it as much as before. Now don't get me wrong, I'm a very social individual and I normally spend a few hours a day "one on one socializing". But I often find myself getting bored if I've known the person for a long time, it is as if we run out of things to talk about. This is especially the case if I hang out with them basically every day. I have found a solution but it is horrible one, if you hang out with crazy neurotic people, you know the weed smoking, alcohol and sex addicted kind. You never really get that bored because there is always something crazy happening. But of course as i'm sure you can imagine, this is problematic in more ways than one. Question What's your take on boredom? How to be less bored in general? My take on it, you're neurotic and so you want to get distracted and if something/someone is not distraction you enough, you get bored.

I'm not doing the Lp course, but I would find it difficult to admire someone if there weaknesses really makes me not like them. Even if I find that they have some quality I like. Say the are really successful but rude or something.

Nose breathing.

Thanks, never thought of the maturity angle regarding this topic. I'll try it out.

How do you optimize boob massage(boob squeezing or what it's called) for the sake of pleasure of the receiver. It is bad to focus more on one, or? I'm a newbie here, never put much thought into it. Or is it kind of "meh, it's nice and guys like it, so why not let them do it."

@smd Well hey, to each their own. I personally enjoy gossip or talking about sex or whom a girl is having sex with. Hope I did not seem angry or degrading, haven't eaten yet

@smd You don't get me at all, nor my problem. I'm not interested in sexual or romantic relationships with the girls i hang out with, because I already have a girlfriend. Normally it's girls that pick whom they hang out with yes, unless you are that "godly alpha". Now am i gonna call myself that? no, but on the other hand I've never been rejected in regards to friendships or whatever else girls has to offer. I only enjoy female company and therefor only makes friends with females, the problems is separating nice ones from the kind ones in a quick manner to avoid spending time with the ones that make for poor friends.(Or girlfriends for you single guys) Now yes sure I like teasing and so on, so "hot but not kind girls" have some value but I get bored of them eventually, so having kind girls around is good long term(As they make better friends).

If anything his ego died

@CreativeInertia He is fine

I have something, maybe not really your field. But I've recently befriended a lot of new girls, problem is that I've made the rockie mistake of pick the hottest ones (not the best potential friends), pathetic and stupid I know but I could not resist. Anyways so to my question, how to (preferably quickly) separate nice and kind girls/women.Latent lover or not I do think men will appreciate telling the two apart. Huge turn off for me, if a girl I like is acting really poorly to other people. Nor someone I want to take care of my future children. By nice I mean someone that acts kind not because they are but because they think they'll get something from it or have been told growing up to be kind. Otherwise talking about long distance relationship would be something I would like. How to make them work and so on(if possible)

Are are some really practical things. Eat good Work out Pick you friends wisely. Not the most fun, but the once that really support you. Avoid porn and excessive masterbation. This way growth becomes a lot easier.

To grow you must first suffer in both muscle and mind.

Don't even try, find new people.

Vague is sometimes better, when you need to have the insight yourself to truly understand.

Just pick for her in these cases were it does not matter.

Perhaps somewhat unrelated but I also consider myself judgemental. For me it's just means observant. I mean if it a mistake then fine everyone makes mistakes but, if they are for instance disrespectful then I'll avoid them. I don't really see the problem with being judgemental if I keep it to myself. As for wanting to look cool, why? What does that give you? people generally don't care about what you own or what you have done in the past. They only care about how you are now, hiding you achievements is better. If nothing else it will make you seem cooler. As for changing I'll recommend preparing and doing so when the people you hang out with change. New job, college etc. Said this sooo many times before now but, female friends helps in so many ways especially if you have trouble opening up.

You seem to have a harsh view of rapists. They are ill, so they may not need any justification and do not necessarily think they are doing the right thing. Its not evil if it can be explained by something else, such as sadism, neurosis or a twisted view of sexuality. Psychopaths or hatred is not evil either. These are corruption of the mind. Evil is not and therefor it's not something you find just hanging around.

He does not seem very happy tho

I don't mind, but if you really want to keep the friendship, I would avoid it.

One does not simply give insight. The purpose of of systems thinking is get better results that are based on a big perpetive. The opposite would be for instance only voting in the election based in the candidates clothing.

You are detached to the fate of the bag you used to carry food last time. You dont care and it's fine either way. You are not dependent on any result. If you for instance only have one friend you generally become very attached to them. If you live in abundance you don't. You may still want to keep said friend, but you are not fuck if you lose him/her.

@unholy Well if you have been into pickup for two years now. I don't really feel like another course or book is going to do that much. Go out, fail 10 times, get one, have fun.