Spiral

@Vivaldo people, physiology and culture(such as art). Of course there are other guys who likes this too but it’s more common among girls.

Be social and kind. If you are, people will like you.

Go out and talk to strangers. Just do it. However if you are in a consciousness state you don’t have this problem either.

@Vivaldo not sure which part you mean. However using people for your own benefit is hardly kind or appreciated. I enjoy female company more. I’m not really into sports, games, cars or whatever. I prefer more “softer “ topics. Additionally girls have been better and closer friends in the past. Be friends with people because you enjoy their company. If it comes with other benefits great.

Sure I’ve got plenty of female friends. Using them for things like training social skills seems like a terrible idea?

Staying with someone because it’s inconvenient and costly to get divorced is the one if the worst reasons. Make it easy and convenient, if they stay you’ve got something good.

I’m trying this also

Having had deep friendships. I really wished my current friendship were deeper. Not discover the secret yet I’m afraid.

@Evoke Stockholm. So you’d had to travel far. However I’d love to visit that city during summertime.

At least in Sweden many of the guards are female. Charm your way out of it!

@Lyubov Sex tends to be better if you gotten to know each other. Wouldn’t it be a shame if you rush and have a “meh” experience and get out needlessly.

I would not get in bed with her too early. Not for her sake but for your own.

A conversation is only as fun as you make it.

No, girls often value youth regardless of age.

Probably living the good life. Without a bunch of forum escapism.

Cold showers to stay healthy and warm during the winter months. Not really the advice you want tho

A heard a “hot witch girlfriend” is the rolls royce of a girlfriend. I want the best, so suppose that’s what I want. On a serious note. A friend I enjoy sex and cuddles with. Bonus points if she really likes what she does for a living.

You could say they are already inside. I didn’t know they care.

@Vzdoh Fear isn’t reasonable! Besides if you don’t fear the lion before it attacks you. It’s too late to be afraid. So to me it seems like a high risk low reward sort of thing. Which isn’t a great investment. That being said I’ll still do it. Was in a relationship a few of months ago. It’s easier with a girl you know very well and trust to act sympathetically and honestly towards you and others.

Confidence and nothing better to do. It doesn’t happen often but it’s always been attractive girls in my experience. Girl can be rather creepy about it tho when they want to but don’t have balls to do so.

My resistance to committed relationships has nothing to do with girls I’ve dated or that want to have a lot of girls sexually. If I have my needs meet I’m happy. My issue comes from what I see in my family, friends and colleagues relationships. Their relationship to me seem terrible and toxic. With the expectation of my grandparents I don’t know anyone who’s relationship I’d describe as even decent. Now don’t get me wrong I don’t mean it’s the girl/wife that’s terrible. Some times it is, sometimes it’s the guy in the relationship. Sometimes there both great but just not a good match. Yet they all stay together anyway. With kids, marriage, a shared economy and the laziness that come from having a partner I get it. I don’t want that to be me. That is what I fear and associate with commitment, because it means that I’m serious. In addition I don’t care for commitment, I’m not the jealous type so I don’t feel like it has intrinsic value.

@Random witch Alright fair enough. That’s fairly common criticism of men. Can’t speak for other cultures however where I’m it’s considered rather unappealing to associate with people who have sexist and/or racist views. A lot of western cultures are way behind tho in this regard.

Besides perhaps vulnerably and nurturing are those really feminine traits in your society? Not saying their masculine either of course.

Holding hands and kissing her(rather then teasingly not do so) seems more romantic than sexual. I do like other tips tho.

I do prefer paying every other time and girl the does the same. So we don’t have to split the bill, it’s considered rude to the waiter where I’m from. But I would absolutely not pay for a girl in the “I pay because I’m the guy” sort of way.