K VIL

can you get love from someone. Is that a worthwhile pursuit? or only give love? or neither?

@Anderz Ha. Cool!

@Jacobsrw A unique creator. Noted @Chakra Lion Love Chakra! Will do. promise!

Sorry mods for previous thread, didn't realize we couldn't create meet ups (I wasn't selling anything though). Might as well share on the forum. It dawned on me that entrepreneurs build up. What does this mean? Well, a starter's way to look at it is, I hate my job. complain complain. And an entrepreneur perspective is more, I'm building this. So how can I build it better? How can I attract others? Yes, there are way more elements to this but i think overall, its a creation process. What can you build?

@Patrick_9931 complacency means that you've settled in your comfort zone and are content with the status quo.

@MrQuestionMark no more stories. what can you do today?

that sounds pretty fem lol. Do you hang out with men or women more?

i just viewed this channel. Must be advertised to actualized.org subs. im like WTF edit - is a cool channel though. guy releases so much content.

So the other day my profile was discovered at work. I freaked out since i said some insensitive things on here. Nothing too controversial but i am a lot more bold with my conservative POV on here. I work in a very liberal work setting... Going forward, I want to be more honest with how i communicate on here and really what I say. I think that the anonymous aspect of having a username, especially one like k vil, helps me say true yet "less developed" statements. On one hand, they are honest- they are how i actually think at the time I post them. On the other hand, I would not say them in public. I ended up hiding a lot of content and I apologize for those who have posted helpful feedback in my previous threads. I believe that I'm taking away from the community each time I hide a thread. What if what Leo said in my thread could help someone else? What about others? I'll probably be posting less too since with this level of transparency, it can make it less fun for my ego. But just wanted others to think about- if your full name was here, would you write that down?

How about a less direct method of updating your circle of friends? They might influence you to articulate in a different way

@Marten Sounding free and genuine If i could go back, id prob register with first name only too. Maybe one day id be free enough to use full identification lol

idk why i do it.

@Aquarius @Sucuk Ekmek Thank you for your comments.

@JosephKnecht The timing of Leo's video couldn't have been better. I realize that i can go elsewhere (pick a more fit work culture for my perspective) or I can stay where I'm at and learn from those around me. I don't suddenly have their views but I can acknowledge where my own can improve and reflect it better on the forum.

@Sahil Pandit nominated

for subtle addictions, work on spending more time on positive things and then see your desire to turn back lessen. plants grow when you water the seeds

@wwhy yeah it will always be on the internet lmao I would have deleted my profile but it's hard to do.

@Zigzag Idiot Thanks for seeing that Zigzag. I have posted some idiotic things. I realize now that forum words have impact too. I used to think of it like a youtube comment. now I see that users are more personal on here.

@Aquarius try loving a pet first, then your real self it gets easier lol

@Kiko you sound like you dont like the girls youre dating.

@kireet make it less basic and add 3,4,5 you can get excited about? what a bout life? witnessing it evolve? contribution to your community? discipline- which aha, calculus fits into!

I got an extroverted type. Have to retest

@EternalForest on the other side of this debate: if your parents do it well, when they kick you out- it's not like you will be completely unprepared. independence is a great thing yet feel no shame if you are 25 with your parents...its common, practical, and ok.

what @Epikur said. If that image is built from respect, consistency, and moderate people pleasing, I wouldn't recommend dropping it because of a bad day. If the image is built upon a complete lie, be prepared to lose your "friends". Start forming honest relationships. learn to laugh at yourself. like how weird your hair is when you first wake up etc etc. What are you afraid of them seeing?

@Einsteinonacid do you have an image to protect? hard to go north going south.