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    On 22/03/2024 at 8:09 PM, NoSelfSelf said:

    @Leo Gura They teach pick up which is all about how to make her attracted to you for the whole point to put her in bed,in such a way to not tell what they are doing.Further more they teach last minute resistence concept to have bigger window of opportunity for "success" which is so called "lay count" that makes you stroke your ego.That is not game,but they sporadically spit game which cant stick because of the system in place described above.

    Game teaches how to stand on who you are and give women free will to choose you,there is no manipulation to make her do anything.No thinking ill do this technique to give me a better chance to get laid.

    This guy cant kneel to save his life(game) and pick up guy will give all of his power for some ass.

     

    Are you familiar with Mr. Locario, Steve the dean, Real game no theory panel. You are saying the stuff those guys say on their shows.

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    1 minute ago, SQAAD said:

    @Inliytened1

    I am not awake and my ego is not clinging to some awake status expressing how awake it is to everyone. My humility overrides any narcissistic tendencies I have. 

    Leo's narcissism is just getting stronger after his last awakening. I can tell by his face. I could be wrong. But it is suspicious to claim how woke you are. 

    Guy you are not doing any spiritual work and you expect to make sense to what Leo is saying. There better ways to spend. You can waste your life debating about this. It is yours not mine

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    I have been slacking on this journal. I will set up a schedule to check in on the forum once every day so that I can put in my journal entries. For this entry I would be journaling about two quotes. One on the mind and one on self compassion

    "All problems are illusions o the mind" - Eckhart Tolle

    From what I can understand at first all problems are created in the mind. They aren't out there in the physical. Your mind creates problems and projects it into the external. If you change how you see the situation. It changes. By taking responsibility you put yourself in position to see the illusions that the illusions that the mind is creating. But aren't there events that are problems that we see out there in the physical like natural disasters, violence, incompetent political leaders. I'm stuck on this point. Will need to contemplate more on this.

     

    "Self-acceptance is my refusal to be in an adversarial relationship with myself." - Nathaniel Brand

    I first read this quote and what struck first in my mind is seeing how form most of my life I have been in an adversarial relationship with myself. The idea of self compassion was seen as a way of developing myself. I saw it as being self indulgent in loving myself as I am. That it would lead to arrogance. I would speak to myself in a harsh tone and beat myself up everyday. I became socially anxious, depressed and suicidal. I have been practicing mindfulness meditation, loving kindness, reading psychology books about self acceptance and there has been significant improvement in my mental health. Self acceptance is a practice. An adversarial relationship with self is internal conflict.  a neurosis. By practicing self acceptance, you bring the parts of yourself you like and the parts you don't into one whole. You have authentic motivation to grow and improve and to love yourself and give that love to others. You become a more whole integrated human being.

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    I am working through a book called - Ideas on demand A crash course on creativity. It started with 5 creativity blocks which are as follows

    1. Lack of self-belief

    2. Fear of sounding stupid

    3. Discomfort with ambiguity and uncertainty

    4. The right answer syndrome

    5. Being judgemental.

    At the end of the description of each creativity block and there is an exercise. I tackled each exercise. I felt more creative and more willing to tackle creative tasks.

    The next section of the book is that creativity is about connecting the dots and creating "wow" by connecting them in a way no one ever did.

    To be really good at connecting dots you need to be collecting dots. Dots are ideas you get from books, past experience, experimentation etc.

    The ideas of frames was also introduced. There was also a technique called the reversal technique. I applied the technique to my professional situation and I got some ideas. These will be further improved as I continue to read the book. I have been falling behind on this journal. I would need to have a paper journal that I write on first before transferring it to the forum.

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    This is my first journal. I am starting now. I am currently feeling down after failing an oral exam to become a authorized dealing clerk in the major stock exchange in my home country. I currently work in a stockbroking firm. . I am struggling to go through all my course notes, develop my writing and speaking skills and studying finance in general. I studied engineering in the university and I had a pass, so I have been jumping from job to job trying to carve a path and I believe finance is the path for me. On the self development tip and I am working on the interpretation video that Leo released a few weeks ago. My first journal post. I will get better with practice.

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    On 7/10/2021 at 4:04 AM, johnlocke18 said:

    For one, Leo says what he experiences on 5meo is the truth, when it could just be a subjective experience. The main problem is you push these teachings on people carelessly and don’t take any criticism. I just read where you told a dude he has to choose either his wife or 5meo, now you’re just getting ridiculous. You could’ve just told him to sneak and do it occasionally. You could easily ruined people’s lives considering how much they trust you and you’re going to have to change. What happened to soonhei should’ve been enough but you still don’t take any feed. You’re going to have to change and be more careful.

    Guy, you are mentally lazy and not serious with this work. I can tell that you are sloppy in your thinking and you are into the blame game. Focus on creating a great life for yourself instead of being this guy who wants to prove how "independent" of a thinker he is and how he is not a sheep by playing blame games.

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    On 1/29/2021 at 0:57 PM, StarStruck said:

    Any good book recommendations on this topic?

    There are books on Leo's book list on creativity and how to be creative. You can search online for books on creativity. Reading the info and trying out the techniques on the area of your life you want to work on will help you to create your own creative thinking style.

  20. Posted

    1 hour ago, Michal__ said:

    Write down your dreams. Everyday, even if you don't remember anything write down "I don't remember anything". If you never miss a day you will soon have way above average dream recall. Doubt it's due to porn. Even if it was you can just fix it this way, cause it should have bigger impact.

    You are probably right. I have a journaling habit that I am trying to implement every morning. My use of porn has gone down over the years. I used to be obsessive with it. I will implement your idea tomorrow morning. Thanks.

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    23 hours ago, StarStruck said:

    Use your dreams. Your dreams reveal your subconscious and how you think deep down. Everybody thinks differently. For example for me, in my dream I saw myself changing by taking off my old clothes and putting on new clothes.

    I hardly dream. I believe it is because I masturbate to porn. When I don't, I dream but I hardly remember the details. I probably should hold off on porn and masturbation for now. What you are describing from what I can tell is lucid dreaming. I haven't done that before. How do you do it?

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    On 1/19/2021 at 8:28 AM, SirVladimir said:

     

     

     

    That is a powerful thread. I haven't tried the visualization technique but from reading the instructions it is a very radical technique.

    On 1/19/2021 at 8:00 PM, Setzer901 said:

    @SirVladimir

    Loved the post! However, I guess psychedelics is something that can help you shed those beliefs faster?

    I am in a country where it will be difficult and dangerous to go for psychedelics. I will make do with shamanic breathing. I have only done shamanic breathing once. I am still working to make visualization an habit then I will start on shamanic breathing.

    19 hours ago, LastThursday said:

    NLP has the Swish pattern, where you can use visualisation: https://www.nlp-techniques.org/what-is-nlp/swish/

     

    19 hours ago, LastThursday said:

    NLP has the Swish pattern, where you can use visualisation: https://www.nlp-techniques.org/what-is-nlp/swish/

     

    Awesome technique.

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    20 hours ago, Origins said:

    You must always start and end energetically resonating with truth.

    There's no other way.

    You can turn your self image into a snail if you want, quite literally, which shows you that self "image" has nothing to do with truth and everything to do with imagination. Or maybe you're spiderman, a fictional character of someone else's design, do you see how easy it is for the mind to trick itself? Self-image is to self deception. Anything on the order of image you want to simply use creatively or in understanding what is true knowledge and then use that creatively as well. Image has no business with self, only true knowledge. But knowledge is never resonance, this is a felt expression. You must learn to express truth via resonance, then you will learn what and who you are.

    Aligning with truth. Got it. I just want to reprogram my subconscious mind to achieve my goals and dreams.

    18 hours ago, Michal__ said:

    Subliminal. Or just writing down affirmations as many times as possible. 

    Or if you want faster results just good old Witchcraft. 9_9

    I am afraid of witchcraft. I did poorly with affirmations. I was using the wrong theory at the time. I will probably start doing it again.

    18 hours ago, nistake said:

    It's possible, but it depends on your patience and persistence.

    There are some pretty good books in Leo's book list in the LoA section. I'm reading one of those right now.

    I'd also add that you should practise shadow work besides visualization. This is often underemphasized, but if you have shadowy desires and unsatisfied aspects in your psyche, then you're gonna sabotage yourself no matter how hard you practise visualization.

    If you're interested in shadow work, Existential Kink by Carolyn Elliott is az excellent book.

    I am will to be persistent and patient because I know changing your mind is a long term thing. I haven't looked at the LoA section in Leo's book list. I will go check it out now. I haven't looked too deep into shadow work. I will get that book as soon as possible.