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    On 10/02/2024 at 2:31 PM, Ramanujan said:

    I invested a lot in LP course only to realize that nothing works in India and i am fucked

    If you really set your heart on your life purpose, you can move to another country. Many people have done it.

    For that, a high paying job might be your first step.

    Good luck on your journey!

    ❤️

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    I meant that there is a trend right now with anything training / qualification related. You can get anything Yoga Certificate, human design Certificate, Spiral Dynamics® Certificate.

    Just like there was / is a trend with university degrees.

    What I am seeing is people who have many of these certificates but not a stable business as a coach. Instead they go on and get another certificate. On the other hand, I know some coaches who have none of these certificates but they've helped hundreds of people and have a good business going. Of course, they have teachers. But more in form of books and courses that are not designed with the teaching aspect in mind.

    So ask yourself, what do I need to do/be in order for my clients to make the shift and "help them fix their broken arm".

    Do you need more knowledge in a particular field that you might get with a certificate or is this something you do for yourself to feel better?

     

    1 hour ago, Aaron p said:

    I was one of them.

    What did you do to get out of it?

  6. Posted · Edited by universe

    @Butters I don't think marriage is necessary here.

    But in general there is some truth to this statement. With the caveat that it's also important who the man is, who attracts this woman to his life to begin with. And what he makes out of the great or not so great partner.

    In general living with a woman will make you ditch some things. For example, playing video games all the time, watching TV, in general being lazy. Most women will not tolerate this behaviour in the long or even short run.

    Because a woman needs to see that you are working on yourself or doing something with your life.

    That's the first thing. From here it can go on kinda like this:

    A: She has a bad influence, for example (she might be afraid she can't keep you, so) she makes you stop going to the gym, gives you bad food or even drugs. On the other hand a woman like this might also makes you spend substantial amount of money on her and she wants stupid stuff. Like clothes, bags, fancy restaurants etc.

    B: She has a positive influence, for example she might be pushing you towards your highes goals. She sees you are fine doing X but she knows you could be even better at Y (which also aligns with your and her values). She encourages you to stay healthy, does workouts with you. She likes to eat healthy, so you both enjoy healthy meals together. When it comes to money she rather spends it on education and advancing her career. Or she just doesn't need so much money, so you are free to invest it into your business/career etc.

     

    I think you should never underplay the role to which you will be shaped by what your partner / the opposite sex expects from you. That's why it is very important to choose the right partner.

  10. Posted

    1 hour ago, Rafael Thundercat said:

    Of course they care, 

    It's a whole paradigm shift. As a man it is really hard to understand this.

    I was this girls age when I understood that women find intelligence attractive :x

     

    1 hour ago, Rafael Thundercat said:

    What the girl complain in the video is being treated as a disposable piece of meat. 

    Sure.

    You can be hot and some men will still like you. Same as you can have ambition and status as a man and some women still like you. The question is, what am I doing to attract these people in my life and what am I doing that will make these people avoid me.

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    Belief that it will help you. Some drink alcohol to feel better, which definitely has side effects. Some take psychedelics which can also have side effects. The belief that this will heal you and that it will cure you is one of the deciding factors for it to work.

    And you don't have to take them forever. See it like a medication you take when you break something in your body for example.

    Let your body heal and then you won't need it anymore.

    ❤️

  17. Posted

    On 04/02/2024 at 7:06 AM, bebotalk said:

    I don't see any group as better.

    So you say you don't like any particular group more than any other. Seeing all as equal. But when it comes to disliking groups, you do hate some particular groups more than any other. Seeing them as different.

  21. Posted

    It's not about promoting your YouTube channel.

    YouTube has huge user base already. Just make watchable content and interesting titles, that people actually click on. YouTube will recommend it eagerly to their users. Bit by bit at first. But it will progress.

    Promoting your channel outside of YouTube is like selling people Pringles in the subway. You can technically do it and some people might buy, but it is much better to sell it to big supermarkets and let the customers grab it while going grocery shopping.

  23. Posted

    4 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

    I used to behave like a dog with 5 years old as a joke... if as an adult you do this...you are seriously fucked up and need help 🙏

    Don't do my boy dirty.

    There is nothing wrong with dog consciousness. :P