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Where is this somewhere? How do you know for sure? In the end, suffering is also just a part of life. Like happyness and joy. There is nothing thats better than the other. Nothing that is more worse then something else. Its all the same.

Definitely you want to feel love in yourself first. Be kind and loving to yourself. Always, especially when you feel that you dont deserve love. See if you hold any grudges against you, no matter what. And let them go. Practice acceptance.

What do you use audio logs for? Also do you transcribe them?

Well Im not him but I gathered from his videos that the problem with CFS came before he got into psychedelics. And that he has it under control now. I think he said its mostly related to certain food allergies. I would also think with all the self actualization and spiritual work he does, clearing negative energy happens naturally. From my experience with psychedelics it seems plausible that they have a draining energy effect. Im not sure about entitiy attachments. Have you read about the sedona method and the method of releasing? It also works with energy but I dont know if it applies to negative energy as much as emotions.

& @Epsilon_The_Imperial what do you mean with keeping the vibrations high. Is that what results from meditation?

I would say that is a limiting belief. There are other things more fun to talk about than for example trump or brexit. It might be useful to be on top of the news but its not a necessity.

You might be a perfectionist. The only way for you to fail is by doing nothing. Also if you are to afraid, start with something small you can do now.

Just leaving this here

Allright and what is your goal? You are most likely addicted to a lot of stuff (just assuming). I was when I was your age. You are really young so take your time. A little porn addiction wont kill you. It might make you act a bit weird socially (but then most are watching porn). It might take away time to study or do a hobby. It might create some sort of fetish. If you just want to avoid a porn addiction, stop watching it. You can try switching to pictures first, then just audioporn (google it?). Its fine, you can masturbate to imagination as well, it just takes some time for your brain to kick in. If you want more (like a girlfriend, get a life), get rid of your pc! Im not joking. Sell it, burn it, gift it to someone. You dont need it! Now if you watch porn on a phone idk, Im too old for this, youll have to get creative. But by getting rid of the pc you achieve several things. You stop gaming. You stop porn. You stop wasting time on internet forums. Instead you go out socialize, practice new skills, try out different things and all stuff like this. YOUR LIFE BECOMES INTERESTING. This will be very beneficial for you. Get a pc back when you are 17, 18. Start self-actualizing, watching porn and what not. Trust me you dont need it before.

so subtle

Connection To everything. To people, to animals, to nature, to space. Feeling one with everything there is. There is nothing I value more. Its always here, I just have to be reminded constantly.

tolerating bad behaviour = being loving? So lets switch the genders. Lets say a man is beating his wife. Should she walk away or give him unconditional love?

What happened when you kept being loving and hilarious? Im curious.

Yes this! If I am not doing x, its because I dont want to do it. I never must to x, I want to do x.

Happy new year my friend! <3

Haha, nice video! I think I would gladly take brown bear's rigid and robotic company as a constant reminder. But I wished they would already stfu and enjoy the tree and present moment for gods sake

@Hardkill you need to write only one sentence per post

Have you watched this video? Good. Have you practiced every technique in this video? No. Ok now you go out and start to practice each technique day by day when talking to new people. The goal is not to make new friends but to get the practice.

I like the advice you already got here. "Dont help, just understand" & make him think his ideology through. What I would do is, tell him I love him no matter what but that Im not into the whole blaming game bullshit. Ultimately what he has is fear. Lead by example, show him you are fearless and full of love.

Not sure what you want the discussion to be about. But yeah marketing is very important. So is finding a unique problem and a unique solution to it. You have to be creative.

It really depends on where you are currently at and what you want to get. Dating can be compared to a market. There are people constantly looking for a partner and they want the best they can get. There is no fixed "value" for every person because everyone has slightly different things they look out for in a partner. If you have a life purpose that you follow and have mastered your emotions my guess would be you dont necesseraly need to know about PUA/RSD. Otherwise it can be helpful. If you want to learn it, try dating some people and find out what your sticking points are. Then read up on material on how to overcome them and test, test, test.

How old are you? Did you already had sex?

I am happy for you!

Humor: Watch Leos video on how to be funny. Basically ask yourself the question "what is funny about this?" all the time. Amuse yourself first. Others will follow. Work with tension. In the grand scheme, see how happy you are in life. If you are truly miserable it will be harder to be funny and it might take you a lot of time. Confidence: Get into a mindset that makes you feel good. Think thoughts like "I will be ok", "All is good", "These girls are cool", "All people are cool", "There are no problems in the now". And so on. Dont have thoughts that drag you down and tell you, you are worthless or sth. You will have enough hurdles to overcome, dont make your mind a hurdle as well. Let it make you feel at ease. Because you are posting in the dating forum I guess you mean confidence in talking to woman. See yourself on the same level as girls. I know its not easy but thats what you get when you want advice on an online forum. I can just give you some hints. You are going to have to get the experience yourself. This happens on a subcounscious/unconscious level. So you have to reprogram the unconscious part of your brain, that will take some time. In the end what will make you confident is having experience.

@Anna1 Just watched it today and wanted to thank you! The trailer really was off putting with all the pseudo science but the movie is beautiful! Any other video/media?