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Implying there is a "you" that is choosing between good and bad grapes, eh? I like your way of thinking, pretty rebellious!

Whats your question? If you have an urge to teach them, wait until they come to you and ask you. Before they ask, leading by example works pretty good. Also this video might help you in your situation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQewAOgoxCE

@kieranperez Tiger eats elefant, elefant eats plant, plant takes water, uses sunrays. Where do we stop? Should we give the sun back its photons we received? You ARE the world, You ARE the tiger, the elefant, the plant, the sunrays. You are making up things that dont exist this way in the real world. Do what you gotta do, your intentions seem noble. But dont delude yourself that you have found some kind of universal purpose.

I dont know her spiritual videos but I learned quite a bit from her videos where she goes into relationships, masculinity and femininity. Remember, you can learn something from anyone.

Yes, I can relate. Life is lonely and sad. Only me, Im all alone

Haha, I have to try that! Just sit around doing exactly nothing and be my friends feeding me jelly. <3

The correct way to say it, is to not expect anything from her after you said it.

If you only have this problems with girls its likely that you are too needy. You try to hard to impress her, thus filtering the things you want to say. Remove this filter, layer for layer and conversation will be super easy. Its not really important what you say. You can always either say something fun ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EsLCVXYqUns ) Or deepen the connection you two have ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-SdqaGS_jc )

Does it happen with anyone? Do you avoid 1 on 1 conversations? If not, how do they normally go then? Are you 14?

@JohnnyBravo solid advice! @Marinus Yeah, do what feels right to you. Just remember, you can convey some MASSIVE dominance and balls while escalating a social interaction confidently. And dont be afraid your intentions wont be clear when you approach women. Chances are, if you talk to a girl longer than 2minutes, she will know

Ask yourself "Why do I feel this way? Thats interesting..." Then ask "What does this feeling want to tell me?" If you find out, acknowledge it. Accept the feeling and whatever is coming up.

Good stuff! Keep on going mate, I think your doing great! What do you mean she liked what you were doing? Yes this! Always initiate! You always need to lead, especially in the beginning. Most girls are very reactive. I know it can be a bit bothering, on the plus side, you can do whatever you want. And when you build up your intuition it gets easier and easier.

Did you watch this video?

If you are dating a needy person and your friends try to set you up with some random people... well, its no wonder that it seems like a burden to you. Do you feel like you deserve to be loved? Realize that everything you are right now is perfect. If you dont want to have a relationship, dont. You dont have to follow all these narratives that todays society feeds us. A true relationship can only happen when you take off your mask. I feel like you try to put on a mask to be more likeable to others. I did this as well. It can be very exhausting.

Of course dude! I know someone who does exatly that and its working great. I saw a study which said that more people than ever, are solo, so there is definitely a big market. Just be aware of dogma and ego. Why do you ask? Literally anything can be your purpose.

Thanks all, will check it out! Already have Roma on my list as well! Somehow related I can say Serenity (2018) was a nice ride! But I think it works best for people who like to immerse themselves in a movie. Dont expect it to be perfect either.

So Im looking for videos which speak to you and make you want to meditate or do spiritual work. It could also be inspirational on another level. Maybe you saw true beauty in it, or it made you feel love, or it made you question reality. No speeches like Alan Watts or Sadhguru, or speeches with photo slideshows! Im specifically looking for art in video form. So mainly with actors or it could be any visuals. Please specify what the video/movie made you realize/feel and what about it spoke to you so strongly. Can be subtle as well.

It was mostly tension in the back. Got a little bit more faith in the medical field after my doctor did a good diagnosis

This is how many people slept in history. I always heard it was because of acid reflux/heartburn.

Beautiful thread. See what story you created in your head around the barking. It steers the feelings that come up when you hear it. You can try to associate something positive with the barking that you look up to. Maybe use it as an alarm that reminds you to be in the now. Or you can just use it to feel connected with that dog.

Why do you draw a picture? I like your question, why do you like to know?

Im not sure what you mean by unconscious thoughts. If you mean its like you are thinking but you are not really there vs. conscious thoughts were you actually pay attention to what you are thinking. These seem to be not completely unconscious vs conscious but rather on scale. The mind is an answer generating tool. I would say it might be more effective when you use it more consciously. But that of course implies a kind of judgemental outlook on life, which favors your survival and purpose.

Let it go, drop your fears

What do you do in your saved time? What do is your journal about? What do you mean by "after this". You mean you tell yourself its ok to quit but only after overcoming the next hurdle? The infrastructure you need is very personal and depends on your goals I guess. What do you want to achieve?

What would be one thing you can do today (or this week), that would make all your other 3 goals unnecessary?