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Do you have 5k already? If yes, then why not make another 5k until august? Then you can buy a 10k pc and play with the big bois

How do you know your mother even really exists?

Yes psychedelics are very good to deal with fear. When you see the TRUTH you realize there is nothing to fear. Only love and acceptance

Learn about how woman see the world. There are fundamental differences. If you dont understand them you will run into these problems again and again.

Is this a new era on actualized.org?

If its only to make money and you dont need it, I wouldnt do the job. If its in a field that is interesting to you and could help you find your LP you could do both. The course and going to work. Basically: Time > Money.

What are you teaching? Maybe you can double down on that. Make an online-course that people can buy and watch anytime. Build a franchise/platform with other people coaching for you. Affiliate marketing for related products/services.

You can do regular hobbies with a high consciousness. Be creative! Or you could start coaching, teaching, volunteering etc.

If people would do everything Leo says that would be amazing! Maybe he should start to say. "God doesnt care if you help poor people, go to vote, meditate and work very hard on your life purpose to bring the most value to our society". People would magically start doing all that. Wow. Mind = Blown

Self-Love. lots and lots of Self-Love. Love the part of you that didnt got love from your mother when you were a child. Love the part of you that believed what your mother said. Love the part of you which resented your mother for how she abused you. Love the part of you that doesnt believe what your mother said. Love the part of you that is your mother. Love the part of you that doesnt feel worthy. Love the part of you that feels useless. Love the part of you that judges people on their worth. Love the part of you that feels very much worthy. Let go of any resentment you have towards your mother or to yourself. Let go of judging yourself or others as good enough or not good enough. There is no such thing. Everyone is equal. Right now. Imagine a situation in which you open up to others. Feel the fear coming up. Welcome it. Let it be with you. Breath into that fear/tension. Ask yourself this three simple questions and then simply just feel. "Can I welcome that feeling even more?" "Do I want to let this feeling go?" "When do I want to let it go?"

Only listened to the podcast a few minutes but it seems like they were on complete different levels... so its probably a good thing. Still heartbreaking.

You can not hurt someone. They can only hurt themselves. Well... adults anyways. Maybe there is also a part of you that you dont accept yet. That you dont love. Seems like in your previous relationships this showed and you are still kind of caged by this. Do the inner work. Make a journey back in time and find whats still unprocessed and stuck in your body. Feel into it. What does it want to say? And then when its time, let it go. Its all internal.

Im telling you; you dont have a problem right now. So how can we help you? Move out of your parents house and then, if you still have problems with doing the dishes or washing clothes, ask again. I have trust in you that you will find a way to manage.

Come again when you actually have problems. Not when you imagine to have problems in the future. These things will sort themselves out, stop worrying. Its like the fetus thinking "How can I live the good life outside of this womb. Having to walk by myself, having to eat and chew food?"

Yes, making others believe your ideas are their own is one of the best ways to get them realized. What was the problem, did they fire you? Did they stop paying you? When you work in a company all work you do there belongs to the company. In turn the money they pay you belongs to you. At least thats the way it is in my country. If you didnt like the job there, why didnt you quit? Why didnt you tell your friend you want more money or less work? Seems like there was a communication problem. Learn to say no to things.

If you struggle with doing the work and find yourself consuming a lot. Look into dopamine detox.

Our emotions come from thoughts. The story you tell yourself will determine how you feel about a situation/event. I recommend you watch this video from Leo about emotional maturity.

Why cant they be your friends? You will make friends automatically if you dont actively try not to. I'd advise you to become very confident. Start with becoming confident in your body.

Can you narrow down what you find draining when talking to girls? When was the last time?

You really need to start way way deeper than simply nofap. Right now you have so many limiting beliefs and beliefs that are just plain hurtful and wrong. You have probably developed some trauma from your inability to get sex. Get to the core. Release your feelings and trauma. Its not gonna be easy. You might puke because its so hard. Get some sessions with a trainer or do the work yourself for a few months. When you are finnished go talk to woman, have fun. Learn some stuff. This not rocket science. Releasing your emotions is going to be 80-90% of the work. The rest is something a nine-grader can do.

A nice sum of money can be 1.000usd or 1.000.000 or more usd. Can you be in a relationship with another girl at the same time? How long is this "contract"? If you are afraid of disharmony you should look into that. Accept that disharmony is part of reality. Learn to go into tension. This is a masculine trait. At first it might be scary but after time you will love being in tension. There is nothing to fear. The less you fear the more willingly you will go into tension. Do body relaxation meditation. And pay attention to the body and its emotions during the day.

Maybe a small campus isnt the right thing for you. I was in a fairly large one that I liked. Then moved to a huge one that I didnt like so much. Eh whatever... You can either change your location or you can change your inside. The truth is, you dont need people to like you. If you dont realize this, people will make you aware of your illusion everywhere you go. On the other hand, when you realize you dont need validation from them you can be really free. Now you act authentic and relaxed. You say what is on your mind and do whatever you like. Do goofy things, enjoy the moment. Because you know that you are gonna be ok, even if they dont like what you say. Having nothing to fear will make you confident. Ironically this energy attracts people. To form an identity just find things you really like or love. Find out what you value in life. Really sit down and take some time to ask yourself what these things are. Having a strong identity comes down to telling people what you like and what you dont like. Because everything is communication. The world only knows from you what you communicate today. So maybe start doing this inner work and you can start to look out for another campus along the way.

By choosing one path, you kill the other path. Letting go is the answer.

When you have a business isnt the ultimate purpose of it to serve others? If you become good at serving people, you will be set for the future. I dont understand the problem.

You are already pretty far on this path. First step is to become aware of this. Ultimately, yes you should stop give a f**** about what other people think of you. Your own self-worth should not be dependent on that. You can completely release that need for attention via the sedona method. This will have an dramatic effect over your whole life. In a good way. Because when you fear that others wont like you, you will do things you dont even like doing. Just to get their attention. Or you will simply not do anything. Whereas if you dont, you will make very fast progress. Doing the things you like and then adjust however you like, to get the outcome you want in life. Most thing are simple to understand and actualize but we dont do them because we are too afraid. Basic introduction on releasing: