Norbert Somogyi

AI is incapable of experiencing human emotions (imitating a shallow version of them at best), furthermore that perfection is not relatable. Killing the possibility of forming a genuine relationship with an AI (rightly so). Also as others have said before, as long as the AI has no choice but to be with you, it becomes a property. Which ends up resurfacing some twisted (albeit somewhat familiar) power dynamics. Just no.

If I were to be in a situation when a girlfriend/wife were to become overly flirty with me, I would be cautious and ask her to stop. I wouldn't want to hurt her nor my friend. Sure I may be able to satisfy her short-term, but she will definitely regret it later on and so do I by losing a friend (and my self-esteem). Even if she was a partner of someone with less priority in my life, I still wouldn't be able to get myself to do it. What matters ro me is that she is in a relationship of any kind. My thought process is that If I can't help to give into this short-term gratification considering the cost, I would question my ability to build and maintain trust and relationships of any kind. If I was horny enough to have some issues with this, I would either get out there and seduce someone single or just rub one off to clear my head.

Exercise (if done well) tends to increase my capacity to feel my body, making me more susceptible to feel what makes me feel good and what does not. Making me want to feel and live healthier and cleaner, which results in me being able to spend more moments in my life enjoying/living instead of suffering. Being able to spend more moments living instead of suffering can be considered a form of living longer. Chronologically I may go earlier, but that would no longer be the priority (nor would I mind).

Sounds like you may benefit a lot from IFS Therapy. Regarding the way you view your self-acceptance (as some kind of accomplishment or trophy you could use to get validation from the external world) seems to be a rather big obstacle. In my mind the more you accept yourself the less validation you tend to seek from the outside. The strength and the light start to shine from within.

I experience more vivid dreams during the active part of the chelating process (Cutler, ALA, 25mg at the moment), however they don't include gory or nightmarish parts (almost) at all. Furthermore they seem to decrease in vividness during the passive phase. I am just speculating, but I could think of this as your brain's mechanism of processing toxins moving within tissue (hopefully not redistribution), just like how your dreams tend to become more vivid during/after emotional processing. Like your brain structure is being altered, and as a result and it is adapting.

Beautiful, thank you for sharing!

I've just begun chelating with ALA in cooperation with a holistic health practicioner (who is doing it on himself as well as helping others with it and through other methods), had my first round with 12,5 mg per capsule taken every 3 hours (4 hours at night). The results so far are great, increased well-being with more mental clarity and sexual energy. No issues besides a minor head ache that is easily manageable. What I've done beforehand was a supplement course over 8 weeks in order to prepare my body for chelation. Can't say much about DSMA or zeolite, no personal experience.

While I was addicted to porn it made me lose great amounts of energy, mental clarity and motivation. Some of it was mental (punishing myself for failing), some of it may have been physical (and perhaps some placebo). It no longer seems to be the case, granted I've been improving my life & health since. You all may be interested in the following personal research fellow actualized member @tezk has been doing.

I'm trying it out this year as well. Good luck on your journey! What I think matters is that it facilitates growth for some (if not most), while makes others stressful & agitated. POIS is also a thing, but ultimately what this boils down to imo is doing something meaningful & productive with all the additional energy you acquire (aka energy transmutation).

https://www.unz.com/runz/war-crimes-and-atrocity-hoaxes-in-the-israel-gaza-conflict/

Lots of gems and amazing people to be found here, on the other hand the noise may be even stronger. In case it is truly your intuition, trust it and follow it through! Disconnect and see what happens, who knows what kind of adventure you could have if you follow your intuition all the time. This forum can be a great place, but it is not necessary to lead an authentic & fulfilling life. Leo's videos and numerous other sources can help you with that, potentially even more (if we stay on the internet as a domain).

It can easily be a distraction, just as it have been for me in my teens. Spiritual bypassing is a pretty common thing, still in the process of climbing out of it and making sense of the world after the experience (may or may not have been what is commonly referred to as satori) I had. I have always been under the impression that it is ideal to balance things out. It's better to focus on the relative domain (healing your traumas, climbing up the spiral step by step, building genuine connections with oneself and others, burning through karma etc.) with just a touch of spirituality. The desire to seek transcendence may come sooner or later, or not at all and that is also alright.

Strange to see transcendental insights such as oneness and absolute love turned into petty arguments and sources of superiority complexes. We are indeed fascinating beings! We have a complex, unfortunate situationscape affecting the globe that is showing us the deepest pits of our collective/individual shadows from which we could ideally learn more about ourselves, but it seems to just create a situation where we throw out our trash in our neighbourhood without a care. What happened here, has it always been like this?

What truly matters is your character, ideally your clothes only serve as an expression of it. If you have thoughts about what's on you as you are wearing it that may reduce the masculine vibe you are trying to express, otherwise if the thought doesn't even cross your mind there is no issue. I personally see no problem neither with that kind of outfit on the picture. It's a matter of preferences

I believe it depends on which perspective you are able to interpret / experience the other from, aka how deep your realization of Godhood is. In case it is sufficiently deep for you to be able to experience the relative domain from the perspective of Being God, then it is simply the best thing that can happen to you (whatever the case is). It still takes work to deepen it and integrate into a human life, but bliss can become common. In case you have personal baggage that can potentially restrict the depths of your realization (amongst other things), the experience of being God (aka everything being the creation of your Mind) can potentially feel threatening to your relative sense of identity. There it can feel like torture since it necessitates for you to recontextualize your whole life, forcing quick and painful growth (in case you don't let your ego turn this into a weapon). P.S: Note that I am speaking without direct experience of Godhood, the closest I have gotten is a few seconds of glimpse into some sense of Unity (which still has lingering effects on my relative development, trying to come to terms with balancing these perspectives still after years).

I second the first one, the second one is downright hilarious haha

I have no direct experience, but you might be interested in this recent thread.

It's not impossible but don't use this as an excuse to avoid daygame. If you can do both nightgame and daygame sober, you will have incredible character development and you won't have to worry about not bumping into a girl who can potentially be a long-term companion.

I only have one longlasting meaningful friendship, and I can thank him for a lot. Without his support I wouldn't be where I currently am.

That's good that you do, I believe you do in certain contexts. However it just doesn't seem to reflect on the attitude you are exhibiting on the forum for the most part. Cooperation is not necessarily the first word that comes to mind. Granted, others are also to blame. From my point of view, It's as if you are looking for some sort of foundation for your worldview and you twist certain disagreements in that direction. Those end up being sarcastic comments and sometimes even cherry-picked arguments to justify your view, resulting in pain and making others uncomfortable (sometimes even worse). In a sense sometimes you end up propagating pain that cause potentially hate, which you can use as a justification to strengthen your worldview. However using their understandable reaction to this pain&discomfort that you inflict on others with your own frustration as a justification for one's worldview (be it man-hate or anything) is far from being cooperational in my view. Yes it is healthy to have standards in regards to the type of characters you surround yourself with, however there's no need to look down on the rest or spread hate towards them. In case you don't have the capacity to appreciate some people or at least be willing to listen & understanding, just let them be. I understand this is the internet and it is hard to avoid the urge to share one's opinions and worldviews, but c'mon. The hate you spread about these man-hater women sometimes end up becoming justifications for them to continue to do so. Each part spreading hate about the other, justifying the others' hate. It is a hellish cycle. Nah, I don't think of this as a theory. I have some first-hand experience in relation to being called a creep or being ignored by women I approached, but I didn't twist it justifying a worldview where all women hate men or that specific woman would hate men in general. These experiences were painful, but they made me reflect and I ended up being more understanding of my flaws and women in general. Nowadays I can get along with them just fine, and if something bad happens I can laugh it off or at worst just let it be and go on my way. I have other issues related to this, but they require deep inner work to solve & heal. These self-proclaimed feminists do exist, (I may be a little biased since where I live I have yet to meet them, it is mostly on the internet I see (especially if you intentionally look for them, duh)) and I find it best to spend as little effort & time with them as possible. Don't be irritable towards them neither, don't justify their hate further. I also can see how the current multi-faceted dynamics that are in place are perpetuating an increasing disconnect between people and themselves, and consequentially between genders. However the solution doesn't seem to be agression, but first a holistic understanding of the issue and being strategist about your actions to solve it. Even if a part of you genuinely wants to do something about this (which I can see you do), there are other parts of you that end up working against it (even if well-intended). This is what Daniel Schmachtenberger would call governance at the level of the self and where shadow work/IFS comes into play. That's good to hear! I don't want to discourage you about sharing the message, but I hope you could be more strategic about it and see the flaws of your current approach.

Men and women are meant to cooperate, not hate each other. Why not propagate more of that? Why don't you work on becoming a man who can elevate simps to manhood so that they can cooperate with women, while also becoming a man yourself who cooperates with women so that they can not hate you? Wouldn't that be a wise course of action, proving this *man-hate* itself wrong? Man, I wish you could meet a lovely lady in your life who would be able to change your mind on this. All these darts of projection you shoot at basically everyone are hurting them.

@framu Could you please share a step-by-step guide about how to do it correctly? I've been practicing and feel some kinds of results, but I just want to make sure I am not missing out on anything. Thanks!

Which browser do you use on your phone?

It is possible that your priorities are not in the best order. There could be underlying psychological issues / anxieties that are severely holding you back from succeeding in this field. If you could spend 10k on RSD coaches, you certainly can spend that on developing your character and life including Leo's Life Purpose course. Just watch Leo's How To Get Laid series thoroughly and see where you could be focusing backwards. EDIT: 400 approaches are great! Some people reach their first cherry after even more approaches. Not everyone is the same. Just make sure you don't evaluate your level of success based on laidcount. As explained in the recommended series above, that is just a side-benefit that can potentially boost your morale if you handle it carefully. Otherwise it is your character that is supposed to be built on this journey.

Perhaps their thought-process was that it would be more a viable approach to send a member(s) of their race physically so that making contact would be easier. You can imagine what went through the heads of the natives upon seeing us horrible white europeans with our advanced tech. Unless they technologically transcended the relativity of time itself, maybe what they see from Earth is the past maybe even before the industrial revolution and thought this is a better approach (possibly based on past experience). Could also have been a mere clone. Yes it does not make sense when it comes to resource management, but perhaps they prioritise benevolence and a pro-life paradigm over that. A remote-controlled airfact would also require a presence in the vicinity of the solar system, so they would have done a good job hiding around (unless they can cut through space-time itself to cross large distances quickly). I am just speculating, but perhaps it is within their framework once they have transcended the pettiness of survival.