thierry

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  1. Wow beautiful, sounds like the perfect mindset ! Thanks !
  2. And yes maybe I’ll talk about it in a funny way ! Thanks for the good idea !
  3. Thanks, yes for sure I can feel that practice is the most efficient way and that I’m getting closer to be able to make the whole process smooth I’ll certainly double down my efforts. I won’t give up until I’m getting it haha
  4. I do not know, I’ve always live by the rule of never asking but you are right, maybe I should open myself up to this idea !
  5. Thanks for the reply! yes I think I’ll just try to be more relaxed and not try to rush when things become more intense. I’ll let you know how it goes
  6. Maybe also it is because I was trying to go for the kiss and her friends were not very far, maybe I should just have brought her outside the nightclub, I don’t know ??
  7. I guess I’m just gonna see if the cancels our meeting on Thursday or no, I’ll let you guyz know
  8. But is it better to develop toxic attitudes or to be weak ? Is there something more toxic than being weak ? Sometimes, I think I’d rather be toxic than weak. When I’m weak, I’m disgusted at myself. Andrew Tate does not disgust me. At least he’s not a victim and he will never be.
  9. You guys are so funny with your metaphore. In the end, the point is finding a girlfriend you love. I’d rather meet a girl I can connect with no matter how than doing 100approaches.
  10. The reason why I personally want a smart gf is because I would a girl with who I can really connect, a girl that can understand my humor and a girl that understands me simply.
  11. I’ve always cared personally. The way I see it is that if I had a girlfriend, I would not appreciate guys hitting on my girl so I do not do it. What is wrong with that ?
  12. Okay, first my English is not that good and what I want to communicate is not very easy so thanks and good luck for the readers.. Anyway my dating life is very very far from all coaches and Leo’s view and I can see the truth of his view so I’m questioning myself. I would say I’m an idealist, or a dreamer Leo is very harsh. For example, I’m loyal to a girl I like as soon as the flirt phase started eventhough there is no sex, not even kissing and sometimes I feel that I’m missing opportunities. I feel it also puts me in a weak position and eventhough I used to think that I’m ready to pay this price, I’m not that sure anymore. Also sometimes I feel I’m living in a different reality than everyone else(especially the pick up community). for example this idea that « there is nothing until you and the girl have sex » for me that’s wrong, I actually had a girlfriend where it was obvious she was mine and I was hers and sex did not even happen between us. Actually we did not see each other a whole summer and the relation kept going(but you could say it is because we were very young idk). It’s not even a priority to me to have sex with a girl I met and like. I feel I can build love without it if it was just about me. But nevertheless I can feel there are downsides with my attitude and it’s not that functional. I know I would have a lot to learn from the pick up community and I have to admit I’m not satisfied with my dating life. I consider I never succeed in building a strong intimate connection with a girl. I’ve had girlfriends but it always seems that I missed the big stuffs, the most juicy stuff of what a relationship could offer. I’m sure I’m lacking lots of quality to allow that and I want to improve Anyway I’m trying to share my mindset and resolve it at the same time but it’s hard as I myself is not clear about what my issue is : p
  13. I just mean, don’t be so focused on the words that come out of her mouth but more on what she shows by her acts. Yes if I were u I would just go with the flow of life for the moment. Is just seems that even if you managed to be back with her now. The situation would be a little bit toxic.
  14. She is a girl. She does not tell the truth, just the most appropriate thing to tell at the moment. You have to go meta when talking/listening to her. What do you want in your dating life ? Your actions have to be a reflection of your desires. If you have feelings for her what you should have done is make it clear that you wanted her back after the sex 4weeks ago but now it’s a little bit late and honestly, yes this situation is not cool for the other guy if he’s clean. Anyway if I were you(but I can’t really tell cause I have no feelings for her of course..) I would let her go, unfollow her on insta and move on.
  15. You say you regret never starting your old dreams, but you are not very passionate about them anymore. To me there seems to be a contradiction. right now, do you really regret or do you feel not passionate ?
  16. When I say « real mathematics » what I mean is the good way of doing math to me. The effective way. The productive way. The way of doing math where you are actually doing real work rather than just superficially jumping hoops when everything deep has already been prepared for you. It would requires to come back to the very basis of maths. Having a very good theoretical foundation and then building your reasoning on a solid ground where you actually understand everything that’s happening. Understanding the demonstration of the theorems and tools you are using is very useful. You can spend days on that while your classmates will laugh at you saying that they just use the theorem and it is working and that you are just wasting time. The problem though is that when confronted with an exercise that requires you to visualise with precision. They ll be completely lost whereas people who did the real work will have a chance to see and solve the problem. But in most universities you’ll never have or very rarely have such exercices. It’s like maths is finding you way in the Amazon forest and maths taught in school are more likely to be a fake artificial forest where every interesting skills that are requires in the amazon forest are no longer useful and now you just need to learn that when you see this you should turn left and when you see that you should jump… (ps: I might be a little hard though. maybe in the top top universities, something close to the real work can be done)
  17. If you have Intelligence, you have great capacity for abstraction. If you have great capacity for abstraction you’ll have a lot of potential for Mathematics (but real mathematics not as mostly taught in universities.) to me real mathematics is more of visualisation exercices than anything else. It requires a strong mind to visualise everything that can happen within the realm of mathematics. The sad thing though is that in most universities of mathematics, all they do is make you learn patterns, giving you tools to use mechanically. You can have a mathematic degree and never have done real mathematics, in France at least.
  18. One day, you’ll enter the kingdom of Heaven. That is for sure. The only question is how will you enter it and how long will it take, well that, you chose, that’s the beauty and the Love of God for All Beings. You are writing the script. Will it happen in this lifetime ? Or in a hundred lives ? I do not know. Will it happen by going back in space and time or in a dimension I can not imagine ? I do not know. What I know for sure is that when you enter Heaven, there will be nothing of you left.
  19. You are not alone. Oneness is a lie. Duality exists. Anytime you see another, it is an entity completely separated from you. breaking loopy miracle stranger Thin(k/g)
  20. https://youtu.be/U3UZgGKtTSg yes every One will Die
  21. Keep see king. There is Always a day. You are multidimensionnel. Healing can happens in so many ways. True Effortless Tries means you do not stop until you are healed (or no)