thierry

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  1. Of course it is better to be that guy who gets a lot of girls, I am not talking about beliefs here, I am talking very practically. I am just saying practically getting a lot of girls whilst for example not lying at all( and she will ask you questions before sleeping with you in most cases..) not allowing yourself to fuck drunk girls, not using your social advantages (not fucking your secretary, not fucking who you are leading as a manager for example..) not using any kind of manipulation tricks. It just naturally erases a lot of options. Could a guy still have lots of girls. Yes I’m not saying I personally have more honor and integrity than anyone. I’m just saying this as what seems to be true about how it really works.
  2. Okay so let’s put the context. I am a 27yo Man and have a very fragile psychology I would say at that time, and have an opportunity with a 17 old virgin girl. And I am opening myself up to the idea of transforming this opportunity eventhough I can feel there is something wrong. So this is the story: I met this girl 2years ago. I was 25 she was 15 in the summer. I was working as a beach volley ball trainer for the summer and she was one of the female player. at the time I was completely suicidal and going through life hopeless but this summer job giving me some responsibility eventhough I was very very tied made me feel a little better. anyway I do not remember how it happened in details but everyone liked me as a trainer. And particularly this girl. She ad me on Instagram. She basically once told me she was going to be late on insta but we kept talking. at the time, it was obvious I was not gonna do anything about her. I am a 25years old adult and she is a child. but anyway, I am very friendly towards all the childs that trains and I liked her so I was gonna befriend her eventhough even at the time, it was obvious she had an eye for me. anyway, then I came back to my life after summer and the darkness which was lighten by this summer job came back as well. I thought I was gonna spend another year in darkness except eventhough I thought she would give up on me. This girl kept sending me messages on insta or text, I was just replying at the beginning but as time spent I have to say, it felt really good having her in my dark time. I told her things like « you’re really a friend I can count on, I appreciate that » and she would reply « yes you’ll always be able to count on me » so I was glad eventhough she was very young I had a friend showering me with girly Love energy every day. the thing is eventhough I would thought she was gonna be my friend and would find a boyfriend which would makes her detach from me one day or another. It has been now 2years and we still talk and she did not have any boyfriend during this 2 years. during this two years I can say I developed a genuine care and respect for her. I really appreciate her. It feels really good to have her energy around me. I can really feel I can count on her. anyway now comes the problem situation. Last week end, I spent my week end where I train volley ball (2hours from my home) which is where she lives. I told her and of course we saw each other the day as usual as friend, except this time, she invited me the night in her jacuzzi, I told her yes and it would be even better if we went in the cold sea at night just before the jacuzzi, so that’s what we did. it was cool and in the jacuzzi we spent like an hour in silence, and then I’m looking at her. She’s in complete silence looking in front of her and saying to myself I want to hold her hand. So I’m hesitating for like 30 minutes and then take her hand and start playing with it. Then she comes right beside me and put her head on my chest, I start cuddling her in the jacuzzi for like 30minutes then it is 2am and I feel tied and tell her I need to go, she tells me I can stay sleep in her hut with her as her parents will get up very early in the morning and won’t notice. By the way her parents accepted that I would go for a jacuzzi with her. They know me and trust me. but for them I would go home after the jacuzzi. anyway so we went in the hut and « sleep » except of course we cuddled for two +hours. Her breathing was accelerating as I was cuddling her. I restrained myself not to go in sexual territory telling myself I should at least think through it. anyway I’m home and her text are more than never gf types of text, and of course I enjoy it. I won’t lie I’m going with the flow myself. Now I do not know what to do. It is the moment to say yes or no I feel. I also have to say I have a very good reputation in the town she lives and as a volley ball trainer so I would not want to tarnish that. What are your opinions about this ? Is that wrong ? What do you think I should do about that ?
  3. Always nice to hear, wish you the best ! Bravo
  4. Yes but in practice, even if you are a charismatic sexually appealing guy that makes women wet, you won’t get a lot of sex if you want to maintain your integrity and honor.
  5. Isn’t it just a limiting belief of yours that a guy can’t evolve in a functional way whilst not having sex ?
  6. I would be so curious to see Ralston opening a girl
  7. Peter Ralston. The guy is on the hero’s journey since he was a child.
  8. yes, don’t overthink it, nothing happened ^^ you are making a big situation out of nothing really. act friendly as nothing happened if you want or joke about the fact that she did not add you back on insta, just go with the flow. Shut your mind and be relax.
  9. For starting a conversation that’s really an issue of practice. The more you practice the best you will be at starting a conversation about anything. I myself am not the best at it. I was way better when I was younger. I spent so much time alone it has become unnatural for me too but as I practice I can feel my social skills coming back.
  10. Yes talk to everybody in a friendly playful manner. You do not have to explicitely hit on women. You’ll naturally talk friendly to everybody, you can talk to women the same way you talk to men and maybe some naturally will like you. For example if you were right here about this girl you are talking about and she had an eye for you. The only thing you needed to start a sparkle was a friendly funny interaction and then that was done for having a first real date. You could have ask for her insta and ask her out.
  11. @evgn and yes of course nothing in what you said tells me that she’s done with you. You can still talk to her. (but yes that’s a little bit weird she did not add you back if she sees who you are)
  12. The insta profile is not the issue at all. She saw you irl. yes maybe she’s not that interested. Maybe she was a little interested and you could have create a better irl interaction with her which could have confort her interest but I don’t know 🤷‍♂️
  13. Yes I know I had this fantasy when I started this work. That’s why I’m asking the question. I just now want to know what is really real. personally I have experience where the closer I was to God the hornier I was
  14. @evgn if one thing is sure is that you did not mess up cause your insta profile is not that good. maybe not the more confident way to add her on insta just after saying « hi » when you had the opportunity to talk to her more directly.
  15. Yes I know. thanks guys for all replys, that’s really appreciated.
  16. Yes he does not care, yet, you are able to see a video of him with thousands of people around him to see his tricks but of course he just does not care !
  17. Okay I’m gonna play your game. If the guy is really materializing from nothing. Why does he wear this big dress with big handles which can be used for cheating. Why doesn’t he show his hand before and after with a simple T shirt? it is just obvious, if this guy really has the ability to materialize stuff, why doesn’t he make it obvious that he’s not cheating ? If I had real power the first thing would to make it obvious that I can’t cheat. The only reason he does not make it obvious that he’s not cheating is because he is cheating !! There is NO other explanation. tadaaaaa
  18. No one has this ability, if anyone had this ability he would be more famous than Drake 1 day after he would be conscious of his power.
  19. Guys are you serious ? You really believe in those bulls ? makes me question myself on how much I should trust you on the forum.. I mean it is just common sense, if he’s able to do materialization, why would he have to do this things with his hands ? Like really why ? Why this big handles ? why all this preparation ? Why all this sketch? Like really why the hell materialization would need the guy to move his hands like he’s some kind of magician ? Like really ? You really think as he’s moving his hands, something is appearing from thin air in his hands ?
  20. It is actually very simple: -can you separate reality from the mind? -No
  21. @meta_male I feel you very much on that one. Lots of people do not have an idea of what it is like to be torn up by rage from the inside. from my experience what helps is : -sport of course(any kind of sport, make sure you surpass yourself. The more you surpass yourself the calmer you are after :p) -cold shower -any kind of feminine energy (the most would be to have a classy loving girlfriend stroking your hair(or your head)) but I find that even just a real female friend is very helpful. -some medicine/nootropic: L Theanine, gingcko, and yes I found recently L tryptophan which works amazingly well on me and you can find other molecules(gaba …, do your research there really is a possibility for a crutch here) -and of course meditation yoga, all the spiritual classics can help.
  22. If you are about meditation, I would say Eckhart Tolle is the best. The guy just devoted his whole life to « presence » I find Eckhart Tolle to be the best for me to relax and really connect to the present moment.
  23. Here is to me after all the personal development work and reflection the best advice. this guy is a 29 old who struggles with life, especially with dating, I find his talks to be pretty inspiring as he keeps fighting every day for a better life and shows great vulnerability in his talks. In the end you really are very limited and all you can do is keep showing up and fighting every day. That’s all, everything else is mental masturbation. as even Leo is realizing, genetics play a very important role and there is no magic pill to transform completely. The secret to happiness to me is to be sure you are doing the best you can by showing up everyday to do the most as you can every day, that’s all you can do, that’s all you should do (Ps: notice the pure class of this sunglasses 😎 he is the real sigma to me, not even joking)