Razard86

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  1. Jada explains how living the dream couldn't shield her from depression. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hcNykC7OBfg&ab_channel=People
  2. This man is a Dr. of Psychology and doesn't even understand how humans work. He said humans don't want jobs. What he doesn't seem to understand is that every human wants to create something. Sure nobody wants to get a job working for someone creating what they want if it doesn't align with what you want to do, but everyone would love to have a "job" that allowed them to create what they want and get paid for it. Now some would use the term career, or business when they describe doing what you love on your own terms and use the term job as something you do just to make ends meet. Sure you can do that, but technically speaking a business can still be classified as a job, and so can a career, depends on how you want to use the term. As a kid you played, play is creation, play is self-expression. This man with all of his academic learning doesn't know the truth of who he is, and thus will have an incomplete understanding of what is really going on. You can watch the video here. This is just an example of the limitations of scholastic knowledge, eventually you will have to leave the confines of those limitations to increase your own understanding. Also notice how he uses an economic model and tries to force that model on relationships. He said relationships are the medium through which value is extracted. Sure you can use that model but then you would have to define value. In his model the limitations would be based on what is good for my survival. But this model fails to uphold in say a parent-child relationship, because initially the child gets all the value based on his model. He is right on this point though..."Most people don't want a relationship they want what a relationship can give them." But I would turn that around on him and say....who taught them that? The current adults are a reflection of their parents and what they taught them. Every generation is a reflection of the prior generation. So if you think the current generation is more selfish than you, ask yourself why did you raise them to be selfish? What he doesn't realize is relationships are not on the decline because their needs are being met elsewhere, relationships are on the decline because humans have to be RAISED and TAUGHT HOW TO SOCIALIZE!!! We do not do a satisfactory job on raising children on how to socialize because we focus on two things to our detriment. MONEY and ENTERTAINMENT! We also do not customize our education system to help each child reach their true creative potential. We have turned the school systems into some factory that just churns out robots. We do not emphasize critical thinking in the way we create our tests or in the way we teach. Anyway that's a whole different topic. Basically in short we do not emphasize self-honesty, acceptance of differences, selflessness, we push this onto the churches and religions not realizing that the school system is the biggest proponent outside of parents in what value systems the children grow up with. Religion has lost its hold on creating and promoting cooperative value systems so what gets replaced are values in favor of competition over cooperation. When ever you ask the question....how did we get here? The answer is EASY....the parents.....and the school system!!! I'm not blaming them as devils, I am saying they are the foundation of society!!! The foundation of society is not the government, the foundation is the parents and the school system and to a lesser degree the churches.
  3. Everyone is inching towards God Realization. You can watch this video and watch Dr. Peterson inching. He's getting closer and closer....can he overcome his attachments to realize the Absolute? Who knows....find out next time on....this present moment!!
  4. Psychology IS Spirituality. You are the only one making that distinction. Also I never said he was wrong. Everyone is right from there point of view, but there are levels to truth within the realm of the relative. When you take a test you can get a 60. A 60 is an F but it is 60% true. The key to knowledge is to get as much of that % as you can. The problem is...there are an infinite number of ways to look at something and as a human you are limited by language in your ability to communicate that understanding, you are limited to the comprehension ability and mood, and assumptions of the person you are communicating too, you are limited to your human perspective and you are limited by any unconscious biases you have as well. Also with that said.....you are not going to beat the argument that the Republican Party elected a candidate for President who told citizens to inject themselves with BLEACH to combat the corona virus. Good luck beating that example....that was the greatest symbol of America's ignorance and stupidity. I wasn't even surprised Trump said that, I was surprised everyone in that room played it off like it wasn't a problem. America needs to take a page out of England's book and institute this. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confidence_motions_in_the_United_Kingdom#:~:text=A no-confidence vote was,successful motions are even rarer.
  5. First you need to read this and develop a deep understanding of what this is communicating. https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/92858-understanding-ego/ After that then understand there is a famous phrase....everyone is your mirror. What is this saying? This is pointing to the fact that everyone is YOU. Now the reason it is so hard to deal with people who are different than you is because you are selfish. Selfish just means you are attached to a way of being, of self-expression. That is why the more similar two people think the closer they are to each other. But this presents a problem....the problem is that you are GOD!!! But your ego wants the world to be YOU! So if everyone thinks and acts like you....then you will be all ALONE. So the world MUST have a variety of people so you don't feel alone....but this also creates a problem. Because when you are stuck in your own perspective (asleep) it will be impossible for you to accept people who act different. As a result if someone wanted to befriend you, all they have to do is act like you...and only be different in small ways. When this person does this you will fall in love with this person....but that is only because you are really falling in love with yourself!!! Since you define yourself as a human and you love yourself as a human anybody that acts almost identical will be your BEST FRIEND FOREVER!!! LOL. But the problem is...eventually that will get boring...because it's like you are talking to yourself in the bathroom mirror. So eventually you will seek to find other people who are little more different than your friend, just to get some new experiences. But this other people will piss you off and confuse you because from your perspective it doesn't make sense!!! So this is the game God is playing with itself, seeking those that are the same, while trying to grow their ability to connect with those that express themselves differently. All conflict comes from differentiation, but all creativity and originality comes from differentiation as well. The more selfish you are the more you enjoy an echo chamber and the less selfish you are the more you are okay with criticism, conflict, and different self-expression.
  6. https://www.osho.com/osho-online-library/osho-talks/j.-krishnamurti-ramana-maharshi-nothingness-bf780583-7c9?p=a8beb803805c780733aad57402ce1a5a
  7. From a certain perspective this is true, but from another one it isn't true. He's actually dangerously close. If he ever got humbled and you put him in a room with a Yogi or Spiritual Master and he was open....he'd be even closer than some Spiritual Seekers who have been meditating for years. He has done a lot of shadow work already, if he could only drop his attachment to his human persona which is asking a lot because he has heavily invested in his human persona. I've come to appreciate the difficulty of people who have invested into their human persona on a certain level. It's hard to let go of your professional accomplishments and world wide fame to awaken. Those attachments run deep.
  8. Exactly. But if you pursue the spiritual path, its going to dive into everything anyway if your purpose is to remove bias then you will include more and more. For example I am not an expert on physics so until I investigate physics I have a physics bias or ignorance of physics. So as a result I know that limits my ability to look at reality from that model, but the interesting thing is it also frees me up of being stuck in that model as well.
  9. Thanks man I appreciate your feedback and thanks for educating me on something I didn't know I really appreciate this!
  10. Yep its why he took it down. LOL. People here its a dream they say Oh I get it...and it's like no you don't. Close your eyes....imagine an apple, that apple you just imagined is EQUAL to the apple you eat in the store.....once you become conscious of that....you got it. LOL. I got people fighting me on this and it's like....you had no problem when I said it was a dream. But when I use an example that points to the dream now you got a problem. Here is the funny thing. If you do anything that changes your baseline and open your mind to the possibility that it is a dream....the dream will reveal itself to you as a dream. I thought it was hard to awaken and found out it was easy. The only HARD PART, is dealing with all the existential fear etc... but if you tell me I'm freaking God and immortal and everything lines up...then why the hell should I care about the existential fear? Sure its uncomfortable...but that fear can't actually harm you. Anyway....when God wants to awaken they will. I just call out the parts of God that claim they want too but don't actually want too. I hope they don't waste years running around in a circle cause majority of spiritual seekers won't awaken...cause they don't want to.
  11. Sometimes its fun to fight yourself. When you play a fighting game you are only fighting yourself. When you arm wrestle someone you are arm wrestling yourself.
  12. Lol all of humanity is in some shape or form its called the human body has needs.
  13. You seem fine to me, but I'm only getting information in the form of words on a screen. But so far if anything you come across as very mature.
  14. You can ground that state and make sense of it if you play around with paradox, the only issue is you'll be in a constant high energy state and that can become taxing on your system. But yeah weed definitely opens up your ability to see things from multiple perspectives.
  15. I know you might think I'm being hard on you, but I'm this aggressive because you are currently in a victim mentality. You are thinking that something outside of you is preventing you from living from a non-dual state and you are also blocking something that can assist you by demonizing drug highs. I've already reported before that when I took an edible I maintained that high for about a month. So I proved in my own direct experience than the so called wearing off of highs is actually a subconscious desire of yours. Even further I was able to consciously bring down the high to a more manageable level and proved in my direct experience that anytime a drug high wears off it is because we are willfully bringing it down. Now it is harder and takes more time to raise your awareness through meditation than taking a conscious altering substance. This is the only reason I am being aggressive. You can supercharge your ability to work with high states of consciousness and normalize it (get used to it) by focusing on making it feel normal. This is why I said don't trip for good feelings. Trip to feel deep uncomfortable emotions, this will raise your ability to detect prescence which is usually masked underneath heavy emotions. This raises your baseline, and then focus on meditating, stillness so it can work on your body and clear distortions, and then focus on stripping away conditioning so you can become aware more easily of HOW you are fooling yourself, with consistent effort towards this you WILL awaken. Guaranteed. Don't ever let any belief stay that you cannot awaken. You can and you will if an authentic desire is there. People like to say there is no process, this is a LIE. Anyone that tells you that is LYING. Now sometimes they tell you that to trick your ego, which is a technique that can work but I saw through it. The process is getting the ego to surrender control which is the whole point of all the practices. In truth awakening is always happening its just the ego blocks the awareness of that process.
  16. You are always in a non dual state, you just are not aware of it. The purpose of drugs is to create contrast from your normal state that it so drastic that it wakes you up. But you are too close-minded and arrogant and judgmental of drugs. All states are non-dual. A high is just as much non-dual as a baseline. The difference is a drug can INCREASE awareness. The same way that fatigue can decrease your ability to be aware of what is going. Stop judging, and actually put forth effort towards your awakening. The only purpose of the forums is to help you gain clarity of how you may be creating more illusions. Those videos I linked are both good at stripping away the illusion. Even without drugs if you did that everyday you would eventually awaken. Drugs just make it easier because your consciousness is fluid enough for you to become aware of what is happening.
  17. Not as hard as you think. 1. Jailbreak your mind. You do this by altering your consciousness. Unless you are a seasoned meditator you may need to use some chemical substance to do this. You need a radical enough state change from your current state change. This state change must be enough to put you in a fluid state of consciousness. 2. Under this state change you need to strip yourself of all your beliefs associated with a YOU. When you do it in this state, the ability for those attachments to hold will loosen. If you can do this in a believable enough way you can escape the confines of your egoic structural experience of reality and your sense of self will burst through the seams and expand outward. This is now when you can feel the connection with all that is. If you want example on how to strip yourself of your beliefs watch this: 3. Then all you have to do is authentically desire for this state to be your baseline and it will be done. ^^^Recognize that all this was accomplished by the Universe and your ego will want to take credit for it. All the ego's job is to allow. The only one who stops you from living from the baseline is YOU. And when I say YOU I mean the Universal Self is not going to give you permanent non-dual state unless that is what you truly desire. Oh and if you do it correctly EXISTENTIAL FEAR WILL ARISE, and YOU WILL FEEL LIKE YOU ARE LOSING YOUR MIND AND THIS IS ALL PERFECTLY NORMAL. It you are not prepared to lose your mind....then you never wanted it to begin with. It just means you have conditions on your desire for truth....and this is the path of surrender of all conditions, to connect with that love that is unconditional.
  18. Your brain is the vehicle that Infinite Consciousness uses to give you insights. At deep states of consciousness you can be given certain profound mathematical equations, but if you have not developed your human brain to be a mathematician for example you will be able to experience it but you won't be able to make sense of it. Your ability to make sense of your deep metaphysical experiences and bring them back to baseline is based on how developed your brain is. So the purpose of working on your intelligence and learning new things is because it increases your ability to translate your experiences into a medium through which you can receive and transmute this information. So think of the magnificent things you can discover through deep metaphysical explorations of consciousness and how you could contribute deep wisdom and knowledge into the nature of reality. There are so many secrets and esoteric practices that were lost and now can be rediscovered. Don't seek to parrot the stuff you hear, seek to contribute something. You CAN access the collective human consciousness on Earth and beyond and bring things out. Don't underestimate the character you are playing, they are capable of unique things.
  19. Enlightenment is not the end of the journey its the start. Infinite Consciousness wants to share all of itself with itself. What else you think we are doing? The point is itself. Now you don't have to do what I am saying, but the point I am making is I realized that some awakenings couldn't be translated because of a lack of development in a certain area. I wasn't the only one either. There is a researcher who did deep trips on LSD for years and admitted some awakenings he couldn't bring down because he didn't have an area of expertise in that area. That's when I realized I was onto something. Psychedelics and other conscious altering agents can expand your ability to access Consciousness and expose you to different perspectives, and with enough development you can bring it down. So you can be able to make new types of paintings, music, poetry, books, and other forms of expression. So yeah to me the point of Enlightenment is to reflect your uniqueness onto the world. Yes this is true. But this one will be scary for many people.
  20. Rather than concluding, explore and discover.
  21. ^^^This is all normal. It will pass after some recontextualization passes. This lets me know you are definitely doing the work but if you go further you will discover it is the most amazing thing ever. I mean...ITS YOU...there is ONLY YOU. Why wouldn't you love that it is YOU? After you grieve the death of individuality realize all you did is kill the small individuality and expanded it. Instead of YOU being a human, YOU has become everything there could ever be. So you just expanded yourself is all. Nothing to worry about. Hopefully you can get to the point that it changes you on a biological level...it'll make sex even better.....just a little treat you discover....
  22. Can we collectively start bringing some unique new threads? You know how many threads we got like this? Hell you know how many Youtube videos with titles like this? Come on Universal Consciousness is capable of showcasing more than this. Really seek to challenge yourself to experience something even deeper.
  23. Awareness expands all the time. Its infinite it has no limits so yes it can expand and contract through construction of an appearance. Through appearance awareness can become more aware or less aware of the appearance and the appearance is awareness and is how awareness experiences what it is.