Razard86

Morality and Ethics is not truth. Truth WILL tell you how to act. Truth is the only thing that brings clarity. Everything else is delusion.

Your past is just a story. A backstory if you will. Don't believe it? We call the past his-story/her-story. This means it is just a perspective, but it a perspective that builds your current identity. Want to change your identity? Then change the story. You can see past events through whatever lens you desire. You are more mature now in the present than you were in the past, so rewrite the past from this present point of maturity. Try it, you will be surprised at the results!! The past is the story, and the future is the prediction of future story, only the PRESENT exists!! It is a gift, that's why we call it a present. But when you break it up further it also says PRE- SENT. This means it exists before it is sent. Contemplate on what that means or look up reality creation to understand why reality is PRE- SENT

While I agree with everything in this post....its too rational. When you deal with people attached to emotion...rationality rarely works. The main cause of depression is self-denial and self-hate. The self-esteem (respect for self) has reached zero. Suicidal people are the most dangerous people around because if you have no respect for your own life, then you have no respect for any other life. Not saying you will harm others if you are suicidal, but you won't really care if you do. The interesting thing about suicidal thoughts and feelings is like anything else it is a STATE. There are many people who have attempted suicide and survived who regretted it, were glad they survived, and are living happy productive lives. It is just a momentary state through which people take action. Suicide is a result of delusion, but like all delusions it feels real and thus logic alone won't snap them out. You first have to reach them emotionally, before logic will make sense to them.

You can recognize this in your experience. If I injected you with a pain killer that made your whole body feel numb. No matter how much grinding and thrusting you did in sex you wouldn't really feel anything. What reality really is...would scare you. You are just operating with images in your mind in 3 dimensional space and every time you "touch" them you create the sensation. So if you lose all sensation of touch....you cannot FEEL anything in sex. So it was never the person who was giving you the pleasure...it was YOU!!!! This is why when people have strong emotional attachments for someone sex FEELS better and they attribute it to the person. Again its not the person it was YOU!!! This is a NON-SPIRITUAL explanation I just gave you. You are creator of EVERY SINGLE EXPERIENCE YOU HAVE EVER HAD. You ONLY EXPERIENCE YOURSELF.

I loved these response!!! I needed a good laugh. Keep them coming!!!

Well it is....some people take a vow of solitude. Its just not a feasible ask for majority of people.

Oh ok then disregard my comment.

While I agree with everything you said, understand that many people are low consciousness and may not be at the stage yet to do this. But you are absolutely correct in how important communication is and how important honesty is. Everything you said was true and ideal, the issue is are the people involved mature enough to handle it. The truth is the most dangerous and powerful thing.

I disagree with you on ONE point. You said OFTEN, the truth is if you operate from fear....IT ALWAYS MANIFESTS!!!

This is where I disagree with you Leo. Awakening is just a identity shifting until you get to no identity or infinity. What I have realized is the path to awakening itself is infinite. There is no ONE path. So yeah you can pretty much awaken through self-inquiry if it is rigorous enough. All awakening is seeing what is there and not projection. Emptying of the impressions that you have gathered until you return to source. Its just the psychedelics are a faster choice. Its like would you rather walk to your destination or are you going to fly there?

So much wisdom in your statement. Healers seek to heal because they want to alleviate their suffering by alleviating suffering of others.

One of the best ways to look at it is through the multiple personality disorder or dissociative personality disorder. We are basically Universal mind with dissociative personalities. Since we are not "aware" that we are just different partitions of the same mind, we experience each other as separate at lower consciousness. The Budha was rejected, Jesus was rejected, I could go on and on..... you being rejected does not mean that something is wrong. The failure of ALL RELATIONSHIPS comes from what you posted in your title. Breaking up with YOU. So in one sense you are right, you have broken up with yourself so you will break up with her. But even if you had completely loved and accepted all your parts, if she has not done the same....the break up will still happen. This is why they say the greatest test for spiritual growth is intimate relationships because BOTH individuals have to learn to accept themselves FIRST before they can truly accept their partner. If they can learn to accept each other unconditionally then they will both truly become "ONE." But these types of relationships are VERY rare.

I see truth in both of your perspectives. I don't even see anything conflicting each other

Very Insightful. Thanks for this post

Beautiful Post

This is a lot to unpack. I'm at work right now but I will try to address each point you make when I get off. But for a preview of what I will say the theme will be this....don't be so HARD on yourself. You are fine RIGHT NOW as you are. You were born into this world happy, and curious. As you went through life people who were weary, sad, angry, and frustrated with life filled your mind with thoughts, emotions, and beliefs and as a result you took on their burdens as your own. These things have weighed on you and are responsible for why you feel the way you are and why you are the way you are. Your frustration is not what you think it is, it isn't to fix your situations, its to return to your core essence before you took on those burdens that others placed upon you. We all understand this intuitively as it is often phrased as "finding myself." The term life I believe is an ANAGRAM for L (Look) I (Inside) F (For )E (Explanation). Do not worry how you feel has been shared by EVERYONE. It is often termed imposter syndrome as not feeling authentic. I will share more when I get some more time. But you are at this moment exactly who you need to be, and have something to offer that nobody else can offer which is your unique perspective. You are amazingly unique, and all that has happened is you have lost track of this. I will share more of this when I have time. Thanks for sharing!!!

Everything is a construction on the meta level. All of creation is a construction. So how far do people want to play with this? The real reason that the TransAthletes are doing this is a result for a desire for acceptance, a desire to be loved. They cannot solve that issue the way they are going about it. You cannot FORCE acceptance, you cannot force integration, you cannot force love. You can be loving and through being loving acceptance comes. But I understand the desire to not be seen as dangerous, or different, or weird, or to be rejected. But once you accept all those things in yourself the desire to force that acceptance into the outside world becomes of little consequence. Nothing wrong with pushing for changes, but I have noticed that the people who want these changes start to use the same tactics as those who disagree with them. They label them as having phobias, or toxic, etc... not realizing they are just playing the same game as the majority. These does not lead to integration. You cannot force people or shame, or guilt them into aligning with your perspective. If you read history....it is literally a book that teaches this.

Yeah notice how usually just dances around this topic instead of actually speaking on this. Also I would love for Leo and Sadhguru to have a conversation. Maybe Leo can bring up psychedelics to him and how they can be used.

Your true nature, is an infinite void. Out of this infinite void you are imagining (that is how creation is done) your body, and the every thing in your imagination. This is what Leo refers to as "God." God isn't how any religion describes it as any description is a symbol and God's true nature is infinite and undefined. As a result of not having an identity, you can take on ANY identity. Everything that exists in reality is YOU, has always been YOU and will ALWAYS be YOU. I am YOU and YOU are me. YOU are alone, YOU alone exist and I am not talking about your human self, I am talking about NO-THING within you that you can connect with if you calm your thoughts, and emotion. If you release your attachment to your beliefs, thoughts, and emotion you will discover that you are NO-THING. This video can help you discover it. https://youtu.be/Oq4NDMNDzSs

The funny thing is this isn't even debate worthy. We have distinctions between weight classes in sports, should we get rid of those too? We have distinctions between the Para Olympics and Regular Olympics I guess we can get rid of that too as well. If people cannot understand why these distinctions exist....I don't know what to tell them. We understand that some people have biological advantages already but to deny the advantages people have in weight classes, and now between transwomen and cisgendered women. What's worse every medical professional that has run tests say there is going to be an advantage. There are even Transathletes who do not agree that it is fair. Look the distinctions are there to level the playing field, if you include transathletes well....truly who knows what will happen. I guess ciswoman will have to start doing testosterone hormone trials from their youth like the West Germans of old.

Toxic vibes? So now we point to insults when you cannot even defend your position. Its funny how people who claim to want equality and justice are the first to insult others. The irony is the projection is strong in you. But continue to claim people who do not agree with your perspective as toxic. Makes perfect sense. And an orbital fracture is in the skull and is only considered in the face because it is a little further away. Funny how you want to argue with me on the distinction between a orbital fracture and a skull fracture, but think the distinction between a ciswoman and a transwoman isn't up for debate. Anybody who disagrees gives off toxic vibes. LOL this is too much. You reveal too much. way too much.

Lol he always was. You just figured out? Self-Actualizing is a broad category that fits into all aspects of life. He is basically a Reality Coach. Meaning he will go as low conscious or high conscious as he deems fit.

Sigh you are just playing word games. Its not about typing in random results. But since you are claiming to have a point. Make your point. 1. How much of an advantage do men have over women in sports? How much of that advantage can be reduce by training? 2. How much distance is there between the strongest man in the world and the strongest woman in the world. What about the fastest? How much does hormones play? How much does the anatomy of a man and woman influence these differences? If you do not know the answers to these questions then you do not have any credibility and are just talking from a place of ignorance. You are welcome to do that. But as a guy who studied exercise science and physical education and competed with against men and women in practice on my cross country and track team I know from BOTH research and personal experience how wide the gap is. I can EASILY give you examples. Here is one. There was a transgender fighter who fought in a martial arts tournament and CRACKED the skull of a female fighter WITH A PUNCH!!! There is a reason that happened and its a reason you choose to willfully ignore. https://thebridgehead.ca/2021/11/02/a-transgender-fighter-cracked-his-female-opponents-skull-how-long-will-this-insanity-continue/

My friend....you are playing word games. Death IS THE UNKNOWN. You literally just said it in your response. You said: "Essentially Why Would you fear Death? Personally, the only reason I fear death is because I don't know what's next." Exactly and that is why you fear death. You will not understand this until your existence is TRULY in peril. Pain is just the appetizer facing your demise is the MAIN COURSE.

I will give you a simple rule to understand....we are only attracted by what we desire. You desire to watch violence. Maybe because it interests you, maybe you are curious. The problem is you have been taught morality and so you are struggling with this desire and you think its bad. Its not bad by the way......ANYWAY until you are able to ACCEPT that VIOLENCE INTERESTS YOU, you will continue to live in denial. Part of the life's purpose is to learn to accept ALL of reality even the things you have been taught are wrong or evil. EVIL DOES NOT EXIST!!! Until you can truly see this...you will struggle with yourself and reality.