Razard86

The question you should ask yourself, is why does it not matter? If every human followed that advice Jesus gave....what kind of world would be here right now? Also if it doesn't matter....tell us...what matters.

Virtual= Visual, Reality= All that is. = It's literally a virtual reality. A dream is a virtual reality. Its a visual appearance that is reality. It's simple, you are closing your mind that is why you cannot understand it. Ask yourself why you are closing your mind to something so obvious. Maybe just maybe because you do not want to awaken? Maybe just maybe if you opened your mind to reality being a virtual reality *wink wink*.....you would actually wake up? Food for thought.

Even though you are correct....he is asking on how to meet people. If he asked how to meet enlightened women you gonna tell him they are imaginary? 1. Listen up, I've said this before and I am going to say it again. Can you guys really try to understand the essence of what someone is asking? He isn't asking to awaken or complaining that he cannot get a woman and feels separate. Those type of questions are appropriate for your response. 2. He is just asking to meet up with people. That doesn't need a "they are imaginary" type of response. Besides...he could just turn it around on you out of spike (which I do lol) and say who are you even responding to then, because from your POV I am imaginary. So why are you telling an imaginary character that the enlightened people he wants to meet is imaginary. Not trying to be a dick or something, just try to be a little more empathetic to what someone is asking. I'm not perfect in this regard either but this one was a softball guys.

You cannot drop attachment in duality. To drop attachment is to not exist in duality. Duality is attachment. You are literally attached to a perspective. If you became completely detached you would die. The absolute does not know survival because it does not have a self. Knowledge only exists in duality. And absolute self knowledge only exists if you fully awaken. What you obtain is indifference. You want something but you don't care if you get it. This requires emotional mastery. Enlightenment does not hand you constant bliss for all eternity. What it hands you is increased self-awareness and constant wholeness. You feel complete and whole and enjoy solitude immensely. But there is a catch. You see through all the egos games. If you speak from an Enlightened perspective you will not be understood. Every ego is afraid of absolute truth. You will also become less motivated temporarily because everything will feel like a waste of time. This is normal because you were too used to doing things to reach goals. The final stage is to do activities just for the pure joy. You start to walk the path of appreciation. You can also start getting attached to trying to alleviate suffering but that will take years of practice because egos will blame you for their feelings and accuse you of being the source of their suffering. They will demonize you and call you a victim blamer, arrogant, a narcissist, and a gaslighter. You will need to cultivate a deep compassionate patience should you choose to engage in helping others who suffer. In short you discover that every ego is a perpetual victim with a superiority complex. The victimhood= the belief in bad, which comes from not feeling in control. The superiority= Comes from a desire for external validation and praise and a desire to be and do good. When an ego feels in control they feel good and powerful.

If the masculine and the feminine are one. Then they are interchangeable, this means you can argue that the feminine is order and the masculine is choas.Men fight wars, discriminate, and are competitive. This comes from a lack of feminine integration. So the chaos you see is because of duality. Both the masculine and feminine are chaotic and orderly. They are only chaotic when they are seperate. When unified they are orderly. But since I seperated them I needed a way to describe them. In truth there is only one, but we can only communicate through duality. I have already made a post in the past showing feminine order and masculine chaos. Feminine order is mindfulness, playfulness, and creativity. Feminine also cares more about survival for the safety of making a home raising a child. Masculine can be chaotic with their mind because it likes to brainstorm and create with their mind. You can go really deep with this because the relative is infinite and eventually overlapping will occur. I could do it....but you could literally write a million books on the overlapping of these two. You could even exclude the human expression of these concepts and only focus on nature. Like stated earlier I have already addressed what you brought up. Your critique wasn't wrong but you can literally critique anything from the relative for all of infinity. Reality is absolutely infinitely relative. This is why if you want the broad picture you use the absolute. If you want nuance you use relative. But nuance is always changing, it's slippery and cannot be pinned down.

Full Awakening does not absolve you from self-deception, it just allows you to catch it more easily. I just went on a run and was contemplating Oneness and my actions and discovered I was deluding myself and awakened to another frame. Oneness is calmness, tranquility. This means any deviation from that expression is a fear based expression and denial of Oneness. So my recent aggressive behavior and belittling comments were borne out of ignorance and for that I apologize. I discovered why I was doing that, remember every situation reveals where you are. I noticed that the thing I hate the most is when someone expresses a lack of accountability. It irks me, it irritates me and this is because my greatest fear is to not take accountability. Why? Because I have fully awakened my greatest fear is to fall back asleep. This is itself delusion because there is no difference between being fully awakened and fully asleep. Since I was afraid of a lack of accountability I aggressively attacked anyone who expressed that behavior. Now this is not to demonize aggression, because this too is pure delusion. Let me explain. To learn the art of fighting is to learn the art of aggression. One who has mastered the art of fighting has mastered aggression. If someone attacks a master, the master will effortlessly dodge and misdirect all attacks. The master will CALMLY face the aggression and make his opponent look clumsy and will make him appear that he is fighting himself. This is because every master in martial arts knows the only opponent is within. Master your fear of aggression by engaging in aggression. So when aggression arises in the form of a physical opponent you can remain calm. You will perfectly reflect your opponents aggression back onto himself and eventually he will realize he is just hurting himself. Because when you cannot hurt another, you are just hurting yourself. It's like punching a concrete brick. You cannot hurt the brick therefore you are only hurting yourself. So now I know the truth, anytime I express any emotion outside of calmness then I am deluded. This delusion is a result of a lack of mastery of self. Which is the same as saying ignorance. So here is how I will handle people from now on. When you reply to something I write I will ask you what response you would like me to give you. I can give you encouragement or I can give you deconstruction. The deconstruction can/will be painful so I will let you know this as well. Now I will still every now and then trick you into higher awareness just like LIFE does. But this will be in form of questions. I will guide you to higher awareness through questions. My question will constantly be....are you not creating a duality? You see to fully awaken you must dissolve all duality. So if I ask you if you are creating a duality and you say yes....then you are admitting to delusion. Notice how I was able to catch my delusion. Why? Because there is only security in life. Which is the same as saying there is only your power in life. Which is the same as saying THERE IS ONLY YOU. True strength also empowers others, I just gave you the ultimate trump card against me. If I deviate from a calm expression you can say I sense you are not coming from a place of calmness but insecurity. This can awaken me from my own self-delusion. This is why full transparency and vulnerability is strength.

Cool beans want me to encourage it, or guide you to the truth of what you are? Your choice.

You are correct that all of life seeks this, it's called comfort. When you feel comfort is when you feel the most powerful. If you can walk down the street and bullets are flying everywhere and you are not moved out of this feeling of comfort then you are in your power.

Hahaha yeah when insights come they come like a flood. I like to share my thoughts because I love to think. I only hope my thoughts can help those around me.

I love people like you who tear things down with no goal in mind. Hello feminine with no masculine integration. You tear things down for the pure enjoyment and you make no sense in the process. You say there is no duality while expressing duality because communication is duality. If there is no duality....then who are you talking too? To deny duality is to create another duality!!! There is both the unreal, and the real. You are so asleep it is hilarious!!

Here is the funny thing. After I wrote that, I discovered that David Goggins realized this. Watch this video it goes perfectly with what I wrote!

If you are unlimited strength you can never know what that strength is. Strength can only be realized through being weak. When you are weak and overcome your weakness you discover or realize or awaken to what strength is. This means strength is BORNE or originates from weakness. Since weakness gives birth to strength then weakness and strength are ONE. Unlimited strength is unknown strength which is to say the concept doesn't exist. This is why pain is a necessity. Why obstacles are necessary. This is why there is nothing bad about weakness. All limitation is weakness. Overcoming weakness by facing it, is what we call strength. Life is a constant movement between experiencing weakness and strength. All lives will know weakness and strength.

The School of Life is good for people who don't want to fully awaken but want to have some semblance of what is going on. The secret to life is every human is insane pretending to be sane. Everything you think is good is sane, and anything that doesn't make sense to you, you call insane. If life is a constant change then think about it? It means life is not really stable. This lack of stability is just an appearance but let's be real, you think the appearance is real. So embrace the fact then that life is an appearance of PURE INSANITY! Read this post about relationships! He does a good job of bringing this down to earth. https://www.youtube.com/post/UgkxtGxChgejis_ZQrXz7R0U_--25R_mu6YC

Look at this VR game. Understand as humans get better and better at VR, they will ultimately discover that what you call life is just a VR.

LOL. Well if a person is too scared to do it. Here is a good practice. After you get use to watching this, you can practice creating painful memories till you can build up tolerance to face painful stuff in life. Conjuring painful memories is just me saying CREATE A BAD TRIP on purpose. You can even tailor these memories to things you are insecure about. For example let's say you are insecure about your weight. Create a room where you walk in and everybody keeps telling you your fat and ugly. Feel the emotions that arise, and experience them fully. Make this a daily practice till you can walk in that memory and it cannot faze you. This is how you overcome pain, don't avoid it face it!!

This communication is going to be heavily dualistic. I'm communicating in this manner because I have noticed a strong resistance to TRUTH on this Spirituality Forum. As such I will adjust my message but I will issue one statement before I begin. The ultimate protection against any Gaslighting is to take any statement made and dissolving the duality. Why? Because Reality is an Infinite Gaslight Extravaganza. If you take any statement any put it up against Absolute Truth you can never fall victim to Gaslighting. But since Absolute Truth is what you are terrified of we will delve into the relative. 1. Memory: Gaslighting is heavily based on memory. If you struggle to remember things, or you have very selective memory then you can be vulnerable to Gaslighting. Gaslighters like to claim you did something or said something. If ANYONE does this to you DO NOT believe them EVER! I am serious. You might ask but what if I am wrong? You can only know your direct experience. Could you have merely forgotten? Sure it's possible as memory is not perfect, but you cannot just give away your authority to someone just because they say they are right. This means you need to observe yourself like a HAWK. The more you pay attention to what you say and do, the less you will have blanks in your memory of what you say or do. 2. If someone accuses you of making them do something mean to you, or someone belittles the harm they did to you then you are dealing with someone who is denying your experience. Now this doesn't mean it is malicious, because WE ALL are going to hurt each other this is an inevitable part of relationships. But if this person never apologizes or communicates that their intention is not to hurt you, or if this person hurts you in order to gain something from you then you might be dealing with a malicious person. Your feelings are your truth of how you are processing the present moment so your feelings are never wrong as to where you are developmentally. If you are scared you are scared, if you are sad you are sad, if someone trivializes your feelings you are being Gaslighted. Again this doesn't mean the person is malicious but it does mean that at that moment they are not comfortable with your emotional expression. 3. Boundaries: You need to have a minimum set of standards of what you call acceptable behavior. Do not arbitrarily set these standards up. You need to erect standards that you would hold yourself too, otherwise you will be hypocritical and lack integrity. In a sense we all are hypocrites, but its the frequency of hypocrisy that reveals if you should be dealing with someone. If the person you are dealing with constantly violate your boundaries without remorse and even blame and demonize you for their own boundary violating actions then you are being gaslighted. Bonus: Here is a really good one!!! You can have someone accuse you of gaslighting them when in actuality they are gaslighting you by accusing you of gaslighting!!! This is a high level tactic, and the person doing it again may not be aware they are doing this. Often people like this are in pain, probably deal with a lot of narcissists and as such see everything from the lenses of their hurt. This means they will project their pain onto you and interpret your communication as gaslighting! So how do you discover if you are actually gaslighting them in this situation. Well when a high level accusation is raised, a high level tactic needs to be implemented. The only way to discover if you are actually guilty of gaslighting someone ultimately is to realize that you are always gaslighting yourself at all times by believing that their are OTHERS. The ultimate defense between you unconsciously gaslighting others, is to stop viewing them as others and to start viewing them as YOU. To pull this off you need to watch Leo's Absolute Solipsism Video multiple times until you incorporate every point he made in that video about what is actually happening. If you don't even with the above tips I gave you will gaslight others and be gaslighted in response and it will all be done unconsciously. The only true protection ultimately from gaslighting is to raise your consciousness. Anything less than that is insufficient. Understanding self-deception and how it works is PARAMOUNT in defending yourself from gaslighting others or having it done to you. Sources that can help you. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Knowledge is power, knowledge of self is the ULTIMATE POWER!

You only abuse yourself. You can literally sit down right now and create bad memories on purpose and if you focus enough it will feel as real as what you call real life. Then for fun you can tell yourself it actually happened. Do this on purpose long enough and you awaken to the fact that only YOU can psychologically abuse yourself. Here is the funny thing. If you consciously gaslight yourself like this, you can actually awaken to absolute solipsism. It's very funny when you sit down and think about this. The fastest way to awaken is to consciously create bad memories and experience them. So basically sit down close your eyes and create nightmares on purpose. I recently have been doing this as an experiment and its crazy how real it feels. Current psychology is actually researching this and are finding out that the brain cannot tell the difference between the past and the present. This is why when someone thinks about a painful past it feels real, because it is being experienced as current experience not something that happened before. This is why talk therapy can aggravate the trauma because the person isn't ready to face the experience. So my solution? Traumatize yourself on purpose. When you exercise you actually harm the body. Well painful memories harm your mind. So to traumatize yourself on purpose is mental exercise. This builds up your ability to withstand ever more painful experiences.

The one you admire the most you put on a pedestal. You say I could never be as amazing as that! The one you hate the most you put on a pedestal and say I could never be as terrible as that! Hatred is fear. Hatred is resistance. Hatred is the belief that the thing you are experiencing is too negatively powerful and you cannot abide in its presence. That is the same as saying I cannot handle this, which is the same as saying this is greater than me. Saying it is greater than me is the same as putting it on a pedestal. So notice pedestalization is self-denial, you say that can't be me its too powerful. Notice both roads lead to the same conclusion. To debase someone as inferior, and to elevate someone to superior, leads to the same conclusion. Both are an elevation. This means people you hate you think are better than you. Those you admire you think are better than you. So any statement of value is self-debasement, and this is why people get anxious and are full of fear. This is why all value is illusion because all value is self-debasement. You can use value as a tool, but never forget it is the tool and YOU ARE THE MASTER.

YOU ARE EXISTENCE! All concepts are the identities you construct!! All constructions are deception. You create suffering and pain so you are not fooled for all eternity. The pain you create both binds you to the dream and both awakens you. But it is all based on how frame the pain. If you love pain consciously you awaken, if you love it unconsciously then it puts you to sleep. To hold onto painful memories is to say you love them because you only hold on to that which you love. So see how you fool yourself and delude yourself? You say I hate these memories, yet you hold onto them. This is why hate is love!! Because you claim you want to remove something yet you do not remove it!! This is delusion!! This means anytime you claim to not be in control you are deluded!! Full awareness is the realization that you are in full control. Control means to know what will happen at all times. You know you are in control of your hand because you cannot trick yourself on where your hand will move next. No matter what you do you cannot trick yourself into thinking your hand is an OTHER. So notice if you can be in control of your hand in your direct experience at all times, then not being in control IS THE ILLUSION! Once you discover this then you realize that if you are always in control, then that means you can create the ILLUSION of NOT being in control. Not being able to create that illusion would be a limitation of control and you have no limits! All duality is the ILLUSION of not being in control. How can you experience the future if it is always known? If the future is always known there is NO PROGRESSION! So you have to create the unknown, the illusion of not being in control which creates the future and allows you to progress. If you write a story right now and remember every line fully then there is no progression only observation of what is already known. This means for that story there is no future only observation of what is. This means you cannot experience anything new. So to live a life and experience newness, novelty, you need to convince yourself that you are not in control and make it believable and this is what you have done.

You are gaslighting again. The only gaslight is duality. If you question this then you are deluded. It's like playing a virtual reality game, and someone is trying to wake up that the the game is not real and can be turned off. They are trying to tell you that the virtual game you created is just an illusion. And you tell them that thinking that all conversations is gaslighting is a gaslight. Do you see how silly that is? Name me one time in a video game that you are playing that the conversation is not a gaslight? You cannot. Name me one time the conversations in a book you observed were real? They weren't!!! They are a delusion that you are enjoying!!!! What you reveal is you are too scared to admit that the same is true of your reality right now so you call it a gaslight!!! This is how you keep yourself from awakening!! You are afraid to admit that everything around you is gaslighting!! What you don't realize is a full awakening is the realization that EVERYTHING is GASLIGHTING!! Once you realize that, then you cannot suffer!! You can experience pain sure, but you know the pain IS A GASLIGHT!!! Until you realize this you will stay ASLEEP!!!

Your problem is how you frame. I keep telling you guys you need to stop this message that there is no me, only direct experience. Direct experience IS THE ME!!! To deny that Direct Experience is you is to say there is no direct experience. There is only direct experience for all eternity. So The YOU, THE ME, THE I AM is direct experience. Then you say the remains of the ego. STOP THIS. THE EGO IS DIRECT EXPERIENCE!!! It is a filter!!! Your ego is like looking through a telescope, or wearing clothes! You fell asleep and thought you were a telescope or clothes. So when you awaken that you are everything you may initially feel some fear but then ask yourself is this fear legit? NO!!! All feelings are constructed by you!!! You create them!! They come and they go!! This means you are always in control!!! When you say stuff like there is no me, there is only happening you remove control and thus the fear that emerges will always control you. 1. Fear has no power over you EVER. The only power FEAR has is what you give it because YOU ARE THE MASTER. 2. Stop saying there is no ME, OR I AM. This is creating duality. YOU ARE DIRECT EXPERIENCE!! Because you are direct experience you ARE ALWAYS in control!!! Get this through your head! What you do not understand is spirituality is ALSO SELF-DECEPTION!! You have to test everything and see what is true!! Think about it, if you are not in control who is controlling it? If there is no ME, then that means there is some ME controlling something. THIS IS DUALITY. Stop creating duality. If you create duality FEAR WILL ALWAYS CONTROL YOU. 3. You CAN be awake without substances. All you have to do is remove all dualities. The thing with consciousness is it always reflects the model of the experience you have. Remember the ego is a filer, so if you erect a dual filter that is what it will show you. If you are attached to something that is what it will show you. Your direct experience is always telling you what your filter settings are. Your settings are I like this, I don't like this and all it does it bring that to the surface. It's why the famous old spiritual teaching of you see a rope that you think is a snake you are scared then when you realize its just a rope the fear is removed. Why did this happen? Because you think a snake is dangerous but a rope is safe. So you see? YOU CONTROLLED THE FEAR. Fear is based on identity and identity is framing which is the same as interpretation!! This means you BETTER FIGURE OUT WHAT YOUR TRUE IDENTITY IS SO YOU CAN FRAME IT PROPERLY!! 4. When you say there is no I, NO ME, NO CONTROLLER, You are not taking accountability, you are offloading it off to some mysterious OTHER, which is what duality is. All you have to do is say everything I perceive is I!!! When you go to sleep at night and wake up from the dream you don't think there was someone controlling the dream. You think dang why did I dream that, or MY DREAM LAST NIGHT WAS CRAZY!! Well guess what your current dream right now is CRAZY!!!

You can, that's just a limiting belief you created.

The screen of awareness is the ground. The screen of awareness is the source The source is itself. You put yourself to sleep when you word it the way you do.

You were good until you used the term separate self. That term confuses people. There is no separate self, if I take a gun and shoot this separate self you refer to, notice that the dream will end. The self is the dream itself. The character is not separate. They use the term separate self for you to unattached your identity from the avatar to all that is perceived. So its a relative pointer, but the problem most have is they keep demonizing the character and saying oh it doesn't exist, and all this other nonsense. The dream is absolute truth, the character is not separate from the dream. Therefore the character is also absolute truth. The character is a filter of absolute truth, so how can it actually be separate? It can't. It's only separate in relation to the teaching that seeks to expand the identity of the spiritual seeker. This is the barrier that stops many from fully awakening.

When you fully awaken you experience both Oneness and Duality. The only reason you fall asleep when you talk to a person is because you become Self-Conscious. This comes from a fear of making a mistake, you are afraid of hurting the other person because you have heavily conditioned yourself on manners, you also have subtle things you might not like about yourself that can come up. So here is my question. Without taking any substance, can you sit on a bench and experience those that walk by as yourself? If you have you have broken through. Nothing wrong with microdosing but you want to make this your baseline without having to take a substance or meditate for 40 minutes. If it's not your daily experience under these conditions you still have a little resistance left within you. But still count yourself lucky because most humans will never attain the level you are currently at already.