SeaMonster

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  1. I think you're far ahead of many men because at least you're ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS. So feel good about that. You have to flip the switch in your mind and acknowledge a simple truth. Just because a girl is hot doesn't mean she's worthy of being with you. This eludes a huge number of men because of their biology AND programming. In order to actually FEEL THIS you need to start treating yourself right and center your life around doing right by YOU, with all its implications, from consistently meeting the most basic needs to setting the most ambitious and far-reaching goals: in other words succeeding at all levels of the Maslow Pyramid. You go from the bottom up, of course, if you need to know how to start.
  2. Wow...mindblowing... How is this any kind of new or original teaching? This is the core of Red Pill -- alpha fux, beta bucks. Are his followers completely r*tarded? Thanks for saving me 90 minutes of "already know" shit.
  3. LOL. No offense, but you guys are stupid, or to be more precise "gullible". I'm 5-8 and it's NEVER been an issue for me. I get interest from women close to 6 feet. You simply refuse to understand the concept that what women say online (or even in real life) and how they actually behave aren't one and the same.
  4. It already exists -- it's called Black Pill. Won't make your life better, but if anything misery loves company . Maybe changing one thing about your life would be a good start towards hope.
  5. The more awakened you are, the fewer compulsions and more choices you have as far as behavior. You can choose to be either self-seeking or to serve others. "Manipulation" isn't good or bad. You can manipulate people to free them from their psychological problems or to extract resources from them. The choice is yours.
  6. Make changes to reduce stress. Sleep better, eat better, exercise regularly, less screen time.
  7. "Practicing facing fear" is a bullshit cope from the pickup community. Talking to a hot girl isn't some monumental accomplishment. The difference between talking to a hot girl and finding a hot girl worth talking to, then actually becoming romantically involved with her is huge. This thread is full of guys with low self-esteem, parroting 20 year old Mystery propaganda even if they don't realize it. Mystery had terrible self-esteem. His one way of assuaging it was to "Get 10s" (he couldn't keep them, but he got them.) Think about it -- an integral part of Mystery Method is FAKE SCREENING. It's a tactic, not genuine screening of a girl to see if you want to be with her. It is assumed if she is hot you want to be with her. The problem with the pickup community is that it always paid lip service to Inner Game, but was never actually serious about it. Too difficult, and most guys don't want to make difficult changes in their lives.
  8. Imagine doing cold approach just to meet women. This seems like one massive way to avoid self-improvement, actually making friends and networking. Imagine thinking most gorgeous women are actually worth your time just by virtue of their being gorgeous. Not pickup doctrine/brainwashing at all.
  9. I was going to respond to this on the other thread, but it's been closed, so... In my experience, it's completely the opposite. If you're really smart, the easiest women to bang are women right at your level of intelligence. The reason is obvious: they are more likely to be attracted to a guy at least AT or ABOVE their level of intelligence, so they have a smaller pool to choose from. (Not that they won't bang dumber "hot" guys, but they usually won't like it for long and complain about it.) They are super-easy in my experience. Less smart women do not shit test less, it's an instinctive response, not a conscious strategy involving complicated logic. The hardest women to get are hot dumb women imo, they tend not to like "nerds" and can sniff them out a mile away.
  10. It's part of pickup community doctrine, and frankly it's nonsense. If you have poor social skills and poor game, it's a hell of a lot easier to practice both on women in your social circle than doing Cold Approach where you will probably be doing some variation of Mystery Method, which works very well if you're an attention-seeking narcissist like Mystery, but is an uphill climb for a lot of guys. Back to the social circle: that's where you practice your social skills first and foremost. If you can't even manage to make it work with a few select people who are presumably on your wavelength (whether intellectually, or have common interests or compatible personalities, etc.) then good luck going up to a complete stranger and having to jump through many more hoops to establish rapport, and attraction, and comfort, and then pull. As far as practicing game on women in your social circle, it's a simple kind of game: you mostly ignore them and talk to the guys, until they start hitting on you (from subtly to obviously.) So to put it in MM terms, you DHV, ignore, then wait for IOIs, then engage and run the latter part of MM. (When I say ignore, I don't mean "completely ignore", like don't talk to them at all, but simply be polite and social but don't show romantic interest at all.) Social circle provides comfort automatically, it provides social proof automatically -- it shortcuts many aspects of Cold Approach, all the hoops you have to jump through. All you need to do is generate attraction, and that's easy enough if there are enough women.
  11. Sure, a treadmill is fine if that's what suits you better and what you will use regularly.
  12. Sure, you might have trauma and hate your parents or something. If there aren't close emotional connections with family you could compensate via universal philosophies.
  13. I don't know that he's particularly worse than Stalin (even with the issue of Jewish extermination, Stalin was going to carry it out via forced resettlement to the Jewish Autonomous Oblast, which was basically a swamp. Stalin simply gets more points for dying before carrying it out.) The gulags alone put Stalin at least tied for 1st place.
  14. Something that doesn't work takes forever, so there's that. It's not a choice between "something that takes a long time" and "something that takes a short time." It's a choice between "something that may take some indeterminate but reasonable amount of time" vs. "something that takes forever."
  15. What the fuck does that even mean? If you make money, you're part of a system (you pay taxes, e.g. unless you're a criminal.) If you don't make money, you depend on someone else making money, so you're part of the system even if indirectly. I always roll my eyes at this forum rhetoric. "Functional member of society" -- what a horror!
  16. I mean, that's a half-truth at best. Women make the first move ALL THE FUCKING TIME; that is ALL THEY DO. It's just that the first move they make is so subtle, most guys are too untrained or in-their-head to notice it, or too chickenshit to act on it. And as far as best options, this leads to a discussion of "what percentage of women that make this aforementioned first move will you be attracted to?" I would say in my experience it's at least 10 to 20% of the time. The problem with cold approach is the same as with cold calling in sales in the old days: it's highly inefficient.
  17. Does it matter? Beliefs/teachings can't be true or false, they can only be useful or useless, helpful or harmful (and then depending on the context as well.)
  18. Just notice the obvious logical contradiction: perfectionism is imperfect because it keeps you from accomplishing many of your goals. *head explodes*
  19. I don't know what country/culture/locality you live in, so it's hard to assess what is real risk and what is imagined risk. I would have to know the specifics. Can you afford a stationary bike, e.g.? It could be a good intermediate step (and they're great for bad weather days.)
  20. I mean, you don't have to tell people you're going to start a business until you've actually started the business (as in, set up an online presence and whatnot.) There may be good reason you have trouble telling people this: some part of you may be trying to protect you from sounding like someone who just talks but doesn't actualize his goals.
  21. If you're stuck in a cycle -- TRY SOMETHING NEW. And not just a variation on the same old theme, but fundamentally new, like an activity you wouldn't normally consider (and if it makes you uncomfortable, good.) To get unstuck you need neuroplasticity.
  22. You're right -- I am missing the point, because what you wrote here is contradictory. Is it "results" or is it "be social and have fun"?
  23. If you are a naturally feminine woman, there is no reason to be super-ambitious because of the indoctrination of rah-rah feminism. That's great for naturally masculine women with high testosterone but it's not for everyone. You see these women crying about it on social media because they are clearly trying to fit into some mold they are ill-suited for. It's perfectly fine to be a wife/homemaker/whatever if that's what suits you best. You have to know where you fit between the extremes and what the appropriate balance is for you; no-one can tell you what's right for you in this regard (they would only be projecting their beliefs onto you.) If you want to work just enough to make a living while you're single, that's fine.
  24. I don't believe they had nothing going for them, at least in the more subjective areas like game/social skills, so I suspect you are not evaluating them appropriately.